posted December 30, 2014 10:23 PM            

I'm pretty sure that there is a mutual attraction, but I think I'm going to have to make a move for anything to happen.

I wanted to get a general reading about the situation. How he feels about me, and what will happen if I admit my feelings for him.

My first initial is J and his is W.

posted January 13, 2015 05:27 AM            

Current situation: Eight of Wands - Eight of Swords - Two of Cups

Cards indicate some pain in a past, perhaps you feel/felt trapped in a heart matters? Did you feel like a victim in a past relationship? But with eight of Wands and two of Cups I think that your life right now has been and it will be so much better than in a past. Especially Two of Cups can indicate meeting of an equal person; equal in minds, in hearts. Do you feel that you have deeper connection with this guy or it is just physical attraction? If it’s more, I dare to say, that he will have special meaning for you in a future.

Outcome: Knight of Pentacles - Three of Pentacles – Three of Swords

Is this guy a fire sign (astrological)? Or has he perhaps fire quite strong in his natal chart?

I think, you need to tell him, that you are attracted to him.

I see this guy as someone who will heal your heart. As someone who will bring you optimism back in your life regarding love matters. Someone with whom you can build something strong from the roots up.

Now, perhaps there could be some pain in this relationship between you two (because of three of Swords, but I wouldn’t mind that much of that card, since all other cards are positive in general!) but I think that IF there will be pain, this pain could mostly be just you having a bit harder time to trust him because of past experience.

All in all I see that there could be something beautiful between you two.

posted January 13, 2015 09:29 AM            

What will happen if you tell him how you feel? Crossroad + Mice = Flowers: I think you've been overthinking this. I don't get the impression a long confession is necessary. A simple request for a meet, like a coffee or drink, would suffice. Let things take their course from there. I think you'll be pleased with the outcome. Even if he doesn't accept, I think you'll be relieved to quit wondering how he feels. I do believe he will accept, but I don't think you'll go wrong either way.

posted January 13, 2015 11:03 PM            

I think the current situation is spot on! 8 of Wands- something I want to tell him, 8 of Swords-me not making a move and holding myself back, and the 2 of Cups-me being infatuated with this guy. I think the feelings are mutual, but I've said a few things that might have given him the impression that I'm not single.

As for the outcome cards, I'm not as clear on those. I can see him as a Knight of Pentacles. I don't know him that well, but he seems like a total gentleman, very respectful and responsible. 3 of Pentacles can be work related and I did meet him at his work. He works for a business that I deal with in my line of work, so maybe I will only have a work related relationship with him. The 3 of Swords scares me because I always see that as one of the most negative cards.

I was hurt by my ex. We were together for 14 years, and he was verbally and at times physically abusive. The abuse didn't start for years, so I definitely have trouble trusting people. I still love my ex, but things were very unhealthy between us. I fear getting caught up in a similar situation of being in love with someone that is incapable of having a healthy relationship.

I don't know this guy's birthday, but I think he's a Cancer Sun(like my ex), and I've noticed everyone I'm attracted to has at least one personal planet in Aries. So I'm sure there's fire somewhere in his chart. I'm definitely more than just physically attracted to him.

It feels very fated and heavy, so that's what scares me. I moved over 1,000 miles to start a new life, and I met this guy a week later. The weird thing is that he's from my home state, from a small town where I had planned to go to finish my degree, but I changed my major. My sister and cousin went to that university. There are so many coincidences and serendipitous events with this guy. I've also thought things before he says them, so I don't know if I'm reading his mind or he's reading mine. I'm an empath, but it seems to go both ways with him.

I hope the heartache is in the past. I could definitely see myself falling for this guy, which is why I'm proceeding with caution.

posted January 13, 2015 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by SpiritualSadie:
How he feels about you? Stork + Sun = Birds: He has positive feelings towards you and would be happy to hear from you (Curious, did you meet on facebook or another form of online means?)

What will happen if you tell him how you feel? Crossroad + Mice = Flowers: I think you've been overthinking this. I don't get the impression a long confession is necessary. A simple request for a meet, like a coffee or drink, would suffice. Let things take their course from there. I think you'll be pleased with the outcome. Even if he doesn't accept, I think you'll be relieved to quit wondering how he feels. I do believe he will accept, but I don't think you'll go wrong either way.

I asked if this cold turn into something if you ask him out. Mice + Garden = Tree. I think it has the potential to turn into something long term. The key is to try to stop overthinking things and enjoy each day as it comes.

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Thank you SpiritualSadie!

I'm just starting to dabble in Lenormand, and the card combinations. Overall the reading looks rather positive though, so that's good news.

I'm pretty sure he does like me, he lights up every time he sees me, and goes out of his way to help me. The thing is that he is friendly to everyone, so I don't know if I'm getting any special treatment or if that's how he is in general. I met him at his work, he is the manager there, so I think he might be trying to stay professional by not asking me out.

As far as over thinking things, I'm a Scorpio Sun and Mercury, with 5 planets in the 8th house. I don't make any decision without having a well planned strategy. . I think all I have to do is let him know that I'm interested in him, BUT since I frequently go to his work it would make things incredibly awkward if he's not interested. I don't think I could ever talk to him again if that happened. That's what's holding me back. He also makes me really nervous, which is not a feeling I'm used to. I'm used to sitting back and letting guys get caught in my web, where there's no escape. I usually don't have to chase them down like this.

posted January 14, 2015 12:15 AM            

so, who if any of these will i marry ?

DBis

MVas

JNor

leave your question and i will exchange with you.

posted January 14, 2015 12:57 AM            

None of these three really jump out at me. I am thinking that you are not presently seeing them all at the moment. Are 2 of them exes? I think that if you were truly in love enough to commit to marriage, there would only be one name on that list. If you married any of them it would probably be for the wrong reasons. Either not wanting to be alone or for security, but not because you're in love. Sorry, but that's the feeling I'm getting.

posted January 14, 2015 01:53 AM            

I think you'll know who you want to marry when one man makes you forget about the others, and you know you can quit looking. Not necessarily falling in love right away, but just recognizing who truly has long term potential.