posted March 22, 2015 07:06 AM            

Page of Swords – Strength Rx – Hermit

He has doubts, I think. Cards indicate him being very happy about the meeting but somehow he just isn’t quite sure yet whether going would be good idea just right now...

When it comes to yes/no questions, Hermit indicates ‘Maybe’ but Page of Swords and Strength indicate ‘most likely yes’.

I think that you will hear from him but I am not sure if you will see him today...

posted March 22, 2015 03:54 PM            

Interesting though - maybe Page of Swords was acctualy an indicator for a friend in this case... Will need to do some more research.

posted March 23, 2015 03:57 PM            

*** EDIT ***

So…

posted March 23, 2015 04:17 PM            

Right now I am drawn to say to try and work through your anger, try and just accept the situation as bad as it seems and as much as she is someone you hate, try to think of it as something that just IS right now.

As I said on the begining of this thread, they wont last, but if you belive me or not a lot of this will also have to do with your energy. The more energy you put into "them" the more their relationship will actually grow.

and I had to learn this the heard way. The less you acknowlidge HER the less important she will be

again, learned this the hard way

and now as I have this experience I can say, please trust me, trust what I say above to me true and as hard as it is, its been tested so I say this, it will help you ! yes its hard but it does get easier with time
1. stop looking at their fb
2. try putting him as only a friend and as such you dont need to be happy for him having a gf but you should accept it
3. go easy on yourself, dont push too much and just let it be, everything, just say " f*** it"
you know? sometimes, just say that and to h*** with them and him and her and work and life and parents and everything..
the more we worrry the more anxious we get and the more negative we attract, and this wil be from I dont know, being late to work, to seeing something like that on fb..

Now to the question ...

I will be honest with you, right now, they seem happy and right now they are in a stat of happiness, it feels like they put some fights behind themself and now they are just being good and happy and having a good time.
But I must say also, I dont feel like they will stay happy to make the plans they had for holiday time together, I feel like right now, this seems like something they both want and they are just being a happy couple trying to plan a nice future but my feelings tell me, they wont live to see those plans happen and the plans will crumble and probably wont happen.
I see more arguments come, but not as soon, maybe around May-June bigger arguments.
Also I get to tell you, things are not as they seem, to them, more even to her, FB is a place to show off and she goes like this to him " heeey, go like this page also" and he likes it not to fuss over it and not to get into an argument over a fb page, you get the idea right?
He is more laid back and doesnt feel like fighting back so he goes along with it, but he will snap soon enough and wont take much of her crap.

and while that happens, you will have your life more in order and you will just wave your hand and think OHhh silly them, look at me, I am so happy now.

posted March 23, 2015 04:33 PM            

I really need to care less about some things… It’s sooo silly! I feel so silly for acting this way, you know… Like – why am I acting this way if I feel that he really isn’t the right for me?!

posted March 23, 2015 04:38 PM            

no decision needs to be final and think about things good, dont ever do something because someone else said so, think it over and then decide with a cold head and not coming from a place of hate.
also dont do it to try and get a reaction out of him, you know, dont think Ohhh if I block him, or if I stop texting then maybee just maybe he will want me.
make the decisions from a good place and from a place to make your life better but not to hurt anyone.

posted March 24, 2015 05:51 PM            

......- what will he think of this text ?

posted March 24, 2015 06:54 PM            

The Chariot Rx – Nine of Swords – Ten of Wands

The Chariot Rx presents your current feelings and gives you an idea where to put your energy right now. So right now you both – but maybe he more than you – have feeling as if you have only very little control over your life. There may be even present a feeling of loss of power which can be quite demoralizing. Again, I think that he feels this much more than you do. But with this card both of you should focus your energy on what you can control; on friendship between you two; you must show him support right now.

Than Nine of Swords. Usually this is the card of fear and nightmares. Actually this card suggests that you are worrying excessively about a situation and maybe you are literally being kept up at night or have very strange dreams, nightmares even about this whole situation. How’s your sleep? I think that at least he (if not also you) has some troubles sleeping at night in these days. And this tension will get even bigger. As clarification I pulled Knight of Wands and Ace of Wands - both reversed – which shows that this whole situation is quite frustrated for him (and probably you too). Also lack of motivation is indicated, so perhaps he just has no energy right now to deal with her even though he would like just end things and go on with his own life. But I would dare to say that at this point you are not the one that has a lack of motivation. I get you more as Knight of Wands; someone who is impulsive or restless at the moment and would just like to do something, maybe to kick some a**es too But don’t do it. Not just now. It’s best for you to steer clear from her, at least for the time being.

But Ten of Wands indicates that both of you went through a lot in past weeks and right now it’s time to get reward after this whole drama around her. I think that her making this move will only bring you two closer. Maybe not physically but for sure emotionally, so I don’t think that this move of hers could hurt your communication with him.

