posted June 08, 2015 01:13 PM            

he is being a total jerk and please back off and let some other sap play his game. dont be his doormat. he is being supper immature, egoistic and stupid

I am sorry you went through this.

posted June 09, 2015 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I'd like to ask somehting please.

Has A recently thought about me/ what were his thoughts?

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I asked if A had thought about you and got mice, book and birds. Yes I do think he has thought about you but isn't wanting anyone to know...book here is keeping things quiet, birds is a couple.

What were his thoughts....stars, crossroads, clouds, rider and snake. I feel like he is faced with so much confusion and that there is another woman he's thinking about as well. The snake at the end confirms this for me. I feel like he got some difficult news from this other woman and those are his main thoughts right now and that's causing the confusion and why he's forced with decisions.

posted June 09, 2015 01:12 PM            

I do think it has happened before where he did something to avoid conflict.

Could you try anf ask about the pregnancy?or could it mean something else?
please

It has come up as a possibility before but I dont know. I could only hear it through other people but I dont want to ask any of his friends because he will find out.

what do you mean difficuly news? something bad about her?

thank you.

I have a weird feeling about all this, see its visible its her who took the pic of them (selfies of them together)
also she has not like not 1 pic he put up, which from her ( she lives for gettings likes) I find it odd, she is younger too so thats something that is important to her.
She hasnt even liked the pic he put up.

posted June 09, 2015 06:10 PM            

Yes I do think that her wanting to get pregnant is veeery possible, it would be probably her last resort as to trying to keep him.

I have a 2 part question lol

1 part - I saw A went online to (wapp) very near to the time the pic of them came up, since its even possible she made him or even put it up herself, was there any argument over this?
(she has her passwords so its very possible she did it)

and 2nd part - I also saw me and A keep going online on wapp nearly same time for half the day, so I do think he noticed ( checked)
are we playing some sort of "chasing" game checking eachother when each is going online?

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posted June 09, 2015 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
sorry I am a bit confused now.
Who will get the news him or her?
in the 1st post you said he gets news about her but now you said she will get the news?

Yes I do think that her wanting to get pregnant is veeery possible, it would be probably her last resort as to trying to keep him.

I have a 2 part question lol

1 part - I saw A went online to (wapp) very near to the time the pic of them came up, since its even possible she made him or even put it up herself, was there any argument over this?
(she has her passwords so its very possible she did it)

and 2nd part - I also saw me and A keep going online on wapp nearly same time for half the day, so I do think he noticed ( checked)
are we playing some sort of "chasing" game checking eachother when each is going online?

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Through his mind he wants to try and show you he does want this, but I feel that a part of him wasnt really honest. weel I feel is that he has been aware he was a jerk to you so he did say something to give you some hope back that he is not the true ******* he turned out to be. But I do feel that he did in a way say what he thought you wanted to hear. I feel that he is very good with words and knows what to say at the right time.
I do feel some more push pull from him so I am not quite sure the games are over for good right now.

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Sorry to confuse you. I feel he will get the difficult news from her but it will end in heartbreak for her if that makes sense. I do feel she pushed him to put the pic up and he did it to keep a bigger argument from happening.

posted June 10, 2015 01:34 PM            

Also, I wish I would have listened to you regarding ML. Yesterday he did so good with texting me and even texted me Monday night to make sure I made it home ok. Now, he's back on the dating site and I don't exist again....ugh. I so want to call him out on it but it won't help. He did say he was going to try to see me tonight....will that happen?

posted June 10, 2015 02:45 PM            

Next time he texts say " sorry out of the country, will get to you another time" and then dont text him

Why do you want him?? he is being a total jerk and you are being a pushover

hun, please find some respect, please

posted June 11, 2015 08:25 AM            

But I hope you try and just take care of yourself, put yourself first, have a bit more respect and do put it so easy for him. make him work for it because you ARE worth it!

I just want you to put yourself first.

posted June 11, 2015 04:32 PM            

What ever issues he might have now, and sure he might have them, is not reason to be a jerk. Like I said before everyone has 3 mintutes in their lifes to reply to a text !