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Topic: Exchange: that ONE word response
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Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4982
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 09, 2015 11:59 PM
  
Everyone tells me he's guarded, insecure, and blocked off from past events, but I'm starting to believe he's just not that into me. Long story short, I let my friend (a guy) talk me into asking David to go to the movies with me for the second time. I'm not going to get into detail about what happened after the first, but let's just say it was a roller coaster ride. Anyway, David surprisingly replied back rather quickly, but all he said was "Okay  "
Now I know what you're thinking...seems like a good response, but to me when there was a lot of time and thought put into the msg of asking him out. I just feel like his one word response means he didnt want to say No and hurt my feelings.Question: How does David truly feel about going to the movies with me? (I'll give 2 Readings to every person who answers) IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 1173
From: somewhere in south and the east
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 12:08 AM
i am not sure but did you ask him to the movies and that was his reply? i feel he does not have any ill intention. he said that because he was not sure how to respond. intuitively, he was looking if u have anything else to say, because i see confusion (perhaps from info overload?)were your text wordy? IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4982
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 10, 2015 12:14 AM
Hi Peacefulclouds Yes, that was his only response & My text was pretty short, not even sure that "Okay" is him saying yes or that he'll think about it. Think is what I sent him:
"Have a great weekend, by the way if you are interested in seeing the rock new movie San Andreas let me know it looks pretty good." IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 1173
From: somewhere in south and the east
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 12:33 AM
Ah ok, yeah my reading still stands (looking if you will add more to your text or not in that "What does this chick wants?, really?") I will pull cards for you why the one word response ad whether he actually is interested to go with you or not: Page of Swords
5 of Pentacles So page of swords confirms he was being cautious but also firm. He's not sure how to respond to your text, ambivalent about it. 5 of Pents indicate at this moment he's not that interested in going out to that movie with you. I will ask also if he's interested in moonfish using three cards Two of swords, knight of wands, the sun In terms of love, well not yet. He is ambivalent (2 of swords) because he's not the type that easily trusts people in the realm of heart. From what I felt, this guy has a scorpionic influence on him- so correct me if I'm wrong (I am not sure if you guys are already close or not really)- so he values directness but I also feel some libra influence in his tendency to 'wait and see'. There is interest and I feel with perseverance your outcome would be pretty good (The Sun) but this guy is a tough one. He does not give in easily and depending how well you know this guy, you may be in for a ride in this ahem courting stage. My advice is be consistent in your presence regardless his response, and have sincere conversations (no, not heart to heart type of convo, but be sincere in your approach, saying hi without expecting any specific type of respond) when the opportunity present itself. This guy seems to have trouble trusting people but funnily enough I feel he is nice to others (at least how others sees him), but deep down he seems to have trouble in trust department unless he 'gets used to it'. Not malicous! Just part of his personality. IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4982
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 10, 2015 12:53 AM
You are exactly right about him peaceful!
He is in fact a Scorpio Sun, Venus, and Mercury (maybe Libra ASC) but yes, very sweet guy yet extremely stern at the same time.
Idk if my Pisces moon-ASC can continue to reach out to him when emotionally I feel nothing but a brick wall. The only reason why I have recently is the advice/encouragement of my friends. But your reading has definitely helped validate that he is indeed just a guarded person.Thank you Peacefulclouds 
And feel free to ask me question(s)! IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 1173
From: somewhere in south and the east
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 01:07 AM
Well if you want this man this takes time! Scorpio pisces does have that irresistible pull All the best!My question: A person I had history with (friendship, though I have feelings from my side) named SH contacted me weeks ago for a job offer (already very strange) after months of silence from my side (plus I blocked him in early April- but he claims he still able to follow my 'updates' despite knowing I have blocked him everywhere). We ended up meeting before I left the country because he wanted to, and I stated my case on why I cannot be friends with him.. because he is getting engaged to marry this August and he knows my feelings from the very beginning. Long story short, he told me his job offer still stands as he only trusts me, and he said he will contact me about it once I returned if progress on the job is there. He promised he will keep personal stuff out. The job, if approved, will be from May until at least September 2015. It is a long & involved job. I returned a week ago, and no contact from him yet. My questions: 1. Do you see if he has changed his mind about his job offer- or do you see if he will still contact me within next week to follow up on that job offer? 2. IF the answer to above is yes, what does he actually want for me, what is he thinking/expecting from this? We had complicated history, he could have easily find someone else cheaper and more available. Thanks IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4982
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 10, 2015 01:34 AM
1. Two of Sites (reserved) - King of Tomes (reserved) - Deep one - Ghoul
There is definitely a weariness coming from him about the job offer since you've left. The idea of changing his mind is there, but it's not official. To a certain extent, I'm getting the feeling that he's a little bitter about you ending the friendship.
The good news is that the (Deep one) suggest that he is really taking the time to pause and reflect. In the end he wants to be the mature person and give you what he promised.
I pulled a clarifier for you Hastur :
I think he will end up keeping his promise to you, but not for the best intentions. There is be the possibility he sees this as an opportunity to provide him authority/power over you. So be careful.2. Page of Tomes (reserved) - Two of Tomes - Page of Artifacts - King of Tomes (reserved)
So I asked 'What does SH expect from giving peacefulclouds this job offer?" This to me validates that he is looking to have some kind of power over you. However, I can see that he's not the type of person to go TOO far with his manipulative tendencies. These dark intentions will cross his mind but he will not act on them. Yes, he may be offering this job to you for a selfish reason, but in the end the outcome will turn out positive for you. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 1173
From: somewhere in south and the east
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 01:42 AM
Thanks, sounds about right so far IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 1173
From: somewhere in south and the east
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posted May 10, 2015 01:55 AM
It makes sense, funnily enough why I have a feeling this 'domination' seems to be a substitution for his inability to 'dominate' me in any other ways?When you say positive, is it positive as a job (For me), or positive for my true wish? Thanks moonfish IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4982
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 10, 2015 02:06 AM
You're welcome! I would say Yes
I think he misses having that attention from you, and now that he's getting married he feels like in order to keep it going, he needs to find ways to keep you around. I believe the job will turn out to be positive for you. I do believe that once it happens that you should keep your distance from SH, and not give him the satisfaction of having someone around just to boost his ego. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 1173
From: somewhere in south and the east
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 02:27 AM
Thank you, all the best IP: Logged |
VacantGazer
Knowflake Posts: 885
From: Europe
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 10:22 AM
Moonfish -still exchanging?IP: Logged |
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