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Venia
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posted June 04, 2015 12:55 AM
  
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cherful24
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posted June 04, 2015 01:03 AM
No, no, no....a very strong no!! this person is not the same as before and he is really bad intentions. he seems to be lost and a bit damaged. he got into some bad dealings it seems. he's coming to you for a variety of reasons but you don't want to get involved . he'll use your emotions and eventually he'll ask for moneyIP: Logged |
luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:04 AM
I'm in I'll be right back with your question?Why does R seem to be acting strange towards me IP: Logged |
luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:06 AM
Grass is greener on the other side for him, he is also going thru hard times. He's just trying to be a selfish jerk and get what he wants from you emotionally and sexually and then disappear/act like an ******* again IP: Logged |
luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:08 AM
Cheerful want to also exchange? Same question I asked above IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted June 04, 2015 01:08 AM
I have a question about Ian, a guy that I was seeing for a few months. I'm very confused on why he just went m.i.a. when we first dated and he said he wanted to get serious he had no problem communicating to me that he needed to backtrack that and he couldn't be serious cuz a lot of stuff going on mostly with his daughter that he was trying to get visitation rights for. and he also told me that isn't going to some ups and downs the past few years and I've been a blessing to him as I'm the only one that encouraged him to get back on track I didn't yell at him I put him down. So one night he was over as usual and then he left the next day I texted him and he never texted back. Which is extremely odd because he's so good at communication. so if you have any clues on why he felt it was okay for him to just go m.i.a, please let me know and also what happened to him? dating someone is he dealing with baby mama drama, what? Or what is it that I did wrong?IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted June 04, 2015 01:10 AM
yes and my question is the same as well
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Originally posted by luckystar25:
Cheerful want to also exchange? Same question I asked above
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luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:10 AM
Ok brb IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted June 04, 2015 01:12 AM
is R a guy that likes you? like is it visible to you that you know that he likes you or has a crush on you and he knows that... That you know? I see you hooked up with someone and is hoping to God you don't find out and that's why he's acting weird flash a bit uncomfortable. let me know if this resonates
QUOTE]Originally posted by luckystar25:
I'm in I'll be right back with your question?
Why does R seem to be acting strange towards me[/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:13 AM
quote:
Originally posted by cherful24:
is R a guy that likes you? like is it visible to you that you know that he likes you or has a crush on you and he knows that... That you know? I see you hooked up with someone and is hoping to God you don't find out and that's why he's acting weird flash a bit uncomfortable. let me know if this resonates
QUOTE]Originally posted by luckystar25:
[b]I'm in I'll be right back with your question?
Why does R seem to be acting strange towards me
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I haven't hooked up with anyone but him..and we just started hanging out again...he acts so hot and cold towards me..ugh!!!
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luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:14 AM
Ian was being deceitful to you, seeing a few other girls also. He caught feelings for one of them and disappeared out of shame of facing you and telling you the truth IP: Logged |
Venia
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posted June 04, 2015 01:15 AM
@cherfulSorry but what is m.i.a??? Ok...Are you sure Ian was not involved with another woman.
I see a family bond here - as if he worked things out with his ex wife/ gf!
I see him receiving a msg from that person that made him thing things over and make a new beginning...
It's something he kept hidden and he apparently wasn't clear with his intentions.
(Page of Wands, 10 of Pentacles, Death, High Priestess) I also asked if he will contact you...Five of Swords.
No - at least not any time soon. ************** Thank you for the reading.
This man was a friend as well and we went through a lot back then - so the frienship part is the most important.
Money??? Mmm no - he's rich actually! IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted June 04, 2015 01:16 AM
Sorry...I meant him...he did
QUOTE]Originally posted by luckystar25:
I haven't hooked up with anyone but him..and we just started hanging out again...he acts so hot and cold towards me..ugh!!![/QUOTE]
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luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:17 AM
I haven't hooked up with anyone but him since we started this confusion in october..and we just started hanging out again...he acts so hot and cold towards me..ugh!!!
He hooked up with someone or me?
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luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:18 AM
Can you tell me who it is? Or at least describe her?IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted June 04, 2015 01:19 AM
Lol....missing in action. He basically... just disappeared on me
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Originally posted by Venia:
@cherfulSorry but what is m.i.a???
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luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:20 AM
Sooo his friend that's s girl who we all use to work together found out I read cards...she's been messaging me on fb for a reading..the guy she keeps asking me about sounds like exactly what R does to me...either its her and she changed his name for the reading ..or someone elseIP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted June 04, 2015 01:21 AM
Okay can you tell me anything about her and if they're going to go the distance and be serious. ...do you know why you didn't want something with me or catch feelings for me?
what was he looking for me to do or provide that I wasn't giving him? Ask that question because I need to you apparently get better at dating so I can get a long term boyfriend QUOTE]Originally posted by luckystar25:
Ian was being deceitful to you, seeing a few other girls also. He caught feelings for one of them and disappeared out of shame of facing you and telling you the truth [/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:22 AM
I told him she was messaging me for a reading...I'm starting to put the prices together...like did he get weird after I told him that..Ugh!!!!!!
Like why is my life like a soap opera!!
If that's what's going on that is just messed up IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted June 04, 2015 01:24 AM
can be because I feel that you know this person and he knows that you know this person. but I don't find that he's interested in her. This person seems a very available almost a bit desperate for his attention. she was very persistent with this guy so it's very easy for him but also makes him feel good because because I feel like the man when he's around her because that's how she makes me feel. But yet when he leave her he gets annoyed and it's almost embarrassing that she kind of throws himself at him. I don't says he wants anything from this girl and I don't believe he feels she's even girlfriend material. but it's kind of like he's able to have hookups so he's like why not and with the pressure he gives in. But I sent his friends know about it too and I do since he does talk about that conflict with them because he doesn't want you to find out quote:
Originally posted by luckystar25:
Sooo his friend that's s girl who we all use to work together found out I read cards...she's been messaging me on fb for a reading..the guy she keeps asking me about sounds like exactly what R does to me...either its her and she changed his name for the reading ..or someone else
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luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:25 AM
From the cards basicsaly shes loud, bitchy and won't stop until she gets her way, she pretty much dominated him and he accepted. Sometimes men need to be treated that way...I'm right there with you cheerful I wish they had classes to learn this kind of **** !
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luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:28 AM
So it is her.....she literally said to me she doesnt like the fact that she can't get what she wants from this one guy because she always gets what she wants .. This is ******* weird if this crazy ***** is asking me to read her cards about him IP: Logged |
luckystar25
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posted June 04, 2015 01:30 AM
Ugughughugh what do I do!!IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted June 04, 2015 01:32 AM
I would bring it up to him. I would be like the rumor has it you're hooking up with some girl that I know. I don't know if you want to be his girlfriend but that will kind of tell you where he's at
QUOTE]Originally posted by luckystar25:
Ugughughugh what do I do!![/QUOTE]
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Venia
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posted June 04, 2015 01:32 AM
@luckystarThanks for the reading... I'm being cautious anyway. And really observing the whole thing 
Friendship is also included so makes it more confusing. For your q I got:
Five of Wands, Queen of Swords, Nine of Swords Mmm... He seemed to have a fight/ disagreement with a lady that meant a lot to him... Something that makes him feel terrible about it.
I'm just trying to understand what does that have to do with you? !
You guys are not romantically involved, right? Cause I sense fickle feelings and actions towards you... nothing stable yet. Makes sense? IP: Logged |
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