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Topic: @intuituvefish @LostTaurus
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SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 10:48 AM
I really need an exchange from you guys now...I honestly don't know what is going on with him.
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LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 01:38 PM
Narrow this down for me a bit Serene. Tapping into it feels like head-spinning confusion all the way around to me...Ask specific questions and I'll try my best... IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 01:40 PM
Sorry I was waiting till you posted before going into detail.I'm really concerned about P. He keeps deleting me and he knows this has hurt me badly before in the past. He accepted my add and today he deleted me again. I'm mad that it looks like he's doing this to me on purpose, but I feel he's acting bizarrely, which worries me too. IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86 Knowflake Posts: 3387 From: salem,or usa Registered: Feb 2011
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posted June 10, 2015 01:45 PM
Hi lost Taurus Would you like to exchange with me on the thread I just started?
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LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 01:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Sorry I was waiting till you posted before going into detail.I'm really concerned about P. He keeps deleting me and he knows this has hurt me badly before in the past. He accepted my add and today he deleted me again. I'm mad that it looks like he's doing this to me on purpose, but I feel he's acting bizarrely, which worries me too.
I don't get good energy from this guy, Serene. I wish I could tell you differently but I can't. He seems disingenuous and flaky, and it's to a degree that I don't see resolution to the behavior anytime soon. My best recommendation? Leave him in the dust. He'll grow, but it will take longer than you deserve. I'm sorry sweetie, but I'd rather be honest with what I'm getting. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 01:54 PM
LostTaurusOk, I'll leave him in the dust for now. Do you see friendship taking place between us? This is so difficult, he is someone I care about but I know he's been quite toxic. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 01:58 PM
He is quite toxic right now. Self-destructive in subtle ways. There's always the possibility of friendship, but it feels like by the time it stands possibility of manifesting, you'll have compromised your own boundaries and self-respect too much (if you stay too close) to want it really. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 02:02 PM
I know the right thing to do is probably leave him be for some time. Maybe a month or two.Do you see him wanting to talk to me again? I wanted to tell him to get help too, but I feel like it will bruise his ego even more. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 02:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: I know the right thing to do is probably leave him be for some time. Maybe a month or two.Do you see him wanting to talk to me again? I wanted to tell him to get help too, but I feel like it will bruise his ego even more.
His interest in talking to you isn't, on some level, likely to diminish. But again, it feels purely self-serving so isn't healthy and isn't likely to change...not even in a month or two. If it will help you to tell him to get help, do it. It doesn't feel like it will affect him one way or the other.
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SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 02:16 PM
Wow it sounds like a lost cause. Maybe I have to say goodbye to this friendship.Did you have any questions? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 02:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Wow it sounds like a lost cause. Maybe I have to say goodbye to this friendship.Did you have any questions?
Honestly, I would. I do feel like it will come back around, but it feels like years and lots of growth on his part. He'll realize. Thank you! Umm...what do you see coming for me personally in the next month? IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 02:44 PM
Love King of wands + Page of wands + The moon Theres a lot of court cards in your spread. Theres a king, likely someone your age or older whos going to be caring towards you. Things will go well with him. But there's a page appearing, which can symbolize immaturity and some impulsiveness. Do you have such a person in your life? I think love is going to be quite confusing for you next month. You wont know whats going on with the men in your life. Work High priestess + nine of pentacles + empress Work is definitely looking a lot better for you. You'll be on your A game. You know something that's going to happen at work? I don't think its a promotion, but you'll have an exciting opportunity which will lead to many gains for you. I get the feeling you'll be in charge of this opportunity and you will excel at it. You will get recognized for this, with empress pointing to a female superior. Hope this resonates! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2215 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 02:46 PM
Hi, sorry I just got home. do you still want me to look into something?IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 02:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: Hi, sorry I just got home. do you still want me to look into something?
Thank you, can you look at the third post? And leave me a question too. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 02:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Love King of wands + Page of wands + The moon Theres a lot of court cards in your spread. Theres a king, likely someone your age or older whos going to be caring towards you. Things will go well with him. But there's a page appearing, which can symbolize immaturity and some impulsiveness. Do you have such a person in your life? I think love is going to be quite confusing for you next month. You wont know whats going on with the men in your life.
Lol...story of my life! quote: Work High priestess + nine of pentacles + empressWork is definitely looking a lot better for you. You'll be on your A game. You know something that's going to happen at work? I don't think its a promotion, but you'll have an exciting opportunity which will lead to many gains for you. I get the feeling you'll be in charge of this opportunity and you will excel at it. You will get recognized for this, with empress pointing to a female superior. Hope this resonates!
I'm working on a few things right now, so...me likey! Thanks Serene!
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2215 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 02:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Sorry I was waiting till you posted before going into detail.I'm really concerned about P. He keeps deleting me and he knows this has hurt me badly before in the past. He accepted my add and today he deleted me again. I'm mad that it looks like he's doing this to me on purpose, but I feel he's acting bizarrely, which worries me too.
This guy is going through a lot of internal struggle. I feel that he accepts you without thinking, so that part is sort of like "click,click" no thinking. But I feel after he thinks about and he feels he would rather you not be on his list, I feel he doenst want you to see some tings and also I feel that for some reason he thinks you are better off not being his friend. I feel as though he knows he cant be his old self now and so he rather does a "jerky" thing and pushes you away as a way of "protecting" you in hopes you move on and dont get too caught up in his low self right now. So I get there might be bad people/influences around him? maybe even someone who is excecive with something and it sucks him in, he gets sucked into negativity and he then acts from this dark place. which is not his true self but right now, its what he knows as being "true" I dont see much change here soon, he is in a way letting himself be negative as he "enjoys" wollowing in his sorrow IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 03:12 PM
Yes it definitely resonates.Do you think it would work if I tell him to get help or warn him about the negative influences? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2215 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 03:13 PM
No I dont think it would. I even think it would backfire and give him more reason to "rebel" and push you awayIP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 03:16 PM
Well this makes me sad. I don't want to let go of this friendship but he's being very toxic to me now.Do you see any solution to this? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2215 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 03:16 PM
for NOW, let him be. He will come to you when he is ready. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 03:21 PM
Oh LostTaurus said it could take years.Did you have a question? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2215 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 03:25 PM
to be honest I think I suck at timing, but I am not sure if years, doesnt feel that long to me, but monhts yes, sorry will me and A have any contact this month and who will do the reaching out? ty IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 03:34 PM
Thanks for the read intuitive Birds + book + fish There will be some form of contact. I feel like theres lots of people involved somehow, like you're going to do a lot of talking to your friends and his. I think you'll communicate through each other's friends. Does this make sense? But I feel like theres a lot of things unsaid, there isn't any real honest talk that's going to happen this month. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2215 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 03:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by SereneDaze: Thanks for the read intuitive Birds + book + fish There will be some form of contact. I feel like theres lots of people involved somehow, like you're going to do a lot of talking to your friends and his. I think you'll communicate through each other's friends. Does this make sense? But I feel like theres a lot of things unsaid, there isn't any real honest talk that's going to happen this month.
No sorry doesnt make sense, I have no reason to talk to or through his friends. I would never ask his friends anything about him no way. and he doesnt even know my friends could there be a different meaning to some card? ther could be a few people interfearing but not between me and hims since there is nothing to intefere about, maybe beteween him and his "gf" so I dont know how to take this IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 10, 2015 03:49 PM
Ok, I'll look at it through another perspective. I still see some blocked communication though, the birds going towards book, meaning contact not going through. Fish would mean the connection both of you have. I pulled another clarifier card and got letter. So there will be contact, but not after some frustration.IP: Logged |