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MillyX
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posted April 08, 2015 10:52 PM
  
I can do solar return readings or natal/progressions/transits. I have alot of things going on my mind right now, it has been really difficult. I'd like an overview reading about my relationship with my boyfriend Carl. Any insight on our relationship. Thanks.I particularly wanna know, if I break up with him, will their be a chance for us to reunite again in the future. Other questions: What will happen if I continue to stay with him?
What will happen if I break away from him?
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cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 12:14 AM
hi I can exchange with you.my birth date is September 5th 1978 born at 8:36 p.m. in Winfield Illinois. I am currently in Urbana, Illinois. I guess I just want to know how the next several months are going to go or a year or whatever you can do. I hope you don't mind me giving you my staff because my phone will not let me upload my chart!!!! IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 12:22 AM
Ouch! okay this is a tough one because in all honesty it's him it's not you. And I'm not saying that in terms of how it's normally said but I'm saying in terms of the fact that he really seems to be going through some changes like life changes hard times. if you break up with him you will lose him for this period Of time. he is going to retreat so it's not like he's going to go out with another person but he seems to be fighting something, fighting some hardships. would you ever get back together again in the future, I can't be certain of that because you are not stagnant in your life and I see you would be progressing and moving on whether you like to think so right now or not...but to be honest I don't see it going that way. what I see is you sticking it out for probably a few more months he's going to turn to a bit of a jerk and be a little bit more difficult to handle & I see it being Mutual of an ending. you'll be really mad at him, u won't be thinking about you getting together with him. like your anger is going to propel you into being busy. you're going to get tired and drawn out from the BS that's happening right now.and I don't necessarily know what is going on. I feel like this was a very loving relationship at one point, is that correct? and to make sure I'm picking up on this correctly..now he's doing a 180? I feel like his temper flares, he's difficult and he's not explaining things. I don't know if these problems stem from his parents or other issues at home but I don't get the sense that he's being difficult because he's interested in anyone else.IP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
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posted April 09, 2015 12:27 AM
 This hurts so much....Yes it was a very loving relationship and passionate and all of a sudden he decides to not have sex with me anymore. He is less affectionate, he has problems in life. It hurts because I care about him SO MUCH. And I want to stay friends with him, because my love for him is unconditional. I accepted him and his past, when he was at his lowest point. I was hoping the venus retrograde was gonna bring us back together....ugh. Will he miss me when I'm gone? I'll get to your reading. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 12:35 AM
in time he will feel bad. I think he knows right now is not treating you good. but he is so lost right now and he's trying to be numb but it can't and instead of feeling pain he's releasing it is anger. he's got a little bit of a journey/ battle. honestly I would say give it a year and a half and then he'll be through with this and then you will probably hear from him and he probably will apologize and talk about it with you. It's not like he wants to leave you but yet he wants to be alone. And it's because of this it is going to keep pushing you away but he does consciously know he's hurting you and he's also hurting himself because of it you know that he feels like an ass. So believe me when I say he is hurting but he's choosing to mask it is getting angry about it but really the issue seemed to go deeper than just social life like these are real issues
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Originally posted by MillyX:
This hurts so much....Yes it was a very loving relationship and passionate and all of a sudden he decides to not have sex with me anymore. He is less affectionate, he has problems in life. It hurts because I care about him SO MUCH. And I want to stay friends with him, because my love for him is unconditional. I accepted him and his past, when he was at his lowest point. I was hoping the venus retrograde was gonna bring us back together....ugh. Will he miss me when I'm gone? I'll get to your reading.
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MillyX
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posted April 09, 2015 12:38 AM
Ok what pops out is right off the bat I see your progressed moon moving into pisces and the 12th house. It will be a time for introspection...You might feel lost when it comes to your direction in life, but sometimes you have to lose yourself or an old part of you must die for you to be reborn again. Your progressed sun is entering your 7th house. This is significant. You are going to enter a period in your life where you will focus on partnerships of all kinds. If you combine sun in 7th plus moon in 12th...It might mean meeting up with someone you will have a soul connection with. Someone from a past life, lessons will be learned. Jupiter is transiting your 5th house. It will be there till the summer of August. This gives you more time for 'play', letting your hair down etc. and romance. I feel like after the month of August, that's when you'll have more luck when it comes to work. Jupiter will be transiting the 6th house. Also numerology wise, After your birthday, September you will enter a 4 year. That's a year where you will be focused on work. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 12:39 AM
so quick question. I was hoping to move and I was thinking Colorado since it looks like I'll have a pretty good solar return and I was hoping to do so with n few months like let's say 3 months. Does that look successful if I do that?
