posted March 05, 2015 09:39 AM            

I hope it's okay to ask you a question if you're willing to see for me. If not, I understand!!

You had done a reading for me before about receiving a big gift this year

You interpreted it as a wonderful life partner! I'm excited for it, but do you think it could also be a potential job offer?

I have an interview with my dream job next Tuesday, and wondering if the present could be in regards to an offer from TD.

posted March 13, 2015 11:18 AM            

I finished my interview with T earlier this week. I'm hopeful, but I don't want to get my hopes up/expect anything.

If you feel inclined to read, may I ask if you see any job offers from T? If this isn't possible to see, then no worries!!

posted March 13, 2015 12:19 PM            

I really appreciate that

You're right about my thought patterns because I sway between different feelings.

I'll try my best to relax and stay positive

posted March 22, 2015 02:19 PM            

May I ask, if you're willing, to check on my relationship progress with a guy? You were right about love around the corner

I remember you said I'd get a big present with love, a life partner.

I met someone named M. He seems nice, and we're dating. Do you think that M is the big shiny life partner gift for me?

He also keeps in touch with an ex who is a very close friend for him. He has told me she probably still likes him a lot. This makes me uneasy, and I'm not sure if it would be an issue. He says she has ethics, though, so I truly want to believe

I'm sorry for asking those questions, but I was awfully excited when I thought of a present that you said Would truly be very lovely.

posted March 22, 2015 02:34 PM            

but here it goes :

Is M your shiney present, I am feeling to say "maybe" I get that if I were to say yes or no, it would change the way you are around him, you might either put more pressure on to him or you might give up too easily. So I am feeling you need to give him a chance, a good solid chance, not look into every detail and think " omg he wears pink socks its over"
I am over exagirating but you understand me.
Dont look at things he sais or does under a magnifier. Not saying you do, its just a little well lets call it a warning.
I feel he is a good match and a good man for you and I do see things grow for you and him. But as for if he is THEEEE one, I dont know. I am not feeling it yes or no. Keep going at the way you have been and soon enough you will see on your own if he is something serious.

posted March 22, 2015 02:44 PM            

What you said truly resonates and thank you so much for taking the time to respond in such detail to this. Really, thank you

I'll make the efforts not to scrutinize and it's true that it's not definite between us.

Thank you very much for explaining about his ex, I sincerely appreciate the advice about coming from a place of love and not arguments. I think that's a great thing to keep in mind

I'll think positive thoughts for you tonight when I get back home. Will meditate

posted March 22, 2015 02:47 PM            

No lol I dont do this for money, I help and get help in return. Better to save your money for things you will need.

Thank you on your kind words, dont hesitate to ask again and keep me posted.

posted March 28, 2015 07:34 PM            

I wanted to give you an update I spoke to M nicely and in a caring way about his ex. I listened to him as well, and he said that he'd stop contact. Thank you for your help with all of that, I really appreciate it

We are boyfriend and girlfriend now. It happened quite quickly and I'm a little nervous about doing the wrong thing. I really like him, and I do feel my feelings are genuine and sincere. I also feel I like him more than he likes me, but I try to not think too much.

If you'd feel inclined, or have energy/time, may I ask if you see M and I headed on a good path? I hope that his feelings are also sincere for me I am very hopeful that are communication is strong, but sometimes I feel he is not as responsive as I am, like today. It leaves me a little insecure.

If you feel inclined to look, I'd be very appreciative, though please no pressure. Your advice worked very well with his ex, and I'm grateful.

posted March 28, 2015 07:45 PM            

I am inclined to say that to reach a balance of feelings in any relationship is very very hard and there will always be one who cares a bit more, but I also get that this does not even matter, its good one pushes towards same goal a bit but only to be careful not the carry the relationship on your own.
I do also feel this will change back and forth, first you will lead a bit with having more emtions and then he will catch up. As men do tend to be slower than females in such things so he needs a lead lady right now, to show him the ropes, to show him its fine and there is noting to be afraid of.
Be the gentle lead but also go in his pace.
I do feel he will catch up and then even take over and be the lead, show you his emotions and it will be close to balance.
But again, there is a pace this all needs to happen, no need for any rush.

Go with the flow is what I get to say,which to me also shows me you have been going just how its supposed to be, this is why you got what you wanted, you made the right moves in the right time.

Things will get better and better and at one point you will feel "at home" in this relationship and so will he, but you are still begining which is the nicest and also well scary. But scary part is onle because you are both learning about eachother.

This is why I say the pace and steps you take dont need to be rushed, all this is the most interesting part, getting to know eachother.
Learn. Keep eyes and ears open adn learn, teach him the same.
You have done so about his ex, and see, it turned out good!
this is to show you that showing feelings can go well and doesnt need to be so scary.

I do feel you are on the right path and have been.
No need for any fear it will all go into place like puzzles

posted March 28, 2015 08:09 PM            

Yes you are absolutely right that I have been leading. It was him initially, and I think I have taken over leading, initiating conversations. He still takes part, but I feel he is feeling a bit more secure than I am I am pretty expressive, so I know he knows how I feel.

I am glad that we are on a good path. You are also right that I must take things at a slow and natural pace. We both discussed how it is important for both of us!

It definitely is scary :P I don’t want to make any mistakes, and we have talked about serious topics. You are right that he might not be THEEEEE one, but I still want to make the best of it that I can

Thank you for letting me know about being on the right path with M. It truly, truly means a lot. Thank you for the advice as well about taking things slowly and pacing myself. I have rushed before in the past and both he and I would like to go slow. I think I was feeling a little uneasy today as he hasn't replied and we usually talk everyday. I think this is important for me to know that I have my own life, though, and that he’ll hopefully come around to chat later tonight.

posted April 10, 2015 02:48 AM            

I'm so sorry to bug you. I hope you are well. I had a very big argument/fight with M. We spoke on the phone, then we met up late to hug (my idea). He was very upset about the whole thing.

It stemmed from both of our insecurities. I was open and so was he. It escalated to more with me feeling insecure and him feeling frustrated wanting to sleep. He told me he was really mad at me. He was really sweet to meet me, but didn't show any affection or compromise. I tried to make things right, and I felt scared regarding the future between us.

I know this may sound silly, but I'm feeling very anxious about us and the path we are on. I know you had said slow and steady and we'll continue to bloom, but I don't know if things are going to end, or if we will go on strong,

posted April 10, 2015 11:15 AM            

Sometimes you need to give him space to breathe, if you are so scared then tell him!!

your insecurity will make him bolt away!!

you must stop it right now!

ask yourself why you are insecure and why you are projecting onto him. its not fair to push at someone and then say " oh oh but he is jumping away"

If you both cannot be supportive and trusting partners than its time to stop and go your seperate way.

why are you staying in something if you are anticipating him leaving every day? how is that even a nice relationship?
you are thinking he will leave and then you will say it was out of the blue, am I right? well watch your thoughts!! you will be surprised how fast they can turn into reality, since your wishes actually are " omg omg he will leave me"