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ScorpioLove
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posted February 28, 2015 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
After 5 years of ups and downs he ended everything with me our fights were stressing him out we made it to a year of dating and still kept each other for two years, we're best friends two years before dating it just hurts so bad. Can anyone please do a reading to see if I'll ever hear for him again or not

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ikja
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posted February 28, 2015 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lots of love to you hun x

Hoping someone will read for you soon x

P.s. You should post a synastry chart and composite too.

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posted February 28, 2015 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks love. It's nice to talk to someone when you're hurting.

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posted February 28, 2015 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 01, 2015 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to hear that

King Swords-7 swords-4 coins

Not at the moment...he is very defensive and seems he may not have been upfront with you somehow.. the last card indicates he is holding on to his feelings and not willing to open up

Its very hard i know....i was with someone for 5yrs too and it ended..he is also the King Swords....i feel it is better to let go and let God here

Be gentle with yourself...what is meant for you will not pass you by

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ScorpioLove
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posted March 01, 2015 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He has always been defensive with his feelings because he knows how strong his feelings are for me but knows he can't be with me right now it just hurts because in these past 5 years we've been through everything and got over it haven't gone a day without each other and out of nowhere it's over
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/014650.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/014505.html

had these two readings done before because of all the fighting.. I literally could not fall asleep all night.

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posted March 01, 2015 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
..he probably wont change..they rarely do

Hope the reading helped

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posted March 01, 2015 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes it did thank you!

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posted March 01, 2015 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also I went to a psychic before our fight happened and she sensed I was very disconnected to him mixed signals and a lot of problems have been occurring and she sensed a really strong connection she said possibly a soulmate connection and I should give him time but then she threw in the whole buy a cleanse to keep his energy with you which ruined my whole mood lol

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posted March 01, 2015 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyone else? need to put my mind to ease feel like im in denial =/ still driving myself insane thinking and thinking..

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posted March 01, 2015 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyone?

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posted March 01, 2015 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScorpioLove:
anyone?

My deep empathy for you Scorpiolove. Sometimes we want to seek outside opinions when we know deep down what is truly going on. I know it's painful at time to sit with our gunk but through reflection a lot of things can come to light for you.

I am also experiencing pain and so I can sympathize. What is your gut telling you and truly listen to it.

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posted March 02, 2015 04:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostSoulRebecca     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear my ScorpioLove

I am so sorry to hear this. I also went through (and still some kind of going through) period of breaking up with someone who had and will still have place in my everyday life. Just not as romantic partner anymore. I can’t imagine how horrible must be the pain inside of you, I only know that it must be sooo much bigger than mine. And that just sucks.

If you are interested, I pulled cards for you (past, present, future) and I got Moon, Ten of Swords and Three of Cups.

Cards are indicating an emotionally charged time for you in a past. You may have been let down, deceived or taken advantage of. As present Ten of Swords can indicate the inevitable and often disastrous end to a relationship but this card also means that after this everything gets better (so maybe you two needed to break up so that now you two will create better, healthier relationship? I mean, it is possible...). So the last card, Three of Cups makes total sense; after this you will be rewarded with joyful time. It also symbolizes some sort of commitment!

So my dear ScorpioLove – there IS better time coming for you for sure! As calrificator to the Three of Cups I got King of Pentacles so I dare to say that you will meet a special person who ill be a perfect fit for you! (brown hair and with brown or dark eyes; mature, wise man; might have a lot of Earth in his natal chart - Taurus, Virgo and/or Capricorn; you can meet him late this year since this card belongs to the season of winter).

I wish I could help you more.

Stay strong, dear and feel free to reach out for help when needed!

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posted March 02, 2015 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Sabine, I know it just hurts so bad I'm starting to feel crazy for thinking about it too much, I had it coming but I just had hope just like any other girl that he would fight for me and keep me. Things will get better for you too.

And Lostsoulrebecca, thank you so much for the reading it is very accurate! him and i were really close best friends talked everyday for two years started dating for a year, he fell for me first i didnt like him but when i came around again he dropped everything for me.. through the relationship he never hurt me treated me the best i've been treated after the relationship was over we didn't want to lose each other so decided to stay friends, it worked out for two years talked everyday would hang out too but it just got hard out of nowhere.. and he ended it really harshly so i'm just torn apart. It's hard to stay strong but I think I can do it. thanks again! I feel a lot better by just knowing my future will be brighter than my dark past.