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Originally posted by MillyX:
Ok what pops out is right off the bat I see your progressed moon moving into pisces and the 12th house. It will be a time for introspection...You might feel lost when it comes to your direction in life, but sometimes you have to lose yourself or an old part of you must die for you to be reborn again. Your progressed sun is entering your 7th house. This is significant. You are going to enter a period in your life where you will focus on partnerships of all kinds. If you combine sun in 7th plus moon in 12th...It might mean meeting up with someone you will have a soul connection with. Someone from a past life, lessons will be learned. Jupiter is transiting your 5th house. It will be there till the summer of August. This gives you more time for 'play', letting your hair down etc. and romance. I feel like after the month of August, that's when you'll have more luck when it comes to work. Jupiter will be transiting the 6th house. Also numerology wise, After your birthday, September you will enter a 4 year. That's a year where you will be focused on work.
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MillyX
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posted April 09, 2015 12:40 AM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
in time he will feel bad. I think he knows right now is not treating you good. but he is so lost right now and he's trying to be numb but it can't and instead of feeling pain he's releasing it is anger. he's got a little bit of a journey/ battle. honestly I would say give it a year and a half and then he'll be through with this and then you will probably hear from him and he probably will apologize and talk about it with you. It's not like he wants to leave you but yet he wants to be alone. And it's because of this it is going to keep pushing you away but he does consciously know he's hurting you and he's also hurting himself because of it you know that he feels like an ass. So believe me when I say he is hurting but he's choosing to mask it is getting angry about it but really the issue seemed to go deeper than just social life like these are real issues
Thank you so much. It hurts really bad to leave him, because he is currently jobless and his mom is urging him to move out of home. But in the end I have to think of myself...I really would love to stay friends with him, I really do... IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 12:42 AM
you can always offer him your friendship but I really think he'll retreat and have alone time at least for the time being
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Originally posted by MillyX:
Thank you so much. It hurts really bad to leave him, because he is currently jobless and his mom is urging him to move out of home. But in the end I have to think of myself...I really would love to stay friends with him, I really do...
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MillyX
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posted April 09, 2015 12:57 AM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
so quick question. I was hoping to move and I was thinking Colorado since it looks like I'll have a pretty good solar return and I was hoping to do so with n few months like let's say 3 months. Does that look successful if I do that?
I pulled cartomancy cards for that question. I got Ace of clubs-8 of spades- 10 of diamonds Ace of Clubs Wealth, prosperity, unexpected money/gain. However, in a difficult spread, this money may disappear almost as quickly as it appears.
8 of Spades Temptation, misfortune, danger, upsets.
10 of Diamonds A change in financial status, often for the better. Are you moving there for financial reasons? Work related? If you do decide to move there, it will help your financial situation however you will face obstacles and it won't be easy. Things won't go as planned. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 01:04 AM
I was really looking for a place that I liked and had a good soldier return. I'm not happy being in Illinois. I was also thinking of stlouis but it look like an okay so the return. & I was also looking at North Carolina which was also an okay so the return. I wanted to move to be in a location that I was happy at and settle there and make roots.
are you able just to give me a reading on whether or not it looks like I will move away from my current location in any indication of where and how successful that will be? and please if you have any other questions about anything please feel free to leave them
QUOTE]Originally posted by MillyX:
I pulled cartomancy cards for that question. I got Ace of clubs-8 of spades- 10 of diamonds Ace of Clubs Wealth, prosperity, unexpected money/gain. However, in a difficult spread, this money may disappear almost as quickly as it appears.
8 of Spades Temptation, misfortune, danger, upsets.
10 of Diamonds A change in financial status, often for the better. Are you moving there for financial reasons? Work related? If you do decide to move there, it will help your financial situation however you will face obstacles and it won't be easy. Things won't go as planned.[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
MillyX
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posted April 09, 2015 01:08 AM
In terms of location, I'm not really good with that sorry :\ I can't really tell you where to move. But I can take a look at your solar return for this year.Or did you want me to compare your SR in st louis versus north carolina? That I can try I have more questions: In terms of his feelings? What are they for me right now? Also..will we ever be passionate again or is it forever dead? I'm just outraged that he stopped having sex with me. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 01:15 AM
he definitely cares about you he definitely likes you and he definitely isn't meaning to purposely hurt you. he's going to get consumed with what's going on with him and his wife but I really do believe later in the future that will be minutes and he want to reach out explain everything. I don't think the love is going to be lost. It's like you does want you to forgive him when he reaches out. but in the immediate future I don't see that passion playing out and he is not focused on making a good relationship. he doesn't want to feel anything he just wants to be numb and that's all areas of his life and what he means is time and he needs to be alone but again I don't think the love between you is going to be lost it just going to be in hibernation as he tries to deal with other things are going on. so does care for you and he always well it just he's not gonna show it
QUOTE]Originally posted by MillyX:
In terms of location, I'm not really good with that sorry :\ I can't really tell you where to move. But I can take a look at your solar return for this year.
