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Topic: Generally Creeped Out Tarot Exchange
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BellaFenice
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From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
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posted April 22, 2015 05:48 PM
  
Ok, so there is this individual who is legitimately obsessed with me to the point of writing emails about how much they hate me to several people in a threatening manner. They seem to follow my every move too, which is disturbing. I don't normally post stuff like this either, but I think I am dealing with someone who is not all mentally there. (1) Why does this person hate me? (2) Should I consider legal action?
Ask me any questions you have.
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Ceridwen
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posted April 22, 2015 05:58 PM
 That is so nasty!1) 5 of pentacles - 5 of swords - 10 of swords Ouch, she really does not like you. I suppose she feels you are robbing her of something, maybe support from others, credibility, trust or even ideas (?). There is a lot of nasty stuff going on here, disputes, disagreements, that might resemble a (mental) war. Sorry, it really looks bad with this spread. 
2)Ring - Dog - bear
No legal cards in here. Hmm, maybe what would be more helpful is having devoted friends support you and take a stand?
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Ceridwen
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posted April 22, 2015 05:58 PM
That is so nasty!1) 5 of pentacles - 5 of swords - 10 of swords Ouch, she really does not like you. I suppose she feels you are robbing her of something, maybe support from others, credibility, trust or even ideas (?). There is a lot of nasty stuff going on here, disputes, disagreements, that might resemble a (mental) war. Sorry, it really looks bad with this spread.
2)Ring - Dog - bear
No legal cards in here. Hmm, maybe what would be more helpful is having devoted friends support you and take a stand?
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thequeen
Knowflake Posts: 1150
From: Al Da Beatz
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 22, 2015 05:59 PM
Hi Bella,I wanted to know why did I go through this lesson and what lies on my path ahead here. I'll read for you in a while. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted April 22, 2015 05:59 PM
I'm think you need legal action . I mean if you fear her. Her energy is just rotten. I think she's jealous of you.IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 22, 2015 11:36 PM
You guys are good! You picked up on the gender without me telling you.Yeah, so I wouldn't say that I'm scared of her doing anything, I am just more disturbed that someone has nothing better to do than email people and slander in threatening words. I don't spend an ounce of energy trying to retaliate or engage with this person, I ignore 90% of their behavior. I think it is pathological to be honest. I don't know if I have a legal case to begin with but if it doesn't stop, I may have to try this route. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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posted April 23, 2015 06:36 PM
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Originally posted by thequeen:
Hi Bella,I wanted to know why did I go through this lesson and what lies on my path ahead here. I'll read for you in a while.
Could you give me a little more context? I can read off of the above but it wouldn't be as accurate. IP: Logged |
thequeen
Knowflake Posts: 1150
From: Al Da Beatz
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 23, 2015 09:18 PM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Could you give me a little more context? I can read off of the above but it wouldn't be as accurate.
Ahh . . nothing leave it . . just a similar person you wrote about just busy screwing my entire life. Hating for no reason, and spreading ill words about me behind my back, but it's a bit too far fetched to pay any heed to anymore. So my lesson was, don't let other's use you because they themselves are incapable or demented ( a little bit harsh word, sorry for that) in their own lives. You're not entitled to someones delirious disposition. Protect yourself without attacking in first place. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
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posted April 23, 2015 10:11 PM
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Originally posted by thequeen:
Ahh . . nothing leave it . . just a similar person you wrote about just busy screwing my entire life. Hating for no reason, and spreading ill words about me behind my back, but it's a bit too far fetched to pay any heed to anymore. So my lesson was, don't let other's use you because they themselves are incapable or demented ( a little bit harsh word, sorry for that) in their own lives. You're not entitled to someones delirious disposition. Protect yourself without attacking in first place.
Ok, cool. Thanks for the advice though, makes sense. If you want another reading instead just let me know. IP: Logged |
thequeen
Knowflake Posts: 1150
From: Al Da Beatz
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 23, 2015 10:41 PM
Ok thanks, what will happen in my love life in next three months. If you've any other question let me know, or if you want the same answered ?IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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posted April 25, 2015 12:04 AM
I have a few more questions about this woman if you or anyone wants to answer them.
Justice
8 of Wands
Clarifier: 3 of Wands This is definitely a good one! I believe you have experienced some difficulties in love the last few years? This combination to me indicates you are going to meet someone that you immediately connect with. It will go well as long as you have learned the lessons of the past. I think you may consider making life changes and/or moving because of this person, and at the very least commitment. IP: Logged |
VacantGazer
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Registered: Dec 2014
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posted April 25, 2015 04:35 AM
Hey Bella, I've never had an exchange with you before, would you still be up for one?  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted April 25, 2015 05:22 AM
Hi Bella, I had a certain "energetic hunch" when you mentioned your story, but I am probably far off the mark, and wouldnīt want to accuse someone unfairly. But maybe that feeling might have made me see the person as female.
