posted April 13, 2015 12:18 PM            

I am not fully back, mostly came well because of you

I have some updates for you, which you asked for last time, now I can tell you.
and some news!
I think its "big" news but no we are not "together" yet.

posted April 13, 2015 02:36 PM            

please do not quote so I can edit later.

Edit

posted April 13, 2015 02:42 PM            

I am so sorry though that you had a horrible night because of her... Gosh, must be Four of Swords... Well, I can sooo relate to this!!

p.s. And thank you for an update. Makes me happy too that I am in tune with my intuition.

posted April 13, 2015 02:45 PM            

yay happy for you how are you doing?

whenever you feel you might want to, I am also up for some exchanging with you this time, my energy is better.

- what are his feelings/thoughts over what I said to him?
- how might this help things develop, I mean as in what might come next due to this?

please ask yours also !

posted April 13, 2015 03:07 PM            

Well, with me it's like on a roller coaster. ***EDIT ***

You know – as I already said once – you helped me so much with your first answer to my Q about him and her and I really appreciated this. And always will! So if my help did any good to you, I am really happy!

posted April 13, 2015 03:11 PM            

All the best

posted April 13, 2015 03:14 PM            

But I do think that what is best for us and what we wish are colliding and the end result will be a mash of those two. Sometimes whats best for us is equal to what we wish for because I believe angels like to please us. BUt also all these lessons and transormations have happened because we are forced to recieve whats best for us which may not equal what we want.

posted April 13, 2015 03:19 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by crys:
Hi
Glad to see happy people
I hope you don t mind that i bump in this topic
If you need another volunteer i am in
I need so bad a reading

All the best

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sorry Crys I must decline. I am taking a little break from doing readings, I am dealing with too many of my own low energies and as an empath I am having trouble right now focusing on other people.

posted April 14, 2015 12:55 AM            

Do you remember asking me, whether you two will finally meet soon?

I remembered that the card I pulled was 7 of Pentacles, which could mean 7 days. That was on the 6th of April.

I noticed that you two got in contact around 12th-13th April.

Can you answer - just for the sake of me; you two did get in contact around 12/13 April, right? Or was it sooner? Did you two talk about meeting each other too?

Because 7 of Pentacles could mean a lot of work being put into meeting, but first – before you do your ‘job done’, you need to discuss it…

Thanks.

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posted April 14, 2015 02:56 PM            

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posted April 16, 2015 02:51 PM            

But I will do your Qs in a minute. I am relaxed now.

posted April 16, 2015 04:36 PM            

Awwww! I am so happy for you! How did it happen?

I remember that cards in February/early March (in our first thread) suggested that his current relationship could ended in April/May, that he would change his life around late spring somehow. Did he say anything that could somehow confirm this prediction? Please (if it’s not too much to ask, of course, I will respect your privacy!) keep me updated on that. I need feedback on timing.

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What were his thoughts of Fishy’s text?

Nine of Wands Rx – Four of Cups – The King of Swords

His text made him think a lot. With Nine of Wands Rx he somehow still hesitated to make any long-term changes/commitments. Also with this card a lack of necessary resources for a change is indicated; this could be lack of finances, skills or – I think, this is the case here – of time.

Even Four of Cups are indicating that at that moment he somehow refused the thought of making any change. Again, I think due to his lack of time and power.

The King of Swords indicates that at that moment he did the right thing. He was thinking clear, didn’t want to manipulate you, he wants to give you the truth.

How will things develop for A and Fishy in next few weeks?

Four of Swords – King of Cups – Ten of Cups

First of all, great cards!

So, Four of Swords…This card indicates that the time has come for him to take a rest from some difficult times; the trauma of breakup or departure, relationship or family problems, financial and health worries, stress and conflict. This is clear reminder that after crisis and before new challenge there must be a time of relaxation, contemplation. So, I think that he will take some time for himself now.

After that he will be emotionally balanced – he will be King of Cups. The King of Cups also represents compassion; one of the most powerful and beautiful qualities of the human spirit… Him being emotionally refreshed will probably lead getting him close(r) to you.

With Ten of Cups at the end there is happiness, joy, contentment and emotional fulfilment in relationship between you two. This card can also indicate the beginning of a new, very happy relationship, ultimate satisfaction! Also this card indicates a new personal values system, so you two could really have a chance to create a new relationship on a way better ground than it was for the first time. Just follow your heart and trust your intuition – this is all what this card is about.

posted April 16, 2015 04:54 PM            

I will try to give you the best feedback that I can.

The only thing he said that might point to what you read for me back then was him saying that its good to take "things" slow and day by day, he said even that sometimes its good not to have something every day but every second day, this I think he tried to say his wishes on how he wants "us" to go.
THis he told me after I tried to make him stay longer and he said he coudlnt, to which I said but I havent see him for long and he said, how now he will work closer to me and so we will be able to see eachother slowly and day by day.

So this is only thing he said which MIGHT have to do eith them ending, new beginings, and all that.
Its end of April so it makes sense with what you read then.

