posted May 03, 2015 02:01 PM            

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Originally posted by aleenaxo:
Could I ask a follow up question? Will one of my theories work out and really change the world?

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I got the feeling when shuffling that some of your theories are going to be before our time if that makes sense. For the cards I got ring, tree, bouquet, anchor and whip.

posted May 03, 2015 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by MillyX:
Hi ! I would like a reading. My question is : How did Carl feel seeing me on Friday & why did he kiss me? He's an ex of mine.

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posted May 03, 2015 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I got the feeling when shuffling that some of your theories are going to be before our time if that makes sense. For the cards I got ring, tree, bouquet, anchor and whip.

Yes some of your theories will completely work out and change the world. It will be a slow process(tree) but success will happen. I show long term stability and success but I will warn you to watch out for opposition and don't let it get you down or stop you. The whip shows that you will have conflicts sometimes about how your career is evolving. So I asked how it would work out and got sun. The sun is such a positive card...think of how you feel when the sun comes out and it's warm and beautiful. This is what you need to remember when you are questioning your career.

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Ahhh I know it will gain opposition (unless it's another theory I might come up with later I have SO many that run through my mind but they're all really crazy) but that makes me SO HAPPY. LIKE SERIOUSLY.

posted May 03, 2015 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by aleenaxo:
Ahhh I know it will gain opposition (unless it's another theory I might come up with later I have SO many that run through my mind but they're all really crazy) but that makes me SO HAPPY. LIKE SERIOUSLY.

Actually can you explain what you mean by before our time I'm confused haha...

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posted May 03, 2015 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I asked if you would be transferred to your old location and got man, sun, fox, bear and house. Did you like working at the old location better? I get a feeling of home and am thinking maybe if you are transferred back you will be happier. If feels to me that there is a man who is going to make this decision but beware of him...he seems to be a bit cunning. I think if you stay where you are currently then no, you won't any money but I feel if you are able to transfer then you will see it. Does this make sense?

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posted May 03, 2015 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:

I felt like some are going to be very advanced and that most people won't be ready to accept that. I was trying to think of the correct phrase....sorry. LOL

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Oh no worries! I have heard that phrase before I just didn't remember what it meant!

They are in a way they deal with things we aren't able to measure yet... But it makes sense conceptually to me at least.

posted May 03, 2015 03:06 PM              

I want to know how H.E will he feel, if I email him and tell him how I feel?

It is very complicated we have a long history.

posted May 03, 2015 03:27 PM            

He just texted me earlier, very vague message with hearts.
what does the txt even mean? ..
this man has trouble speaking his heart

May I asked what exactly hurted him that caused him to pull back from seeing me?

I am hoping it is sooner than 4wks,
because I am leaving in 1.1 months :|
will keep you posted on that

<3

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Originally posted by dustib:
LOL Yes I have naturally longer nails so I do understand how you get used to typing 1 way and then any change can change that....I have to relearn if I break a nail.

I feel he hasn't asked to see you because he's ashamed is the reaction I felt while shuffling. He does have such deep feelings for you but he is doing this stupid thing and he knows it needs to end...the stupid thing we have talked about, not with you.

With the cards I got crossroads, cross, man, rider, stork. I see something hurt him that caused him to do this stupid thing and he knows he has to make a choice and that is currently what he is doing. We already know his heart is with you, he just needs to get his head there as well. He's making the changes he needs so he can see you without the guilt involved that he currently has. When I asked when, I get 4....4 days, 4 weeks, 4 months. I feel it is more like 4 weeks.

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posted May 03, 2015 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
birthday dress: How will you feel if you make it. I got tree, dog, key, rider, moon. I feel like by doing it this way you will get exactly what you want but it could be a long process in making it. You will be satisfied with the end result though although I feel you might feel like giving up a few times along the way.

If you buy one I got fox, man, ship, clover and lilies. I feel you may have to drive to really find what you want but you will get lucky and find one. You will feel sexy in it.
So looks like either option works, it's just picking what you want to do.

Will D and I get together between May and June?

While shuffling I got an image of the 2 of you together and he was caressing your cheek. For the cards I got key, book, house, mice and stars.