Or did you want me to compare your SR in st louis versus north carolina? I have more questions: In terms of his feelings? What are they for me right now? Also..will we ever be passionate again or is it forever dead?[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 01:17 AM
neither I just wanted a general reading on whether or not I would be moving and if I'll be happy there and if it will be better for meIP: Logged |
MillyX
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posted April 09, 2015 01:19 AM
Do you want a cartomancy reading?IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 01:22 AM
I don't think him stopping having sex with you with anything to do with you. This really is a case of all about him. I don't think he would perform much all and I think you would have a hard time keeping it hard. Everybody goes through problems and life but he seems to be getting dumped on so to speak and he doesn't know how separate his issues from the other areas of his life, from other things that are going on so he feels anything consumed by his problem. It's too much stress too much pressure to get it up but I also think he's doing some purpose, he wants to be alone. Again he likes you any cares for you any doesn't wanna hurt but a part of him does want to be with you. He's very conflicted. penc keeps pushing you away. he can't bring himself to end it with you...he just doesn't want the responsibility and he doesn't want to owe anybody anything right nowIP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
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posted April 09, 2015 01:23 AM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
he definitely cares about you he definitely likes you and he definitely isn't meaning to purposely hurt you. he's going to get consumed with what's going on with him and his wife but I really do believe later in the future that will be minutes and he want to reach out explain everything. I don't think the love is going to be lost. It's like you does want you to forgive him when he reaches out. but in the immediate future I don't see that passion playing out and he is not focused on making a good relationship. he doesn't want to feel anything he just wants to be numb and that's all areas of his life and what he means is time and he needs to be alone but again I don't think the love between you is going to be lost it just going to be in hibernation as he tries to deal with other things are going on. so does care for you and he always well it just he's not gonna show it
QUOTE]Originally posted by MillyX:
[b]In terms of location, I'm not really good with that sorry :\ I can't really tell you where to move. But I can take a look at your solar return for this year.
Or did you want me to compare your SR in st louis versus north carolina? I have more questions: In terms of his feelings? What are they for me right now? Also..will we ever be passionate again or is it forever dead?
[/B][/QUOTE] Thank you so much. I was starting to doubt his love for me...I mean in the beginning he would confess it ALOT. But since his problems started popping up, he would be less and less affectionate. Part of me wants to stick it out with him, wants to be there for him and help him. But another part of me knows that if I continue to do that...I will get angry and start feeling resentful someday and will blow up in anger. Cherful, I want to thank you. Your readings helped me clarify so many things, you have no idea. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 01:23 AM
Yes pleaseQUOTE]Originally posted by MillyX:
Do you want a cartomancy reading?[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 01:26 AM
you're very welcome! And you're reading these are super great as well!IP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 09, 2015 01:27 AM
I actually got some really positive cards.9 of heart and 6 of hearts 9 of Hearts The card of wishes. A wish/dream fulfilled. Look to the card just preceding this one to determine what the querent desires.
6 of Hearts A sudden wave of good luck. Someone takes care of you, takes warm interest in you. You will be moving this year. Where I don't know but it will be successful. IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted April 09, 2015 01:30 AM
Yay!!! Ty!!
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Originally posted by MillyX:
Y'I actually got some really positive cards.9 of heart and 6 of hearts 9 of Hearts The card of wishes. A wish/dream fulfilled. Look to the card just preceding this one to determine what the querent desires.
6 of Hearts A sudden wave of good luck. Someone takes care of you, takes warm interest in you. You will be moving this year. Where I don't know but it will be successful.
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MillyX
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posted April 09, 2015 02:20 AM
Could I ask just one last question...What can I do to make the relationship better? Or make him feel better, I hate that hes going through a difficult time and I care for him...What can I do to make things easier or better for him? I care too muchYour reading offered me his point of view of things. I understand so much better now. IP: Logged |
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