Author
|
Topic: Why doesn't he contact me?
|
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
|
posted January 04, 2015 09:38 AM
It's a bit annoying to ask this, but… If someone has time and will, please, can someone give me insight – what do the cards say, why doesn’t he contact me? Will he contact me in next week or so? Thank you!
IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 04:02 PM
Friendly bump. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1479 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 04:29 PM
I dont use cards but I can try with intuition if you want maybe it gives you some insightdo you want? IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 04:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: I dont use cards but I can try with intuition if you want maybe it gives you some insightdo you want?
Yes, please. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1479 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 04:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca: It's a bit annoying to ask this, but… If someone has time and will, please, can someone give me insight – what do the cards say, why doesn’t he contact me? Will he contact me in next week or so? Thank you!
I am not picking up contact for this week or next week, I am sorry ! But I am not best on time frames so I may aswell be wrong, but after next week feels more promising. As to why, well he feels cought up in other things to me, he feels as if family and/or job things got him cought up and he is busy sorting his life out, figuring out next moves and also like there was some drama around him and he is now avoiding it. Did you try initiating, if you have not, if you feel its time to do so, do it. And after you do, detach from the outcome and stop feeding the universe with "he still has not" because you will get more of "has not" in return. It does not feel as its personal to you but keeping you distant is the best way he knows how to deal with things now IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 04:46 PM
Actually that resonates a lot with whole situation! *** EDIT *** Thank you so much for that intuitivefish!
IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1479 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 04:58 PM
you are welcome. Well the most I feel now is that he does still have feelings for you but they are underneeth all this going on with him. He needs to clear out all that before he can come forward to you. He knows it would not be fair do drag you into this while he has not dealt with everything. He does not feel negative about you he is only not putting you as a priority right now. You need to try and understand this from his view and not see it as about you right now. would you want a man who is a mess right now? I doubt it. So try and busy yourself and he will come around in time, not a long time, but in time sometimes men find it hard to deal with many things at once so it takes a bit more time than seems "normal" IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 05:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: you are welcome. Well the most I feel now is that he does still have feelings for you but they are underneeth all this going on with him. He needs to clear out all that before he can come forward to you. He knows it would not be fair do drag you into this while he has not dealt with everything. He does not feel negative about you he is only not putting you as a priority right now. You need to try and understand this from his view and not see it as about you right now. would you want a man who is a mess right now? I doubt it. So try and busy yourself and he will come around in time, not a long time, but in time sometimes men find it hard to deal with many things at once so it takes a bit more time than seems "normal"
Thank you for that too! It's just that I would really, really like to help him somehow, because I know that he must be in a bad place right now. I know I would be, if I were him. I don't want to lose him as a friend... I don't want him to think that he can't trust me anymore. Thank you, again. It helped a lot! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1479 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 05:16 PM
my thought is, when you feel its right, reach out and try to show him exactly this, dont lose someone over pride, trust me, it will be worth it.sometimes it takes a small risk. i am not saying text him today, but once you feel you waite enough, try it, it cannot hurt IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 05:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: my thought is, when you feel its right, reach out and try to show him exactly this, dont lose someone over pride, trust me, it will be worth it.sometimes it takes a small risk. i am not saying text him today, but once you feel you waite enough, try it, it cannot hurt
I will. I just have to wait a little bit... Thank you, your words mean a lot!! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1479 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 05:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca: I will. I just have to wait a little bit... Thank you, your words mean a lot!!
Good luck IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 3034 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
|
posted January 06, 2015 05:23 PM
Lostsoulrebecca Would you like to exchange? I have a question about what Issac thinks or feels about me?
I will brb with yours
IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 05:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: Lostsoulrebecca Would you like to exchange? I have a question about what Issac thinks or feels about me?
Honestly, I don't trusts myself that much, when it comes to card reading. But if you want to, yes, sure. IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 501 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014
|
posted January 06, 2015 05:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by venuscorpio86: I have a question about what Issac thinks or feels about me?
I think you are much better at reading cards than I am, so here are cards that I pulled for you (and the interpretation, but please, if you would interpret those card differently, feel free to do it – I really still have doubts when it comes down to interpretation).
Nine of Cups – Judgment – Wheel of Fortune What is your relationship with him – is he your ex/crush/ relative? Well, I would say that he has positive feelings towards you. If he is someone that you are interested in, than I think he is also very interested in you too. But it is you who should do step towards him. Nine of Cups: I would say that he likes you a lot, but maybe is not making a move on you because he wants you to make (first) step? Judgment: Well, I think that this card suggests that there is a make or break time for you right now when it comes to relationship with him. Think clear about what do you want from him and then make step towards your wish. Wheel of Fortune: could it be that he is your soulmate? Just asking because I have already seen this card to have that kind of meaning. However I think, again, this card indicates that you should take action to make sure that this, what you wish, happens. Does this have any sense for your current situation with Issac? Sorry, if I was not that much of a help to you... IP: Logged |