Author
|
Topic: Intuitivefish
|
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 99 From: Registered: Feb 2015
|
posted March 03, 2015 06:59 AM
Hi, would you mind helping me a little? Please? My ex (E), at first I had sent him a message the other week an he looked at it but didn't say anything. Then afterwards was looking through my pictures. a few days he came back online an saw my other message. So he gave me his number so we could text. He was telling me that he wants to see me. (he thought I was fake an hes been hurt before) I said we could cam or talk on the phone. Then he told me "I'll have to cam you at some point". I was surprised that he was talking to me without yelling at me. I had been told he's a manipulative an that I should find someone else. Do you think hes a manipulator? An when I said I heard people tell me that,I mean even his family member told me that too, the family member didn't want to lie to me. I can't do exchanges but I do give advice. If that's anything. :/ IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted March 03, 2015 09:56 AM
Yes I do think that to one point he is manipulating you. He wants to see how much you still want him and there for is being kind of nice. If he wanted to be nice he would have replied to the 1st message you sent. But, yes I do feel that he is being manipulative and only looking at his own interes, not thinking on how it might affect you. I am getting he is wanting to play games and just wants attention and nothing else.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 99 From: Registered: Feb 2015
|
posted March 03, 2015 11:42 AM
Thank you so much for that! But um, how is that being kinda of nice? Lol just to see how much I want him. An I'm guessing if I keep playing along with his games, he will continue doing what he's doing, right? :/IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted March 03, 2015 01:38 PM
yes I am sorry to say I think it would not get much passed games and flirtingIP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 99 From: Registered: Feb 2015
|
posted March 04, 2015 10:16 AM
Again thank you for helping me. I have one little last question though. Do you know why he's doing that to me? He knows I care alot about him, but its like he doesn't know that him treating me badly doesn't seem to affect me. He only seems to care himself :/IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted March 04, 2015 03:20 PM
Well you answered your own question and there is not much more to it. He knows you care so he knows he can treat you bad, he knows he can have attention from you and he is being selfish, he cares about himself so his other actions are him not caring about you but him getting what he wants.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 99 From: Registered: Feb 2015
|
posted March 14, 2015 11:48 AM
Hi intuitive fish. I got a question to ask you, but its not for a reading or anything. This been bugging me for a bit. I asked my friends for their opinion but they all acted like kids an said "What?" and "huh?".well the story kinda began like.. This was last year, I was trying to text my ex from a different number, at first he did answered back but then after a while he didn't anymore. So last year on Easter, I got back home an he text me saying "hey". I was like wow, so I text back saying hey. Then the person said "he's sleep". I was like what... Anyway I asked who it was an it was his uncle. Me and him talked about my ex. Then the uncle gave me his number an kept talking an talking an talking... I felt kinda weird.. (that's how I knew who E really was. Saying he's manipulative an stuff) Well one day I decided to tell E that his uncle text me from his number. The first thing he told me was "what?! You talked to my uncle?! I never visited my uncle that day". I was like.. What?... So I text the number an the uncle text me so fast on that day that I swear that they must of been in the same room. The uncle said yes he is the uncle an yes he did text me first. Anyway, fast forward to the other month, I decide to text the uncle number from a different number an guess who answered? The uncle son.. The uncle son told me that the uncle never had the number. This is so confusing to me, the uncle still talk to me though but then ignores me just like E sometimes. I was wondering could you give me your opinion on if E lied to me or did he set his uncle up to text me for a reason? I also thought his uncle never touch his phone, NEVER. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted March 14, 2015 12:28 PM
Wow umm ok .. I think I understood. I am sorry to say, It feels like they are all in on it. It felt to me like you are still played for a fool. I would say keep away from all and stop contacting the uncle. I feel like you are being made fun off, still persuing and trying to get him in different ways.Please let this man go and stop trying! Have some dignity IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 99 From: Registered: Feb 2015
|
posted March 19, 2015 09:18 PM
Thank you! IF you ever need me to practice on a picture, I'll be here. xDIP: Logged |