Author
|
Topic: My friend's husband just passed away
|
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3307 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted May 02, 2015 03:09 PM
I would love to help her in some way. She lost her husband to cancer and would find great solace if she could get a message from him. Any mediums or intuitives here who could help? Or if you know of someone who could, please let me have their name or contact. Thank you. . IP: Logged |
OnTheOtherHand Knowflake Posts: 46 From: LONDON,UK Registered: Nov 2014
|
posted May 02, 2015 03:56 PM
I lost my husband 7 yrs ago..It's not what you're asking for but I found the 'merrywidows' online forum a huge comfort..everyone is in the same boat.Also, I was advised not to visit mediums too early to let the grieving process begin. This doesn't mean she shouldn't of course but I felt comfortable to go after about 6 mths or so and felt it was the right time for me...maybe someone else can help you with this bit but I can pass on a name if you like, I wanted to offer the Merrywidow.me.uk site. It's uk but welcomes anyone. What a good friend you are.. IP: Logged |
VacantGazer Knowflake Posts: 797 From: Europe Registered: Dec 2014
|
posted May 02, 2015 04:00 PM
Sorry to hear Astro, my wishes to your friend. IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3307 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted May 02, 2015 05:03 PM
Thank you both.I was told by a spiritualist that people who have passed over usually go through a process of transitioning wherein they must not be disturbed. They may be at the stage of orienting themselves to the afterlife, and this could take a while. Exceptionally, I was told that my father, who died after a prolonged illness, emerged in a strong, clear manner and wanting to communicate immediately. He hadn't been able to speak for a few months before he passed away, and what he communicated through the spiritualist was wonderful. So, it appears to vary. A spiritualist or an intuitive may be able to sense how the person is feeling now, which may be relief from an illness. That could be helpful to know, even if direct communication is not possible. IP: Logged |
OnTheOtherHand Knowflake Posts: 46 From: LONDON,UK Registered: Nov 2014
|
posted May 02, 2015 05:25 PM
I was told similar but like you say, it must depend. The guy I know is in Kent but has started phone consultations, he's honest and I suspect won't consult if he doesn't feel it's appropriate..he's a good, genuine guy. Let me know if you'd like his name at any point and I'll pass it on via email. IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3307 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted May 02, 2015 05:31 PM
Thanks. Please send the info to Will edit soon.IP: Logged |
OnTheOtherHand Knowflake Posts: 46 From: LONDON,UK Registered: Nov 2014
|
posted May 02, 2015 05:57 PM
Have just sent it through!IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 2884 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
|
posted May 02, 2015 10:55 PM
Don't know anyone that could help you, but my condolences to your friend. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1355 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
|
posted May 03, 2015 10:34 AM
Hello Astro,I don't normally do ones like this because I realize the remarkable responsibility they represent to both the living and those passed and I would hate to let anyone down, but I got clear impressions yesterday and now today in seeing this headline. Relief. He is conscious and aware that he feels no more pain...none at all. Confusion. He's still in some 'middle place' and is trying to figure out quite what comes next. He sees her, he sees her pain. He hurts for her and with her, but doesn't understand why right now because of his state - right now he's experiencing it on a soul level, as a universal compassion. No fear, no regret, no sadness. Peace, but no idea what to do with it. Suspension. His soul isn't at a point yet where it can reflect on his associations, his impact, what was accomplished and what goals were not met in this lifetime. It will get there but it hasn't yet. Time is a subjective thing for us here - very different once we leave this lifetime. So he is okay, but his soul is not in a place where he can yet associate to this lifetime. It will get there. I know this is not really what you were hoping for, but I thought it might at least help her to know that all pain is gone. All of it.
IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3307 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted May 03, 2015 10:37 AM
LT,Thank you very much. This is very kind of you. And yes, it will help her. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1355 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
|
posted May 03, 2015 10:44 AM
I have a private message for you regarding her.IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3307 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
|
posted May 03, 2015 10:46 AM
Got it!IP: Logged |