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Topic: Why is K all of a sudden not talking to me?
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ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 03:07 PM
  
We were talking non stop for the past three weeks nothing has happened and he suddenly stopped hitting me up, although he's active on the app can anyone see what caused this and if it'll stay this way? IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 12, 2015 03:13 PM
I feel your pain. Going through the same thing too. Talked non stop and now nothing. I'm sorry I can't offer you any intuitive advice, I really wish I could. Have you tried to contact him, did he respond?IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 12, 2015 03:26 PM
Sorry for skipping over your question on my post. What I was gonna say is, I do see him texting you but I really don't know when. I keep seeing on an off. I feel that there is something that is going on for him to act this way. I saw words that you were texting him an he was reading them but not saying anything then he responds back. Not sure what that means, but don't give up just yet. I keep seeing a cell phone an you're holding your cell phone hoping he will say something ._. I usually don't do readings like this but I keep seeing that.IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 03:36 PM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I feel your pain. Going through the same thing too. Talked non stop and now nothing. I'm sorry I can't offer you any intuitive advice, I really wish I could. Have you tried to contact him, did he respond?
Awww, I think it's always the guys who decide to randomly change their minds I don't know how it's possible when it seems fine for so long -_- I haven't tried today because he send me messages three times yesterday I replied twice and after that he never responded but we have been talking all day so that was weird.... also he's active on the app today so I'm sure he can contact me but he's choosing not to. IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 03:37 PM
Its okay ! @ ilovepoems,lol don't worry about it thank you  I think he possibly may try to talk to me again but now that he randomly just stopped for a day it's giving me doubts and I kind of don't want to be played anymore.. I've been through way too much these past few years and I'm still healing from my heartbreak that occurred a month ago so idk I'm just a mess and I guess he took my mind off of that heartbreak for a bit and I knew i didn't want to get attached so fast.IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted April 12, 2015 04:27 PM
I haven't heard from mine since Wednesday. I tried texting him Friday and nothing. No response  . It's hard!IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 04:59 PM
I feel like once a guy stops talking to you or gives mixed signals more than likely he just doesn't care as much as we do about them because if they did want to talk to us they would.. i said to myself i will stop talking to him all last week because i didn't want to get attached but deep down I wanted to talk to him therefore after two hours of stopping myself I would respond.... so yeah it does suck but maybe it's just not meant for us to get attached further so god turns the tables maybe? lol. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted April 12, 2015 05:22 PM
I just don't know. This is someone who we hit it off well when we met and then we didn't talk and now he's come back around. So it's very confusing. I just don't know what to do. No matter who reads me they all say the same thing, let him contact me. But I know me, I will hold out a few more days and then try again.IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 05:31 PM
I think you should let him contact you as well, since you have tried already after he stopped talking to you right? He now knows you still want to talk to him, and it's up to him to do his part and try to make it work, or you'll drive yourself insane by continue trying to reach out to him. It's hard I know i've been through it plenty of times before but if it is meant to be it will happen and I guess we have to keep reminding ourselves that. I guess if you really want to make things work with him, you can send a paragraph letting your feelings out at least you know you tried and at least you'll know if he really cares or not? Just some advice IP: Logged |
furrybunny
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posted April 12, 2015 05:34 PM
maybe its just me but when a guy doesn't respond asap or within a day, hes prob not interested. i would move on. just thinking about it annoys the **** outta me. lolols. like its a waste of my time and yours. really dont respect guyslike that. like he should be waiting for me to text him... not other way around... imma bit extreme though.goodluck though! you should find another guy! play the field IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 05:43 PM
LOL furry bunny that actually made me smile cause that's exactly my attitude right now I'm sure he's not interested if he's replying to others but randomly stopped with me therefore I won't worry about him. Thanks! IP: Logged |
javaweb
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posted April 12, 2015 05:43 PM
Glad to know I'm not the only one going through this.. ;/IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 06:48 PM