I feel like there are a few things that need to be done in order for this to happen by June. I really feel like someone is trying to put their home in order....either moving, dealing with family issues, remodeling or something along those lines. This causing some worry but it will be resolved. There is a lot pressure to achieve the end goal but the goal will be reached. I feel like you will get thru the whole month of June and feel like it won't happen but I think it will be right at the end of June. Hope this helps

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Thank you dustib. This is dead on. I am looking to move out of my parents' house in June, and have been some of everywhere so far looking for a place to stay, and possibly looking to relocate abroad to find exactly what I'm looking for. There is a lot of pressure because my parents' house is going to be sold in late June as well, so my mother is looking for a new place to live currently as well. Everything is up in the air, and a lot is riding on a lot so its a bit stressful. I'm relieved, though, that my birthday dress will be stress free and everything will go exactly as I want.

Can I ask another question about D? He has been very sweet to me at times, and very aloof, but overall supportive of me going through all of these changes. My question is: Will we continue communication this month and next? Will it increase? Will it decrease?

posted May 03, 2015 04:43 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I asked what he wants from you and got woman, tower, rider, garden and ring. I feel like he does want to be friends with you but also feels like when he's with someone else, it's not fair to the other person to talk to you as you guys do share a history. I truly would let him go and if he contacts you, then you know he truly wants to be friends as he will put the action behind the words. But I will caution you, if said he wants to be friends, he means friends only and he will know if you want more. I feel the last card, the ring, is saying if you keep reaching out to him it's going to be a cycle so let him reach out to you if he wants to.

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posted May 03, 2015 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I think there are things this man like sexually that he is keeping a secret...the whip can mean kinky sometimes. Maybe that is what I was picking up on.

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posted May 03, 2015 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
DustiB, may I please have a reading. I have one question.

I want to know how H.E will he feel, if I email him and tell him how I feel?

It is very complicated we have a long history.

Thank you.

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posted May 03, 2015 06:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Watercolordaydream:
Happy Sunday
So, it surely isn't anything I have done..
that is correct because I am the patient one here

He just texted me earlier, very vague message with hearts.
what does the txt even mean? ..
this man has trouble speaking his heart

May I asked what exactly hurted him that caused him to pull back from seeing me?

I am hoping it is sooner than 4wks,
because I am leaving in 1.1 months :|
will keep you posted on that

<3

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posted May 03, 2015 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
While shuffling I felt the warning to watch out for drama. I think 1 might be prone to drama. The cards I got are birds, heart, fish, tree and garden. I do believe other than the drama, everything else will go really well between the 3 of you. I think you will start to really look forward to the talks you guys will all start to have. I also feel that over time, the friendships will really grow and you guys will all become close. It's just that drama but I honestly feel like it will have more to do with her finances than anything else....like maybe she likes to spend too much money and then complains about it and whines about it yet does the same thing the next week.

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oh haha. you are so right about me looking forward to hanging out with them/ getting to know them. they seem like girls i can totally click with, both really successful in their fields. i'm still in school so was intimadated lols. i def think the drama might b coming from A, but since everybody has a few problems with finances, i think i can handle it wish me luck lol but we actually had a minor problem about the bills bc there was some misunderstanding that she didnt have to pay it while signing the lease. thansk dusti! will keep u up to date.

posted May 03, 2015 06:58 PM            

I responded a few hours later, but I remained casual and aloof towards him.
*whoops* should've waited longer,
He did respond and asked me how my day was
- like you said checking how much effort he
needs to put in - or checking if I am upset.
but he can sense my cold shoulder in my words
he's whining now... I will let it be until he tries harder like you said (thanks)
you are correct on how to handle him.

Let's see how it goes as I ignore him for now...

I hope he will get the message to pull his head out of his butt.

I can't thank you enough for letting me be your guinea pig

lots of hugs~~

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Originally posted by dustib:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Watercolordaydream:
[b]Happy Sunday
So, it surely isn't anything I have done..
that is correct because I am the patient one here

He just texted me earlier, very vague message with hearts.
what does the txt even mean? ..
this man has trouble speaking his heart

May I asked what exactly hurted him that caused him to pull back from seeing me?