Page of Cups – Seven of Wands Rx – Five of Pentacles

I think that the time will come for him to finally say to her what he really thinks. With the Page of Cups he will be more likely to show, express his true emotions in time. She is acting childish and he will slowly stop this whole drama with her.

Right now, with Seven of Wands Rx he feels like he is constantly being judged and criticized by others (I think by her mostly). He would really like her to just keep her mouth shut and let him be. But also this card suggests that he is trying to avoid any conflict whenever possible due to him being just too tired to deal with her.

At the end Five of Pentacles shows that they just can’t find a way for their relationship to work, so there will be a failure of their relationship. I think that the time really slowly has come for him to do a step forward and stop being treated by her like a piece of s***h. He is currently still tired of all the drama he went through in past weeks, but don’t worry, he will get his ‘mojo’ back and will show her what she deserves.

I think you really should text him, maybe something like 'I hope that you know, that you deserve so much better from this what you have now..’ or something like this. He needs to know, that he CAN get better! That she isn’t his responsibility. That he is worth of having a great girl by his side. (You know, a girl like you!) He simply needs to hear (or read) this.

When I asked, what will he think of your text, I got Four of Pentacles. I think that your text will make him emotionally secure. He is pretty shaken up right now, he is afraid of losing everything and afraid to take a risk, so he really needs to hear (as I said earlier) from you, that he can count on you. That you are there for him; emotionally and physically. But mostly emotionally since I think that his mind is messed up and he really needs someone to simply tell him ‘You know what – you deserve much better than this. You went through so much in your life already, you don’t need to take all the mediocre c**p from other people. You must not. You deserve better.’

Again, I don’t see that you two would be negatively affected by this action of her. I even think that this will bring you much closer, especially if you will give him a feeling of emotional support.

Gosh, I hope this helped... You and him don’t deserve to go through so much drama!

posted March 25, 2015 01:36 AM            

She is such a manipulative ***** its really annoying.
I do want to kick some sense into her. I am protective of what I love and she hurt what I love.

I slept ok, but it was all on my mind while falling asleep.
Its so sad! He went through **** just a few weeks ago and now again she brings him **** . She has no respect or love for him.

Thank you!!

posted March 25, 2015 01:44 AM            

But hey... what goes around, comes around.

posted March 25, 2015 09:30 AM            

For you I get that they liked your energy and enjoyed the way you spoke and the way you carried yourself.
They did see you were a little nervous but they all knew it was since you are new and it was a new thing for you, they didnt mind this.
I do believe there are some who are more interested and some who are just not interested in anything so they didnt pay much attention, this is not a reflection about you, but more how they are not in the mood to learn.
I feel that you had confidence to the outside even if inside you were nervous, I feel that this will ofcourse improve.
I do get they liked your stile of teaching. They didnt find it boring but interesting.

I do feel this will be going good for you and it will bring up your confidence generally in life it will be a right step in the right direction.

Good for you !

posted March 26, 2015 06:55 AM            

He is currently feeling at least a bit depressed because of situation (relationship) that he is in.
But the Sun card – even though it is reversed – is never negative card, so his feelings of depression are temporary. The obstacles that he has, can be easily removed, he will only his mind to it. It may just take a little more effort than usual.

With Two of Swords Rx mental confusion is indicated. He feels stuck.

With the Emperor at the end he will be able to make a step forward. The Emperor is all about power and authority and (on a card if you look at his long beard, it symbolizes experiences) about past experiences.

So I would interpret all these cards as:

After he read your message, he was confused. Maybe even more than ever before. You made him realize how horrible his relationship actually is and how much c**p he handled from her in the past.

But he has learned from experiences and will definitely use them in his future actions. With all those reversed cards I would say that he will take some time to make this important step forward. After all he just finally realized how much did she put him through. But once when he will make a decision, it will be final. And it will be good for him!

posted March 26, 2015 01:27 PM            

You were totally right about this getting us closer and about what I said making him feel better and show him how bad she has been treating him.

I think he thought he doesnt deserve better so he took what she did as "not so bad"

I was shown "proof" today of all I said was true, he texted me, asking to see me, I couldnt since I was at work but it all shows he cares and that things will be good again.

thank you on going out of your way to give me reading and thank you for the reading!!

posted March 26, 2015 05:19 PM            

I am so happy for you! And for him too. For both of you two, actually. It's about time that he finally realizes how much better he can get if only he dares to take a step forward without being scared of being left alone. Can’t wait to ‘see’ your friendship blossom!

posted March 26, 2015 05:39 PM            

Me too I cannot wait for tomorrows work day to be done. I am exhauseted.
But today was an extra lucky day for me , should have played the lottery lol