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cherful24
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posted January 11, 2015 09:16 PM
  
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BNY10
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posted January 11, 2015 09:27 PM
Where will I be working? I want to move to Manhattan. Can you tell me anything specific to help me out during my job search. What industry? Where exactly in Manhattan will it be?Thank You. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted January 11, 2015 09:31 PM
I want to know if Dan is going to get over his anger or his hurt. and will he at least contact me and maybe we can start fresh? Do you see if we'll be together in the future at some point? Also wanted to know what he really thought of me and if you thought I was attractive enough for himIP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted January 11, 2015 09:34 PM
This is exciting! I can feel ur energy in the city. So I think it's going to happen. ...do u enjoy sales? I think that is where u can make ur Mark and get your foot into whatever industry you really want. I think you have the charisma and that certain look to be successful. & I don't mean like insurance sales I mean like selling a business product. Whether that's pharmaceutical or some thing else I can make these busy people's lives easier in their practice run more efficient. I'm seeing relatively easy transition so I don't know if you know anyone there already or if you're sending out your resumes now to head hunters are companies, but I think you need to search out the company that you want to work for and directly send your resume to them instead of something like an employment search or using a search firm quote:
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Where will I be working? I want to move to Manhattan. Can you tell me anything specific to help me out during my job search. What industry? Where exactly in Manhattan will it be?Thank You.
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BNY10
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posted January 11, 2015 09:44 PM
Dan seems pretty hurt and angry still. To be honest, he doesn't want to get over it. He feels like you haven't done enough to erase his anger by fixing things. He feels like your playing games;to him, your actions seem disingenuous. I think he believes this is over. To start afresh, you would have to put in a lot of effort to fix everything you have done and he believes you are purposely withholding things/info. He feels like he is the only one, who had things taken away, and he shouldn't have to give up anything to get back what was taken. I don't want a job in sales, so I know I won't apply for one. Do you see me getting a human resources job? Are you able to see the name of the company? Anything related to the name? IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted January 11, 2015 09:47 PM
Does it show if I should reach out to him again? What should I say? does it say if there's anything I can do to make this better?
...and can I ask what he thought of me and if I he thought I was attractive enough
And I'll be right back with yours
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Originally posted by BNY10:
Dan seems pretty hurt and angry still. To be honest, he doesn't want to get over it. He feels like you haven't done enough to erase his anger by fixing things. He feels like your playing games;to him, your actions seem disingenuous. I think he believes this is over. To start afresh, you would have to put in a lot of effort to fix everything you have done and he believes you are purposely withholding things/info. He feels like he is the only one, who had things taken away, and he shouldn't have to give up anything to get back what was taken. I don't want a job in sales, so I know I won't apply for one. Do you see me getting a human resources job? Are you able to see the name of the company? Anything related to the name?
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cherful24
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posted January 11, 2015 09:56 PM
so maybe it's not you selling but you actually working for that type of company like a pharmaceutical company or a company that's in marketing that sell the product to business. You wouldn't have anything to do with like training would you? I don't see you working with HR paperwork like w2 forms but I see you presenting in front of people and therefore I'm getting trainingIP: Logged |
BNY10
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posted January 11, 2015 09:57 PM
No, don't reach out to him. He is still angry, and I think every time he is reminded of you, he is in pain. He wants to move on. You remind him of a past that is filled with pain, deceit, wasted time, and just moving further from achieving his goals and dreams. You remind him of a place where he doesn't want to be anymore. You can try to change things around by your actions. You can answer his questions with honesty to show him that you have his best interest. Show him that you are not his enemy, but someone who can be compassionate. Understand his situation. Don't make it harder for him. He wants to focus on himself. Let him. You need to go do your thing instead of focusing on him so much also. I think your suffocating him especially since he doesn't want you around anymore. Show him your honest, and have no intention on making his life worse than it already is, then he might come around. But I don't see a relationship between you two.Summary: Don't contact him. He will contact you, and if and when he does, answer his questions with honesty and sincerity, and help get his life back on track through ACTIONS and not just words. FOCUS on yourself also. DO NOT expect this to happen. Make sure you are meeting people. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted January 11, 2015 09:58 PM
I actually just texted him again saying that I was really sorry and all that stuff so maybe that will help to ease some of his hurtIP: Logged |
BNY10
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posted January 11, 2015 10:05 PM
I want a job in human resources. It's pretty much the only thing I can do right now. That's the only job I am searching for. There are so many places though in Manhattan. Can you somehow cut down on the places?Thank You. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted January 11, 2015 10:09 PM
look for jobs that are hiring for a trainer. I only see the type of industry that sells products again pharmaceutical industry is coming up for me so maybe that's it...can you answer the other questions so I want to know what he really thought of me when we were dating as of yesterday and if you thought I was attractive enough for him quote:
Originally posted by BNY10:
I want a job in human resources. It's pretty much the only thing I can do right now. That's the only job I am searching for. There are so many places though in Manhattan. Can you somehow cut down on the places?Thank You.
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BNY10
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posted January 11, 2015 10:17 PM
I can't pick up on the attraction. All I can pick up his intense hate and anger. It's clouding up every other thought. What do you mean by training? What will I be training? EDIT: So I found a job for the city, it;s a human resources TRAINING assistant job. Should I apply for it? The thing is, the job is temporary. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
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posted January 12, 2015 08:38 AM
Yes!!!!!! quote:
Originally posted by BNY10:
I can't pick up on the attraction. All I can pick up his intense hate and anger. It's clouding up every other thought. What do you mean by training? What will I be training? EDIT: So I found a job for the city, it;s a human resources TRAINING assistant job. Should I apply for it? The thing is, the job is temporary.
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