What you wrote to next few weeks for us, wow sounds so nice.
He did/does have some money troubles ( as you picked up on before)
but now he told me directly so I can confirm this.
He changed jobs 3 times and now finally went to a place where he worked at before.
He did bring up he had bills and such.. so yes there is worries around money which had him worried a lot before, since he wasnt getting his pay and so everything was a mess, but now, he got a job again so I think this will help him sort out many things.

did you want to look into something? How are you doing?
When is that party? is it this saturday?
are you going with a friend or alone?

Btw

How did A feel seeing me? how are his thoughts now about me and him?

and pls only when you will have time to do this, when you feel up to doing it, its no rush.

I gave A something a little gift and wrote a small note with it, he hasnt told me what he thinks, he took it to open at home, but I know he said he had to do a lot this afternoon, knowing him, expressing himself isnt his forte.
But still, he wrote nothing to me about it.
What did he think of it? how come he hasnt written to me about it?

thank you so much!!!

posted April 16, 2015 11:44 PM            

Overall I am fine. Busy at work for sure. My emotional state is somehow okay. On a daily basis I still have so much Qs in my head about my feelings towards him, his feelings towards me, about my needs in love in general… but I try to take step by step, you know, and I try to do a little progress every day.

*** EDITED ***

Thank you so much for your offer! I feel as if I need to put my feelings about this whole relationship and relationship-triangle (if I may call it so) with him and her to rest for a while. But really, thank you for your offer. I will leave you Qs for sure, as soon as I will fall into the area, where I won’t be able to control my feelings anymore.

Huh, that was a long essay. Now to you…

How did A feel seeing Fishy? How are his thoughts about her and him now?

Two of Cups – Four of Swords – Ace of Pentacles – Queen of Wands Rx (clarification)

Cards are in general positive.

He was more than just happy to finally see you! Two of Cups is all about attraction, unified love, really meaningful relationship. It literally shows us the beauty and power that is created when two become one! Harmony and balance is also pointed out with this card! This usually shows us that there is a mutual attraction between two people; it’s a creative, nurturing and inspirational love that really gives you fulfillment. This card also indicates a start of a new relationship (true relationship, perfect match – either a true friendship or really strong romantic bond). BUT in order to manifest a really great bond between two people, those two people need to understand that sometimes people need to adjust. That sometimes there are also hard times; it’s not all just hearts and flowers. I think that this indicates that he need to do some self-esteem work; I believe that he was somehow repressed in last years that his self-esteem is low and he needs to rebuild it. I believe that it would help him a lot, if you would mention him once in a while how great he is as a person. You know, just to help him to become a bit more self-confident.

Four of Swords indicates a painful situation or sorrow heartbreak, grief. Now I am still arguing of The Queen of Wands as a clarification for Four of Swords. May I ask – do you know if his ‘girlfriend’ possesses a lot of fire in her natal chart? It could be that he is still healing wounds from being manipulated and tricked from her. Her jealousy and her giving him constantly a feeling of a need to apologize exhausted him. BUT I must point out that this could also be an indicator that he could have a feeling that YOU maybe are too pushy right now (I mean that you want your relationship to happen quicker than he could be ready for it) therefore I really suggest you to take things slowly (as he already said). He needs a bit of a time to heal and (as I already mentioned once, he needs you two to be really good friends at first and through your friendship he will reach to you also romantically.). I remember getting The Chariot card (slow but sure movement forward) for you few times in previous readings and I believe that its meaning is coming now to fruition.

BUT you mustn’t worry about anything. With The Ace of Pentacles at the very end a new beginning is indicated. This card symbolizes wealth. But not only in a financial sense, also in a more holistic sense. It’s manifestation of your goals, it’s moving into a more positive state of mind. It shows a targeted action plan about how you will manifest your dreams. Well, the world is your oyster.

posted April 17, 2015 02:09 AM            

I do think its a good plan to leave early, but maybe let it be only a little plan, who knows maybe it turns out to be very fun and you end up staying.
Dont block yourself from fun because of him or her, you are going there to have fun and just because she is there doesnt mean you cant have the best time. You will see, take it easy and just enjoy.
I am sure there will be questions for me after the party

So about feedback, what I think about the queen of wands, well I dont think I am pushing him a lot or at all, I didnt bring up the subject of her and I agree with him to take it slow, but who knows how he does feel inside. But maybe its combination of both, but I would say its more her, she really did treat him bad so its not like he can get up and go like nothing happened. she really manipulated hell out of him.

self esteem work makes sense, I think also we both need to build up our trust again, old issues will bring this back.

posted April 17, 2015 01:21 PM            

Then, in two hours, I have choir practice. So I will use this opportunity to leave the party early. But I won’t have a wish to return to the party.

Funny thing; on Sunday I got a feeling as if things weren’t that good with the two of them anymore… Well, but I might be wrong. I still find myself often too subjective, when I think about him/her.

Thank you so much for feedback. Means a lot to me!