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tgem
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posted April 17, 2015 10:14 AM
  
Hi Dear, how are you? How's things with A? I see you two are talking again  Would you be willing to exchange? JB and I are sooooo close to finalizing our divorce papers and last minute he told me he wants to take me off his life insurance policy. He said he doesn't know what his family situation will be like in the future and doesn't think his "future wife" would appreciate me on it even though the funds would be directly and specifically designed for our son's care only. We were soooo close to an amicable reconciliation and co-parenting agreement and then he pulled this on me. The chances he would ever even have to use the policy are so slim which I told him and that as a co-parent I would have thought it would have only been fair as we were trying to come up with a fair divorce settlement.
I am so hurt by this as it says to me he still continues to be sooooo selfish. It's not even like I would get the money...it's the principal of it.
I'm hurt but I'm also frustrated that I'm hurt and wish I didnt care. Can you look into what he's thinking? Is there an alternative motive here?
Is my ego getting in the way here? Thanks so much! I'll exchange.. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted April 17, 2015 12:06 PM
Sorry to hear this :/No its not your ego its his ego.
He is very much preparing for a future with some woman, now I dont know and I am not sure if this woman yet exsists but it feels to me like someone is filling his head against you, I dont feel this is all him, getting to this on his own. Its more someone elses ideas and wrong thinking about the whole thing. I keep feeling that someone else made him tink that what you are wanting, will benefit YOU in some way no matter how much you try to show/prove that it doesnt.
The alterior motive comes more to what I feel from a 3rd party ( not necessary a new woman) but someone else putting BS in his head. So, someone else is trying to plot against you and make sure you get least possible out of the whole divorce.
It really does feel like its not his doing. I am not feeling if this will change or not or how to make it all better, I just feel there could be conflicts if this were to be pushed into something more, this could be the stone on which you would trip over many times if the issue doesnt get resolved. ----- Yes me and A are talking and we even met up finally again. my Q :
- where are his thougts/feelings after seeing me?
- what do you see for me and him in the next few weeks? thank you IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 17, 2015 03:57 PM
How did A feel after seeing you?
Moon-tower-rider
I think he felt strong emotions from the past come up and that there could be a new beginning again for you two.What will happen between you two in the next few weeks?
Tower-stork-scythe
Looks like the affair he officially is in (the relationship with the other girl) will end. Or at least there looks to be movement of some kind here. Thanks for the reading about my ex. I'm trying so hard to stay strong and try to rise above my own ego of being upset but his selfishness makes me so mad..
Any suggestions as to how I can best deal with this over the next week or two? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted April 17, 2015 04:54 PM
thank you.The thing that came to me was I think what you hoped not to hear, but, it was to let it go. I am not saying completley let it go, but more from your mind and thinking about it and just to let it be and that a better solution will then come to you, but your mind needs to be clear for this to happen IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 17, 2015 05:33 PM
Thanks I understand. Will try my hardest.IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 18, 2015 10:16 AM
Oh man...I'm having a really hard time letting this go. He showed up at my front door this AM to pick up our son sporting ANOTHER new tattoo..again, I feel he is showing off to me spending his money while I am struggling.
I think his Ex is pregnant with his kid and he is trying to prepare to make a family with her..
What do you think about this?Leave a question if you like... IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted April 18, 2015 10:44 AM
What I get from this is a man going through some sort of crisis, acting out any way that seems natural to him. This still feels to me as a man who wants to punish you and again I must say it feels as though he is acting out other peoples words, in other words he is easily influenced by someone. BUt he is letting himself be influenced as he is trying to show how great life without is, I dont feel he means that though, I feel its more on the outside and inside he is not as good and happy as he seems to be.
I do actually ( you may not believe me) but I feel he feels bad when he does this to you, on the outside he seems to be happy but then I feel him go home and when he is alone ask himself why he does it, but he is deep into it that, thats all he knows, its easier than being honest.
so to me, this feels a lot like a big act, a show is being put on by him. TO prove his single life without you is so great and he needs all this fake "proof" to the outside to show this.My Q - How is A feeling/thinking about me these days? he seems to be a bit quiet.
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tgem
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posted April 18, 2015 11:09 AM
Ya know what? This REALLY makes a lot of sense. I have felt for a long time that he continued to punish me so I think you're right on with that one. I also agree that he is easily influenced and I'm really getting a strong feeling it's from his own mother! She and I had a very rocky relationship and things obviously didn't end well between her and I either. What's pathetic is that she, herself, is a complete mess and is probably the ONE person he should not be taking advice from but he'll learn that the hard way. It's comforting to know that he feels somewhat bad about it after the fact..I mean at least this means he has a speck of remorse left in him. Your insight actually has helped me process this a bit better now..thank you. How is A feeling about you these days?
Tree-house-snake
Heart to clarify snake
I'm taking the snake as you in this case (being the other woman.) This looks like he is contemplating and re-affirming within himself the feeling of stability, comfort and love he has for you. I think his quietness is just a reflection of him taking time to review his life.. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted April 18, 2015 11:15 AM
I am not saying this to "prove" I am right, I really in no means care to be right or correct, but I do think even from 1st time you asked, I did feel another womans influence I just am not sure if its mother or who since I cannot know if he has a live mother, so it does feel more like a "mother" figure to me.
I dont think a love interest would be influencing him so much.
To me it felt like an overbearing person who uses theor "position" and manipulates.
Uses things as " if you loved me"..." she doesnt want the best for you"... "she is using you" and so on..
this I see a person who would put on a smile and make someone else seem as the devil in the story, ergo put you as the devil in the story and her only looking out for him.
I.E. she has to protect her "poor" son from you getting any money..
actually the tattoo, its his rebelion against everythng! its something he did thats "his" and noone could do anything about it since it permanent.I am glad if I did help you You have helped me also, I just hope to hear from him soon that would be nice IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 18, 2015 11:24 AM
Yes yes yes!! Thank you!! Ok I think I can finally release this now. I asked if A will contact you soon and pulled: stars-mice-clover. Flowers to clarify clover. Yes he will..mice after stars shows you're worrying about it too much ❤️ IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted April 18, 2015 11:26 AM
thank you dear dont hesitate to ask what you need I will reply always as soon as I can. Be good to yourself and try to put you and your son first. Give some love to yourself you deserve, do something nice for yourself IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 25, 2015 03:13 PM
Hi! How are you??! Just checking in.....did A finally contact you? How are things between you two? So my son's father and are going to try and work together to plan a REALLY Awesome birthday party for him but most of the activities would be outside. We are shooting to have the party on Sat. 6/6. Could you look into this day this day for me? I'm wondering if the weather will be nice enough (sunny at least) to have it outside? Thx!! Feel free to shoot me a question IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted April 25, 2015 04:45 PM
sorry wont do any readings any more.take care IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 25, 2015 07:04 PM
Oh Dear! What's wrong? Did I say/do something? Or are you not doing anymore readings in general? Please don't go; you are so gifted and have been so accurate (for me at least) you've been a wonderful support and help. Did something go wrong on the forum that has caused you not to do readings anymore?IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
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posted April 25, 2015 07:11 PM
Its not you.
Sorry I already made up my mind I am only replying because I had a good connection with you.
Wish you all the best
I am sure someone else can give you good insight aswell..
thank you on nice words
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tgem
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posted April 25, 2015 07:39 PM
Ok IF, I understand. Good luck to you and if you ever decide to come back to doing readings please look me up. All the best!  IP: Logged |
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