I am hoping it is sooner than 4wks,
because I am leaving in 1.1 months :|
will keep you posted on that

<3

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posted May 03, 2015 07:55 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:

I felt like some are going to be very advanced and that most people won't be ready to accept that. I was trying to think of the correct phrase....sorry. LOL

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posted May 03, 2015 08:31 PM              

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Originally posted by dustib:
When I was shuffling I didn't really see anything. But the cards I got are mountain, scythe, cross, moon and stars. The mountain and scythe relate to the past and I see you guys have had a lot of obstacles. I feel you are at the end of your rope and that is why you are wanting to send the email. I feel like the email is going to bring some pain only because I do feel he cares deeply for you and has a lot of the same feelings you have but I don't know if he will react the way you want right away but I do think eventually you will hear what you want from him. Just know that once you send it, you need to leave him alone and let him reach out to you so if you aren't prepared to give him the time he is going to need then I wouldn't send it right away.

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Oh DustyB I am not surprisced mountain and scythe cam eup, we are separated by continent. When we were together we always had to defend our relationship it and just work really hard to be together. I actually wrote the email but I haven't sent it, its sitting in my draft because I am actually scared of what he may not say. You are right he isn't one tos ay very much not emotional in the least sense (moon in virgo) (sigh) I'll maybe let it sit in drafts a couple more days I may never end up sending it. Because if he wanted me I'm sure a man would say.

posted May 03, 2015 09:23 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I asked if you should approach R and got birds, heart, letter, ship and tree.

I see a lot of conversations coming between the 2 of you if you do approach him. Now, with that being said, it is going to be a slow process(tree). I asked if it would end well and got stars, snake, scythe and garden. I see a few problems reaching the end goal with these cards. I also feel like he isn't going to be the best of company....I don't know in what regards the cards are telling me he's going to be bad company.

So I asked what if you wait for him to approach you and got cross, house, stars, tree and clouds. I feel this would be a better idea BUT it will be a slow process and right now there is a lot of confusion surrounding him. I feel like he is going thru something in his life right now that he needs to settle first. Let's give things a few weeks and them come ask me again and lets see if things have cleared up for him a bit.

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Ah, what is he confused about? I wouldn't mind waiting a few weeks. If this is the best option, I want to take it. Bad company... I think it means he'll be a bad influence on my life like distracting me from college and work or he'll just not be pleasant to be around. But that will only happen if I approach him first right? Thanks Dustib. Your practice seems to go very well.

posted May 03, 2015 09:52 PM            

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Originally posted by ReeseC:

Can I ask another question about D? He has been very sweet to me at times, and very aloof, but overall supportive of me going through all of these changes. My question is: Will we continue communication this month and next? Will it increase? Will it decrease?

I can exchange if you want. Thank you

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posted May 03, 2015 10:01 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Hi, I want to ask one last little question... What does E think of me? Since he's not talking to me.. I know he will but don't know if he hates me.. No matter how much I tell him I care about him. Thank you also your last reading sounded good.. (hope I didn't worry you about this guy"

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posted May 03, 2015 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I got mountain, heart, lilies, woman and rider. I think he does care about you but he has things he needs to overcome. I have the feeling that he doesn't know how to love someone and for him it's mainly about sex with anyone. The mountain and woman show your stress over this situation and how you are waiting for him to come to you. I asked if that was going to happen and got the cross which means pain so no I don't feel he is going to come towards you. I pulled another card to clarify and got moon and I feel like when you are fully able to let go of him and move on, you have a chance at new relationship.

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posted May 03, 2015 10:45 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
For the cards I got book, tree, mountain, scythe and tower when asking how Carl felt about seeing you on Friday. I feel someone is really trying to protect themselves because they know there are obstacles in the way that prevent things from moving forward until dealt with. He kissed you because he has always felt a deep connection to you but the 2 of you need to figure out what needs to be fixed if you want to try to reconnect on a more permanent level.

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Ouh thanks dustib!

I feel like it's him who is trying to protect himself. I broke it off with him, i grieved and felt the pain while he just distracted himself and he is the type to refuse to feel his feelings.

He didn't want to see me on Friday, inventing alot of lame excuses but I was in his part of town that night for an event and wanted to talk to him. I think he didn't want to see me, it's a form of self protection because seeing me would mean confronting the pain & hurt.

But in the end it all went well, we got along really really well but I think deep down he is hurt because of me.