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posted March 04, 2015 04:48 PM            

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Hi If you don't mind giving insight into my situation. I can pull a few angel cards for you in exchange.

My question is about my boyfriend Carl. Few days ago I went to his place & tried to explain my point of view...How I wasn't happy with the relationship. I have trouble expressing myself, came out all wrong, he didnt take it well & he seems cold.

My question is: Will Carl ever be the boyfriend I want him to be? More romantic...Will he ever change of am I just wasting my time.

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posted March 04, 2015 04:59 PM            

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you are not wasting time but Carl needs to be let to do things in his pace, he doesnt like to be "pushed" and I do feel you have been patient but I also feel that well you chose Carl to be your bf so you knew somewhat what kind of a person he is. You will have a harder time changing him, but there will be little steps, I do feel you will need to put in effort with him to make the steps more permanent and less temporary, I feel like you will need to point out the obvious to him.
But also to work on your communication and not come so much from fear and anger and more from love and leading with example. He feels like you attacked him so he is being cold right now but it wont last long, him being cold.

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posted March 04, 2015 08:38 PM            

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Thanks intuitivefish. I felt bad because I felt like me speaking up was going to 'ruin' our relationship. It annoys me, we are two totally different people. I want to go on dates, go out around the city and all he wants to do is stay at home and watch netflix...I understand that he has no job, it's difficult for him to go out. But I am starting to get annoyed...

I have other questions.

1)When he does get a job will we go out more?

2) I see him liking other girls pics alot on social network...Should I be worried about it or not? Part of me is afraid he'll cheat on me...(my insecure paranoid side)

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posted March 05, 2015 12:34 AM            

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Yes ok you have other questions but I am no robot. I cant just drain my energy so much on answering questions all the time. You put it as though I must answer questions for you :/

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posted March 05, 2015 12:43 AM            

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I'm sorry didn't mean to push myself on you :$ You don't need to answer them. Again really sorry, I understand we all have lives outside of lindaland.

Again, I apologise if I came off that way. Please don't get mad. I'll delete the thread don't need to answer the questions.

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posted March 05, 2015 07:49 AM            

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I am not mad, but I do have my own life, my own issues, I am sad and tiered.
I have 50 people get at me for help and well, it takes away from my energy.

Its not easy trying to help people and stay sane at the end of the day

I'l do the questions later

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posted March 05, 2015 10:53 AM            

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1) when your bf get a job he will feel like he can finally provide for you and will want to take you out and spend money on you and bring you small gift. This will go on for some time, but I get how he will again stop, almost feels like " ok I showed I can, I dont need to anymore" you will again need to push him to do it for longer and honestly tell him your thoughts, he wont know your true feelings unless you tell him. I feel it might go on dfor 2 -3 monhts then you will feel he is slipping again but I do feel with some encouragment it will be ok again.

2) No, he wont cheat on you and sorry but I I felt to say he is too lazy to cheat, not in the sense of everyday life, but too lazy to persue another woman that way, he is happy with you and doesnt feel the need to change that. The liking of the pics is more just him being human and liking other pics, also sometimes an ego thing. He knows he loves you and is with you so he feels like OH its just a pic, it doesnt mean anything. And also he feels like - I am a grown man I can do what I want.

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posted March 10, 2015 12:47 AM            

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Thank you for your time intuitive fish. Alot of people are having relationship troubles right now, it's probably the whole Uranus Square Pluto in the skies activating it in astrology. As for Carl, I ended it with him total surprise, this was not planned.

If you would like a reading, I offer angel cards or solar return readings. You do alot for lindaland and we all appreciate you here.

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posted March 10, 2015 03:34 AM            

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thank you on your kind words.

Well, ok, I could use some advice from the cards about my love situation.

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posted March 10, 2015 04:07 AM            

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Would either of you two like to exchange?

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posted March 13, 2015 10:54 PM            

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I asked what advice would the angels have for intuitivefish's love life. I pulled the cards creativity, charity & inspiration. I'm a newbie at pulling cards so if this reading doesn't particularly resonate with you just ignore :$. The way I interpret it is the universe probably wants you to create something for someone, to be giving & give yourself 100%? hmm alot of cards associated with the sacral chakra energy. Anyways yeah if it doesnt resonate just ignore.

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posted March 14, 2015 04:41 AM            

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Thank you. That does sound interesting, because I do have something I want to gift to him, so it does make sense.

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