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Topic: This guy at work ...
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1178
From: A Thousand Miles From Philadelphia
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 03:13 PM
  
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dustib
Knowflake Posts: 51
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 03, 2015 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
For some reason, I have been obsessing (internally) over the sweetest guy at work. He's not my usual type but he's so nice and sweet. He's so classy. I've been daydreaming for a couple of days now. I get the butterflies everytime I see him. I feel really comfortable around him for some reason. He's not my supervisor, so there is not conflict of interest. I'm sure. I don't know if he has a girlfriend. He's a bit younger than I am. He's a [b] Libra . I really don't know why I keep thinking of him, it's very bizarre. I really didn't expect this. If anyone is willing to tell me if I'm just being delusional, I would greatly appreciate it! Thank you all  [/B]
Bare with me, I am still testing out my intuitive abilities so I could be completely off. My first thought was a no and the only reason you keep thinking about him is the fact that he's different than most of the other guys you know. But that if something did happen and you had a falling out, it could get pretty messy because you work together. I would keep it on a friend level and let go of the daydreaming as that is only making him seem more than what he is. IP: Logged |
MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1178
From: A Thousand Miles From Philadelphia
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 03, 2015 04:25 PM
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 864
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 03, 2015 06:07 PM
WAIT until May.If you still feel the same and want to take it further, cool. G ahead. Don't make the same mistake I did lol. I'm now saddled with a failed fling and I will be working with him for the foreseeable future. EEEEK. IP: Logged |
dustib
Knowflake Posts: 51
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 03, 2015 08:12 PM
I didn't mention anything about losing your job.. I did however say if the fling failed it could cause friction at work. If he is an intern then I agree with wait until he leaves. And I do think in many ways he is different and that is what draws you to him... you even said he's not your type. I'm sorry I gave what I felt and tried to help you...everyone has been pretty nice on this board until now. Good luck IP: Logged |
MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1178
From: A Thousand Miles From Philadelphia
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 04, 2015 12:13 AM
@dustib: I never said you guys weren't nice?! I wasn't exactly asking for advice because I am not going to act on my "attraction" so soon. It's obvious. I was going to wait until his internship reaches its end. This is common sense. I was just asking as to whether or not he feels the same, is all. I'm not the kind to mix personal/business life. Even when I was in college, I made sure the guy wasn't in my class. It's a no-brainer in my opinion. Thanks anyway. IP: Logged |
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