posted February 28, 2015 10:12 AM            

I donīt know though if it is going to be worth it, well, I wouldn`t want to undertake the trip if there is no joy in it. lol

Besides there is a lot of trips coming up, the one to Cornwall with my parents nad brother in april, the schooltrip at the end of june, which will be more stressful than anything else, so maybe this may-trip would be just too much trip-trouble.
Though I am partially also tempted as it curiously falls close to the date we first met 7 years ago. lol

posted February 28, 2015 11:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
so shall I?

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Mice-ring-sun
Pulled heart to clarify sun

Yep! Go for it! Heart told me Casenova

posted February 28, 2015 11:09 AM            

Can`t escape the mice I suppose. Worries, anxieties, let`s hope it is only minor worries.
Yeah, maybe I AM to see Casanova.
Even though last time I thanked him for singing that one song from Casanova, as I couldnīt make it to watch it.

Maybe I will be able to do so after all.

Funny thing though, there were exactly 2 tickets left, and I even could book a hotelroom without problems. even though it will be a bank holiday weekend.
hopefully a good sign if the booking goes so smoothly. lol

posted February 28, 2015 11:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
btw thanks for pulling for me.

Do you have some more questions?

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posted February 28, 2015 11:16 AM            

How did it affect you?

posted February 28, 2015 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by tgem:

Do you get the ringing in your ears? I do and I've come to realize I think it's Cusp. Do you get that with P at all?

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It`s funny you ask that!

Last week I was doing some thinking about the last time we met, and finally realized what had struck me so "weird" about it, except for my strange behaviour of course.

Well, the main thing I have been thinking about was the way we ended the chat. Well, when he sort of called me back, just to tell me "I wish you well", which was sort of strange. Well I turned back to him and of course reciprocrated that greeting or goodbye, but it just felt a little weird, because it is a highly unusual thing to say goodbye in this shallow circumstance. I mean either you say it to a friend, or at least someone who is a little closer than a very loose aquaitance, or it is being used if you wish someone well for a certain project (promotion for example, which was not the case), and then there is the possibility of it to be a final goodbye. A last friendly greeting before you send someone on their way to whereever, just certainly out of your life.

The thought must have been there when I came back home, but I sort of could not grasp it then.

Anyway when I did last week, I was wondering about if that was what he really meant, some sort of saying: Never ever come back here again. lol

I eventually asked my Higher Self to give me a suggestion if this meant "goodbye foreever" or was more a "goodbye until next time, whenever that may be".

That night I had trouble falling asleep, which is rare for me. I was always woken up again, because I could have sworn, I was hearing a ringing in my ears. Like a bell, but from far away, not my doorbell, but the ringing was there. I remember to be woken up like that at least twice.

But even though I had not been able to remember my dreams for weeks and have not dreamed of him for even longer, that night I did dream of him. And the bits I remember were very realistic.

Well after an awkward beginning the dream involved talking - a lot, sharing silence - a lot, and in the last part kissing - a lot. lol

I am still kinda puzzled by that. I don`t usually dream about kissing him. Well I wish I would do, but that`s beside the point I guess. lol
Also interestingly initially it did feel a little weird because of how close to a real kiss it felt.

Anyway, dreams are dreams of course, wishful thinking whatever.

Fact is he picked the day AFTER that dream to return to his facebook again, telling the world he is rehearsing his new play, and putting this drawing I described online.

The timing was a bit eery to say the least.

Well if the dream really was being a message from my guides, then it surely did not feel like goodbye forever, but it definitely felt like a shift is taking place or has been taken place, and ther eis a period of adjustment needed.

posted February 28, 2015 11:42 AM            

Eros and Psyche still one degree conjunct and additionally on his natal ASC and my Draco ASC.

his pr EROS on 00 Aries and hence right between both conjunctions.

posted February 28, 2015 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by tgem:

Astral sex...the whole thing.

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Yes, actually I was wrong he posted not after my dream but 2 days later, after when well what you described, at least the feeling was there suddenly, and a strong sense of him, and well, apart from the sexual feeling, he seemed so angry with me. Not with me personally, just I don`t know, my existence alone? lol
For some reason it did not bother me too much.

posted February 28, 2015 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Snake - anchor - coffin

no.
It seems like the stability (anchor) was being ended (coffin), possibly due to another woman (snake).

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posted February 28, 2015 11:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Yes, actually I was wrong he posted not after my dream but 2 days later, after when well what you described, at least the feeling was there suddenly, and a strong sense of him, and well, apart from the sexual feeling, he seemed so angry with me. Not with me personally, just I don`t know, my existence alone? lol
For some reason it did not bother me too much.

And well if that is what is needed to make him break the silence.

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posted February 28, 2015 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Yes, maybe it was sexual aggression :laugh:

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posted March 02, 2015 09:28 AM            

Sorry to hear that.

posted March 02, 2015 09:55 AM            

And even if he did that, yes, maybe he did so to save the face of his marriage, but I doubt that he would share this email with the whole neighbourhood. That is such a female revenge-act to do!

But even if so, while I understand how embarassing it must have been for you, I donīt see any fault in what you did. It was brave and honest, and noone could seriously judge you just for having feelings nad being honest about them.
And if they do (and we all know people can be so stupid), they are not worth your time at all.

You fell in love - so what? Big deal! It`s not like you ACTED on it or tried to break up his marriage.
You were acting straightforward, even trying to save your own marriage, that was beyond the point of saving at that point already btw.

If however he actually DID that, then yes, I understand you feeling betrayed, but not becuase you did something wrong but because he shows a really undignified side of himself, that is full of fear. And he should really work on these issues then!

But I am not convinced he did that. Not at all.