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Topic: @cherful
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intuitivefish
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posted February 05, 2015 08:09 AM
  
Hi ! how are things with your work?would you like to exchange? IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted February 05, 2015 08:50 AM
Sure. I didn't go in...I've been sick but I'm going in today.
I just don't care anymore. But she was nice on Monday, like nothing ever happened. Who knows what she's up, if anything. I obviously don't trust her or anyone else there. They all throw everyone under the bus.
My q is...a CEO at another hospital got my resume from a mutual friend. He responded back saying he's going to send it to the director of hr....do u see if anything will come out of that??
What's urs? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted February 05, 2015 08:56 AM
My Q is - I've been feeling down about things with A, because of lack of communicatipn and of "her" still.What do you get for this month? Any improvements? Brb IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted February 05, 2015 08:59 AM
Yes I do feel so, I get a really good word will be said about you. I feel you might be offered something, that it will be something that you will think about strongly. I do pick up you doscussing some ideas and also an offer for a good position for you. This came in right time for you. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted February 05, 2015 09:42 AM
I get a sense that you should not feel down. But I think it's because he's with her, for the Time being, so I get a sense that u have to allow it and except it. But this doesn't seem like a permanent thing. So maybe he's helping her with something or maybe this is really just short lived but I sense that you know he's with her I need to see to come to terms with it.
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
My Q is - I've been feeling down about things with A, because of lack of communicatipn and of "her" still.What do you get for this month? Any improvements? Brb
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intuitivefish
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posted February 05, 2015 10:23 AM
Thank you, it does make sense, others said similar that its short lived.Do you want to ask more? I did have something else to ask if its ok. I have this ex "I" who I have broken up with a long long time ago.
But he has tried to get me to talk to him for the past 2 years. I ignore his attempts but he still tries.
For reasons I dont want to say here I keep away and want to keep it that way. My Q is, why have I bumped into him now in early morning when I go to work? 2 times now and he doesnt even live closr.
Whats behind this syncinc of the universe?
He then texts me but I dont reply. Is there a reason for all this?
He is very much an ******* who I dont want or care for but cant get rid of IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted February 05, 2015 10:34 AM
SureCan u see when, if, I'll be taking another job...how will the pay be? will it be in some form of leadership not necessarily management but some form of leadership such as having a top position.
QUOTE]Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you, it does make sense, others said similar that its short lived.
Do you want to ask more? I did have something else to ask if its ok. I have this ex "I" who I have broken up with a long long time ago.
But he has tried to get me to talk to him for the past 2 years. I ignore his attempts but he still tries.
For reasons I dont want to say here I keep away and want to keep it that way. My Q is, why have I bumped into him now in early morning when I go to work? 2 times now and he doesnt even live closr.
Whats behind this syncinc of the universe?
He then texts me but I dont reply. Is there a reason for all this?
He is very much an ******* who I dont want or care for but cant get rid of[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 05, 2015 10:45 AM
if you're looking for closure or if you're looking for answers or if you're looking to feel at peace with the situation then this is your chance. I don't think you're going to get it again. Its your choice though whatever you want to do. Ask yourself if you need a cathartic release in terms of your situation with him and if so you might want to let him speak to you. But think about it in another year from now or two years if you were still thinking about the situation or if you're still upset about it, this would be the time now then to get yourself at peace with it.
QUOTE]Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you, it does make sense, others said similar that its short lived.
Do you want to ask more? I did have something else to ask if its ok. I have this ex "I" who I have broken up with a long long time ago.
But he has tried to get me to talk to him for the past 2 years. I ignore his attempts but he still tries.
For reasons I dont want to say here I keep away and want to keep it that way. My Q is, why have I bumped into him now in early morning when I go to work? 2 times now and he doesnt even live closr.
Whats behind this syncinc of the universe?
He then texts me but I dont reply. Is there a reason for all this?
He is very much an ******* who I dont want or care for but cant get rid of[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 05, 2015 11:13 AM
thank you. well I am at peace and I dont need any closure so this is not something I am looking for, its not even upseting me
I was just wondering if there is any reason I have been bumping into him, we just noticed each other 2 times on public transport which is not common since he does not live in the cirty, so I wonderered if there is anything "behind" this happening, and him not letting go despite me ignoring him.
I dont want to let a man like him speak to me. I wont say why here but my reasons are strong.
again, I am not upset at all. but thank you... I do get a sense of your pay, I dont know about pay in numbers but I do get you will feel secure and it will be "ok" not so great but ok and what you are used to so far.
I feel you might lead a group but you would have someone above you, so it would be like a certain department or a group, as in 5-10 people. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 05, 2015 12:02 PM
Maybe he needs it. would you be open to giving him some sort of closure so he can move past it
QUOTE]Originally posted by intuitivefish:
thank you. well I am at peace and I dont need any closure so this is not something I am looking for, its not even upseting me
I was just wondering if there is any reason I have been bumping into him, we just noticed each other 2 times on public transport which is not common since he does not live in the cirty, so I wonderered if there is anything "behind" this happening, and him not letting go despite me ignoring him.
I dont want to let a man like him speak to me. I wont say why here but my reasons are strong.
again, I am not upset at all. but thank you.
.. I do get a sense of your pay, I dont know about pay in numbers but I do get you will feel secure and it will be "ok" not so great but ok and what you are used to so far.
I feel you might lead a group but you would have someone above you, so it would be like a certain department or a group, as in 5-10 people.[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted February 05, 2015 12:04 PM
Would the pay be more than what I make now?Also we have a staff meeting before work on Tuesday... odd.....can u see what it's about? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted February 05, 2015 12:12 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
Would the pay be more than what I make now?Also we have a staff meeting before work on Tuesday... odd.....can u see what it's about?
Pay feels about equal to me. I get there will be talk about audit and posdible changes in department. I feel like it will go smooth for you but some other people might feel at ease.
I do feel something about that audit. .. I did ask this before but I want to see if things might have change since my energy was a bit down.
My bday, end of this month, will A remember it? Text me?
Without me mentioning?
What do you get around my bday? I am not planing anything yet IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted February 05, 2015 02:50 PM
I do see he'll remember. I think he'll send something like a text...in or around ur bday. U won't have to remind himIP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted February 05, 2015 03:11 PM
thank you ! I have only 1 more, do you see any contact from him some time soon?
( this/next week or so ) leave your Q if you have more IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted February 05, 2015 03:41 PM
I would say you would hear from him by your birthday I don't know if it's next week though but yet I feel soon. Honestly I just don't no one is going to contact you but I feel it's soon and by your birthday but in all reality your birthday is soon. So if you're asking by next week it could be a reality but I don't think so
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
thank you ! I have only 1 more, do you see any contact from him some time soon?
( this/next week or so ) leave your Q if you have more
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intuitivefish
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posted February 05, 2015 03:43 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
I would say you would hear from him by your birthday I don't know if it's next week though but yet I feel soon. Honestly I just don't no one is going to contact you but I feel it's soon and by your birthday but in all reality your birthday is soon. So if you're asking by next week it could be a reality but I don't think so
thank you Cherful  hope you manage to relax your mind over this work thing atleast until next week IP: Logged |
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