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Topic: exchange?
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cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 15, 2015 09:02 PM
  
Is anyone on right now?IP: Logged |
Melqart
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posted April 15, 2015 09:03 PM
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4059
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 15, 2015 09:25 PM
great what's your question? My question is is today one of my bosses who is the man got really short with me in kind of spoke to me in a way that for me was shocking cuz he never has before. I feel like I rub him the wrong way. But he was basically telling me I'm too hard on this program in which I audit.... because I'm an auditor.... and I need to lay off and let it go and he doesn't see any problems and I'm just looking for problems.. I just don't understand what happened today and I don't understand why this man isn't too fond of me. Can you look into that please IP: Logged |
luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 1395
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 15, 2015 10:23 PM
Cherful can I exchange with you? I hung out with R the other night and I wanna hang out with him again, but he hasn't called. How should I go about texting him? Or should I wait for him to do it? IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 15, 2015 10:26 PM
Surely...
by the way I read your thread about how you just quit I thought it was hysterical but I'm super happy that you're very happy
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Originally posted by luckystar25:
Cherful can I exchange with you? I hung out with R the other night and I wanna hang out with him again, but he hasn't called. How should I go about texting him? Or should I wait for him to do it?
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cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 15, 2015 10:29 PM
has it been like a week? I don't know why he hasn't contacted but I feel like if you wait he will contact you. However I think that you should initiate. but it should be something simple and short. like something that reminds you love him. Such as I just went to Starbucks and get a Frappuccino and it totally reminded me of you. then I think it would open up open communication quote:
Originally posted by luckystar25:
Cherful can I exchange with you? I hung out with R the other night and I wanna hang out with him again, but he hasn't called. How should I go about texting him? Or should I wait for him to do it?
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luckystar25
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From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 15, 2015 10:33 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
Surely...
by the way I read your thread about how you just quit I thought it was hysterical but I'm super happy that you're very happy
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Lmao thank you!!! I legit felt such a weight off my shoulders and felt all the negativity from working there release
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luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 1395
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 15, 2015 10:34 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
has it been like a week? I don't know why he hasn't contacted but I feel like if you wait he will contact you. However I think that you should initiate. but it should be something simple and short. like something that reminds you love him. Such as I just went to Starbucks and get a Frappuccino and it totally reminded me of you. then I think it would open up open communication
I sent him a message apologizing for being wasted that night lolol even tho he was too but I feel bad I made him late the next day to work, he never answered
I feel nervous askingbhim to hang out for some reason LOL i am the one that reached out to him Friday I dunno I should wait? IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4059
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 15, 2015 10:37 PM
you contacted him Friday, correct. I don't think he's holding any type of grudge. like I can't see a reason why he would not contact you back that doesn't seem to be any uncomfortable feelings or anything like that coming on his end. Maybe he needs reassurance again and therefore you touch base with him on something totally easy and breezy about, something to make him laugh out or have a happy moment. But I do think it will hear from him even if you don't contact him. Why he hasn't yet come on I honestly don't know I just don't send anything negative coming from his point of view though. So I hope I'm right on that
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Originally posted by luckystar25:
I sent him a message apologizing for being wasted that night lolol even tho he was too but I feel bad I made him late the next day to work, he never answeredI feel nervous askingbhim to hang out for some reason LOL i am the one that reached out to him Friday I dunno I should wait?
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luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 1395
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 15, 2015 10:48 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
you contacted him Friday, correct. I don't think he's holding any type of grudge. like I can't see a reason why he would not contact you back that doesn't seem to be any uncomfortable feelings or anything like that coming on his end. Maybe he needs reassurance again and therefore you touch base with him on something totally easy and breezy about, something to make him laugh out or have a happy moment. But I do think it will hear from him even if you don't contact him. Why he hasn't yet come on I honestly don't know I just don't send anything negative coming from his point of view though. So I hope I'm right on that
I was with him friday night -saturday afternoon and I texted him Monday night
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4059
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 15, 2015 10:49 PM
Oh ok....it's only been two days. I really think you're fine I think he's going to contact you. but for some reason I'm still thinking that you should lighten the mood by sending him an easy breezy text
and you can answer the same question I have posted up above
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Originally posted by luckystar25:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by cherful24:
[b]you contacted him Friday, correct. I don't think he's holding any type of grudge. like I can't see a reason why he would not contact you back that doesn't seem to be any uncomfortable feelings or anything like that coming on his end. Maybe he needs reassurance again and therefore you touch base with him on something totally easy and breezy about, something to make him laugh out or have a happy moment. But I do think it will hear from him even if you don't contact him. Why he hasn't yet come on I honestly don't know I just don't send anything negative coming from his point of view though. So I hope I'm right on that
I was with him friday night -saturday afternoon and I texted him Monday night [/B][/QUOTE]IP: Logged |
luckystar25
Knowflake Posts: 1395
From: boston mass
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 15, 2015 10:53 PM
What happened with your boss isn't your fault or even you. Its not personal at all, he's stressed and something is going on in his home life that is making him want to be anywhere else than at work. Try sending him mellow vibes, he needs it from someone lolIP: Logged |
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