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posted March 02, 2015 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm glad you're feeling better. And I'm glad Lotus can clarify for you and make you feel better.

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posted March 02, 2015 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dustib     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say to give him some time to calm down. He will miss you and will reach out to you again at some point. The best thing you can do is try to heal and move forward with your life. I know it's easier said then done but do things to keep your mind off of him.

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posted March 02, 2015 12:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I would say to give him some time to calm down. He will miss you and will reach out to you again at some point. The best thing you can do is try to heal and move forward with your life. I know it's easier said then done but do things to keep your mind off of him.

That's the thing i'm scared of having hope that he's going to come back to reach out to me if he's really not, numerous times i've been told he's my soulmate his energy is always around me everytime i've been to a psychic, but for some reason he just isn't giving in this time.. i'm trying to keep my mind off of him but then i'm stuck between will he come back or is it going to be someone new.. =/

Us women are always so much more emotional/nurturing than guys.. lol i feel like they're so stubborn with their decision

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posted March 02, 2015 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dustib     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He will be back at some point...it just might take awhile. There is no need for you to rush out and try to meet someone else, take this time for you and do things you want to do. It will take your mind off of him and also help you to try to move on. That way when he comes back, he will realize you don't need him in your life but want him. Work on you right now

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posted March 02, 2015 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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He will be back at some point...it just might take awhile. There is no need for you to rush out and try to meet someone else, take this time for you and do things you want to do. It will take your mind off of him and also help you to try to move on. That way when he comes back, he will realize you don't need him in your life but want him. Work on you right now

yes i need to be more independent, lately i had been really dependent and clingy so all the fights and stuff pushed him away, did you use your intuition to figure he might reach out

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posted March 02, 2015 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dustib     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have been told I'm intuitive so just listened to what my gut was telling me as I have been told many times to do. So practicing if that's ok.

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posted March 02, 2015 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I have been told I'm intuitive so just listened to what my gut was telling me as I have been told many times to do. So practicing if that's ok.

Thank you so much! i will update you, although i won't be waiting for him it'll just hurt me too much, and i think im doing better now after all the crying i did for the past day and a half.. i'm just going to focus all my energy on myself! thanks again everyone.

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posted March 02, 2015 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thank you so much! i will update you, although i won't be waiting for him it'll just hurt me too much, and i think im doing better now after all the crying i did for the past day and a half.. i'm just going to focus all my energy on myself! thanks again everyone.

Blessings!

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posted March 02, 2015 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostSoulRebecca     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can relate to you saying that it is hard to stay strong. Because it is! We Scorpios are simply very passionate and it is hard for us to simply let things go. Sometimes we are just trying to hard. Even though it has no sense. We just don't want to let things go. But with practice I think we can learn this too.

I am really happy for your future and I am happy that you now slowly are getting better and trying to leave the past where it is – in the past. I wish you all best!

p.s. May I recommend you listening this music (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5l1Oy9T7-S8) – I went through similar experience as you did so I had to teach myself to let it happen the way that it has to happen. This music helped and still helps me a lot! I put my headphones on and I listen this for 30 minutes before I fall asleep (or I fall asleep while I am listening this which is even better!) and I must admit that after few days my mind or my way of thinking somehow changed. Maybe it will help you too.

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posted March 03, 2015 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It just hurts a lot because he was my best friend and only guy who respected me my clinginess really drove him away and I can't help but blame myself I'm just having a really hard time letting go I'll be fine for a few hours then I'll be breaking down again.. it sucks being a Scorpio sometimes lol we come out extremely emotional in times like these. Thank you I'll listen to it before I sleep tonight !! I texted him asking for forgiveness through a different chat app because he blocked my number and no reply... ugh Im the type of person who will try and try and try until someone proves to me he won't be coming back. That's why I went to tarot cards for them to slap this onto me but everyone's saying he will.. but he's really not currently atleast

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