If you can pull some cards for me, maybe you could pull on the question how the interaction with P will be like.
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BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 2829
From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
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posted April 25, 2015 10:15 PM
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Originally posted by VacantGazer:
Hey Bella, I've never had an exchange with you before, would you still be up for one?
Hey! Sure! What is your question? IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
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posted April 25, 2015 10:29 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Hi Bella, I had a certain "energetic hunch" when you mentioned your story, but I am probably far off the mark, and wouldnīt want to accuse someone unfairly. But maybe that feeling might have made me see the person as female.
If you can pull some cards for me, maybe you could pull on the question how the interaction with P will be like.
Understandable, I've had those hunches before so I get that. 4 of Pentacles
Ace of Pentacles Clarifier: The Devil A lot of this is going to revolve around security, where at least one of you is going to be a little more reserved about their true feelings, similar to being 'locked up' like the man in the 4 of Pents cards holds the pentacle. I get the sense there is some sort of blockage, and one or both you of you wants to get closer but circumstances won't let you proceed (or is it up to someone to do something?). I think the interaction though on a positive note will be comforting and solid because there is a previous foundation to go on. There is some sort of temptation in the background, which probably is why reservation will be taken in some areas. Are there limitations in your interactions with P, that is what the cards seem to tell me? IP: Logged |
VacantGazer
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From: Europe
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted April 26, 2015 05:20 AM
Hey Bella, Thanks for the reply, I'm going to take a little break for a few days, but will come back IP: Logged |
thequeen
Knowflake Posts: 1150
From: Al Da Beatz
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 27, 2015 06:39 AM
Hi Bella, I tried reading for you many times but it seems my energy field is a little unclear right now. However I can help you by reading natal or any other question related to astrological chart if you wish to ask. I'm sorry to be a downer. Hope you understand, I don't wish to give any random reading. If you want I can read for you Moon cycles for coming months. I'd need your birth details. Thanks for the reading, I'll keep you updated on this one for sure. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted April 28, 2015 12:56 PM
Bella, you are REALLY good. There are at least two major blocks.
One is that he is being married (and I consider that a Himalaya-like block.  )
The other being he is a performer. I "should" be just a fan, and I most probably am. Yet he seems rather intrigued with me during his shows, always been paying a lot of attention to me, also frequently hovering around me during the show and during the breaks (something I did not "get" when we still would have had a chance, maybe). There is quite a "blurred lines" thing going on, in some respects. I do think however that there is potential for a nice aquaitanceship, yet there IS temptation simmering in the background (and especially during the last year maybe a little too much in the foreground), but we are both adults, and responsible, and aware of the blocks and possible consequences, and aware that we don`t even really know each other that well.
it`s just.... a spark, that is all.
And at least from my side this almost creepy familiarity. When I first met him, it was actually like he had always been in my life, or at least at some point been close to me (like a family member) in my life, and I just had "forgotten" temporarily (like sometimes you don`t remember people from your childhood, yet they shaped your family-experience). But maybe that is just cause we actually spent (parts of ) our childhood in the same city, and our families seem so similiar.
And it`s not just that HE pays attention to me, so does his family, especially his mom, who has a very similiar x-ray stare as my own mother has. I remember when I first consciously saw her, she was x-raying me as if to prove if my heart was light as a feather, so to speak.
It used to creep me out a little, given that Ishould not matter, that I should be just one of the crowd, that I should be invisble, but somehow I seem to be more than just a little visible, even though I never really DID anything. Not a typical fan-girl here, never been.
In fact I recently told him that I donīt want autographs, cause "what would I do with them?" which maybe is not the smartest thing to tell an actor, that you donīt want his autograph. lol
But he didn`t know either what someone would do with an autograph, but looked as if that was the first time he had heard of that or that thought crossed his mind, and was giving a bit of thought about that. Personally I think that getting an autograph is just an excuse to initiate a talk with someone, well an actor. I don`t need excuses.
If I want to talk to somebody, I havet o find the courage to just do so.
I suppose that is where my Sag-Mercury comes into play. So all in all, you could say our interaction is pretty weird, but it has improved infinitely (as for some years I managed to avoid him, to pretend I donīt see him or whatever, even when I almost bumped into him - which coincicdentally happened so often, it was unnerving - and even on his own shows. Yeah good call pretending I donīt know the singer whose show I am just visiting.  I was silly, but most of all insecure, awkwared, shy and what else. And it might be that changed a tiny little bit, which helped or should help having a rather normal interaction for the rare occasions we are in the same room. Cause when we are in the same room, chances are he shows up in my physical proximnity, as he always does. lol So it is about time to find a way to deal with it in mature grown up- ways, instead of putting the head in the sand and pretend to be blind and deaf and stupid. lol ) IP: Logged | |
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