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Originally posted by javaweb:
Glad to know I'm not the only one going through this.. ;/
it honestly sucks -_- he just messaged me but I'm not opening it lol.. it took him only 24 hours to hit me up IP: Logged |
javaweb
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posted April 12, 2015 08:14 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpioLove:
it honestly sucks -_- he just messaged me but I'm not opening it lol.. it took him only 24 hours to hit me up
Ughh..I have to talk to my guy about how things have been getting awkward btw us...We are supposed to plan a time/place to meet but he keeps giving me that busy excuse and says he'll text me so he can set the time/place...tired of waiting Makes me wonder if we'll ever get to talk.. IP: Logged |
furrybunny
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posted April 12, 2015 08:19 PM
if all he said was a hi... i will snap someones neck.. that is if i was you lolol. IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 10:20 PM
Lol yup and when I replied he read it and didn't reply back.. so whatever I'm over it IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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From: Brooklyn, New York
Registered: May 2012
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posted April 12, 2015 10:39 PM
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Originally posted by furrybunny:
maybe its just me but when a guy doesn't respond asap or within a day, hes prob not interested. i would move on. just thinking about it annoys the **** outta me. lolols. like its a waste of my time and yours. really dont respect guyslike that. like he should be waiting for me to text him... not other way around... imma bit extreme though.goodluck though! you should find another guy! play the field
I agree. I do it to ppl/guys I don't really want to talk to sometimes. The guy I'm fwb with does it at times and I end up doing it back on purpose..even though I try to live by the words "Do unto others.." I am thinking about ending it with him. Been ignoring his msgs all day..oops Food for thought though ------------------
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EmpressMendez
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posted April 12, 2015 10:40 PM
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Originally posted by javaweb:
Ughh..I have to talk to my guy about how things have been getting awkward btw us...We are supposed to plan a time/place to meet but he keeps giving me that busy excuse and says he'll text me so he can set the time/place...tired of waiting Makes me wonder if we'll ever get to talk..
This is what I'm honestly planning on telling him all the time from now on..the "I'm busy" line. When I tried ending things the last time he took it as a joke...ugh
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javaweb
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posted April 12, 2015 10:59 PM
Darn...the thing is that I don't wanna end things and our talk is supposed to be about that, if we wanna continue or just ends...but he keeps stalling :/ quote:
Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
This is what I'm honestly planning on telling him all the time from now on..the "I'm busy" line. When I tried ending things the last time he took it as a joke...ugh
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EmpressMendez
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posted April 12, 2015 11:02 PM
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Originally posted by javaweb:
Darn...the thing is that I don't wanna end things and our talk is supposed to be about that, if we wanna continue or just ends...but he keeps stalling :/ [QUOTE]Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
[b] This is what I'm honestly planning on telling him all the time from now on..the "I'm busy" line. When I tried ending things the last time he took it as a joke...ugh
[/B][/QUOTE]Well, to be fair I explained to this guy that I needed someone that shows more affection, etc. And he still doesn't change..he does for a little, and then goes back to his old ways. I'm sick of it..so yea. Maybe he's trying to tell you some sort of "hint" that you're not getting? Idk, but that's what I'm going to do about this guy repeatedly until he stops sending me messages and gets the hint...sad, but has to be done..
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ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 11:27 PM
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Originally posted by javaweb:
Ughh..I have to talk to my guy about how things have been getting awkward btw us...We are supposed to plan a time/place to meet but he keeps giving me that busy excuse and says he'll text me so he can set the time/place...tired of waiting Makes me wonder if we'll ever get to talk..
try asking him again and if he makes an excuse just let it go if he wants to see you trust me he'll come around! IP: Logged |
ScorpioLove
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posted April 12, 2015 11:29 PM
Yeah I do it to guys I don't have much interest in too but it was weird for us to click and talk non stop for weeks and him to just change up on me but I guess he lost interest typical guysIP: Logged |
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