posted January 17, 2015 11:05 AM            

Could i ask your opinion if u have time.

is he interested in someone else???
he is very attractive and women may chase him,i suspected R and D that they like him and follow him in his job...is he interested for R or D?he said that both are friends but spend much time with them and i am bit annoyed as D is co worker and R is roommate.

posted January 17, 2015 11:41 AM            

No I dont see him with anyone now. Yes he likes to flirt and yes he likes the attention of other girls but he is not interested in others that way now.
I feel that what he says is true, they are friends and even thugh its tough sorry to say but you have no "claim" on him.
He will talk to you soon but he needs it to be on his terms and when he wants it, and this is because he needs to feel like a man doing the chasing. So these girls chasing him is not how he likes things to be. HE likes to make all the moves and likes to be in control.
Yes you could contact him but remember it will make you even sadder if he does not reply and it will be best to leave him come to you and not make it easier on him and in a way force the contact.

posted January 17, 2015 12:05 PM            

yours
3 coins knight cups 4 swords

Well February will be a favourable month because it looks like that you will work out the issues that you have,you will communicate putting efforts about the proble,s that you are facing with him,may one of both offer smth romantic to other or will be more sensitive,it is posdible to meet him and your stress will be gone bit be careful and use more ypur logic,4 swords gives me the sense that in the end you will have distance again because he would like to rest emotionally and physically he it ready perhaps for a complete reconcilation
Hope helps

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
my Q - what does Feb bring for me and A ?

No I dont see him with anyone now. Yes he likes to flirt and yes he likes the attention of other girls but he is not interested in others that way now.
I feel that what he says is true, they are friends and even thugh its tough sorry to say but you have no "claim" on him.
He will talk to you soon but he needs it to be on his terms and when he wants it, and this is because he needs to feel like a man doing the chasing. So these girls chasing him is not how he likes things to be. HE likes to make all the moves and likes to be in control.
Yes you could contact him but remember it will make you even sadder if he does not reply and it will be best to leave him come to you and not make it easier on him and in a way force the contact.

sorry you feel so sad

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posted January 17, 2015 12:11 PM            

No I dont think that he lost interest I meant more he is not making any actions towards you and it is because he does not want to lead you on while he is not ready to be with anyone right now.

sorry I dont understand you last sentance -
"he would like to rest emotionally and physically he it ready perhaps for a complete reconcilation "

posted January 17, 2015 12:26 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
thank you Tonia.

No I dont think that he lost interest I meant more he is not making any actions towards you and it is because he does not want to lead you on while he is not ready to be with anyone right now.
sorry I dont understand you last sentance -
"he would like to rest emotionally and physically he it ready perhaps for a complete reconcilation "

he woud like to rest so that he can be ready or what did you mean?

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posted January 17, 2015 12:28 PM            

if you wish to ask more, do

posted January 17, 2015 05:10 PM            

Yes i would like to ask one more,do you see us at next meeting getting physical if i will ask him to meet us?

posted January 18, 2015 04:52 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
ok thanks tonia that makes sense !

if you wish to ask more, do

I have something else to ask:
- does he miss me or what does he think about when he thinks about me?

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I think that he is thinking of you and perhaps he saw some dreams with you,this making him real stressed,i think that his mind is on clounds and he would to calm down a bit,for him you are a beautiful woman sensual that you have all the package that he desires,may he is feeling deep for you making him afraid by this feeling.moon gives me that sense

moon 4 swords empress

posted January 18, 2015 09:25 AM            

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Originally posted by tonia:
I could not stand :-DDDD i already contacted him and we arranged for Wed, yes how he is feeling about that meeting with me??

yours?

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posted January 18, 2015 09:30 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
A is dating/seeing some girl now, will there be an end to this soon? ( soon I mean maybe feb or march)

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A is socializing going out and having fun,may he is flirting at some parties that he is going having a lot of choices to date someone but no...i dont think so that he is dating someone right know...in the picture of 2 swords The woman sits on a stone seat and holds two Swords crossed at her heart.  The Swords held at this position give us the impression that she is protecting her heart from something. he is currently choosing to keep his eyes closed to possibilities so that he does not have to make a difficult choice.he is not ready to start something new now.

4 wands/7cups/2 swords

Anything else? :-) :-*

posted January 18, 2015 09:33 AM            

so I am not sure how this goes with my question?

posted January 18, 2015 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
thank you but I dont quite understand :/ because I know ( for fact) he spends time with her.

so I am not sure how this goes with my question?

I am sorry lol I am really confused now

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Sorry i asked it differently about his emotional situation,I dont think that it is something serious going out having fun no emotions there,with 2 swords i am gonna say that he is avoiding to go on deeper way,

he is feeling comfortable with her and have a lot of conservations may flirting wih her but nothing deeper(magician and 10 coins) he will continue on Feb to meet her, (9 cups) having fun and good time drinking and joining parties

but on March i think that he will put on pause( 7 coins) He has learned some hard and painful lessons out on the street and had much time to reflect on any mistakes he made and where he might possibly have gone wrong.so on March he will not have really good mood to go out with her and with anyone,i sense that he will think if it is worth all this,he focus his attentions on bettering his circumstances so that he is ready for the final phase and more meaningful phase in his life

posted January 18, 2015 10:48 AM            

it does make sense.

posted January 18, 2015 10:50 AM            

Nice one,i will ask ♡♡♡

posted January 20, 2015 08:34 AM            

I actually read this while going home from work and I got an image of you laughing and having a good time. I feel like you will be much lighter in energy and so will he, he feels still a bit not sure what to say and not sure what to do. But I do feel him be flirty, Iam still not sure if he will kiss you or if I only feel you both wanting to.
I think you will comment to see him again and he will smile. you will walk to some place and I feel he will want to hold your hand.
Other than this I dont get much more, only to relax and just have a smile on your face.

Could you please check something for me?

posted January 21, 2015 08:21 AM            

may he doesnt want to see me really!!

posted January 21, 2015 12:52 PM            

I am sorry he cancled but I did feel this the first time I told you what I felt sorry.

posted January 21, 2015 02:09 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you very much Tonia.

I am sorry he cancled but I did feel this the first time I told you what I felt :( sorry.

He does want to see you and he still will make plans but I keep feeling him be hesitant and not so confident in that he needs to decide.

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Thank you

he called me because he understood that i was dissapointed and we talked a lot, it is ok now :)