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Topic: Is he doing this to hurt me?
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SereneDaze
Knowflake Posts: 320
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 05, 2015 12:47 PM
  
I am just devastated right now...its really complicated but someone I really cared about said he had to go. I sent him messages Just a few minutes ago I saw that he took the time to delete me..I am just out of words. Why did he do that? What was his intention? I would be so grateful if anyone can help me out with this. IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 387
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 05, 2015 01:20 PM
I would love to help but I need to get the story straight...you sent him messages, he deleted them and hasn't responded to you?
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SereneDaze
Knowflake Posts: 320
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 05, 2015 01:24 PM
No, i'll just keep this simple.He told me he wasnt going to be around anymore, he said his goodbyes and didnt respond to any of my messages. After a week of that i gave up. And now i saw that hes deleted me. IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 387
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 05, 2015 01:36 PM
I simply asked why did he delete you?
Anchor - Fox - TreeFirst off that Fox in the middle is interesting to me. I do think he was intentionally trying to hurt you I am sorry to say...Fox looks out for themselves usually. Their best interest is what all that matters. They see deleting you as 'healthy' for them in the long-term. I also got the 'karma' feeling, that if you ever hurt him, intentionally or not before, they are returning it right back. Makes sense?
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SereneDaze
Knowflake Posts: 320
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 05, 2015 01:48 PM
Wow im still trying to grasp with whats happening. I think it might make sense if he thinks it will benefit him, but i've never hurt him or treated him in a way that would warrant such coldness in return.IP: Logged |
sunnybunny
Knowflake Posts: 626
From: tellico plains,usa
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 06, 2015 05:36 AM
i'm gonna do a reading for you, but before that i can't help but share my knee-jerk reaction to your question.
my father used to say "when you know your question, you know your answer"
which is kind of like saying "if you even have to ask...."
the question i think you should be asking is "should i invest time and emotion into a relationship with ____________?"
"is he gonna hurt me?" is a question that makes you a victim from the start.
a question like "should i invest time and emotion into a relationship with ____________?" puts YOU in the driver's seat.
now i'm gonna work on your question hon.IP: Logged |
sunnybunny
Knowflake Posts: 626
From: tellico plains,usa
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 06, 2015 05:43 AM
serene daze, i drew seven of swords, i don't think you should invest time and emotion into this relationship, even if you get back together, it's never gonna work out, the 7 of swords is a card that represents egotistical jerks of all kinds and also indicates mental problems like paranoia so cut your losses and next time you wanna know about someone ask a more self-empowering question like "should i invest time and emotion into a relationship with ____________?" don't give this jerk the pleasure of asking him why he deleted you, instead post something like "every time someone deletes me, it's like the trash just took itself out"IP: Logged |
SereneDaze
Knowflake Posts: 320
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 06, 2015 07:58 AM
@sunnybunnyThank you for that reading and sharing that piece of advice, I'll keep that in mind. I guess what's done is done, there's no use thinking about it. IP: Logged |
furrybunny
Knowflake Posts: 280
From: NYC
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted May 06, 2015 02:16 PM
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Originally posted by sunnybunny:
serene daze, i drew seven of swords, i don't think you should invest time and emotion into this relationship, even if you get back together, it's never gonna work out, the 7 of swords is a card that represents egotistical jerks of all kinds and also indicates mental problems like paranoia so cut your losses and next time you wanna know about someone ask a more self-empowering question like "should i invest time and emotion into a relationship with ____________?" don't give this jerk the pleasure of asking him why he deleted you, instead post something like "every time someone deletes me, it's like the trash just took itself out"
sorry for being nosey lols but i dont think the guy should even get a quote dedicated to him even if it is calling him trash :/ acknowledging it means he affected u to a degree. serene i hope things work out for you! wish i was as intuitive as others on this forum  IP: Logged |
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