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Topic: newly single
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LibraGirl92
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: IL
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 12, 2015 11:06 AM
  
Hi guys so the guy that I have been with for five years we have decided to part ways. I am in no rush to get back into a relationship solely because I want to take time for myself because I've rushed into relationships before and I don't want to make that mistake again. Hopefully with me taking time for myself I can meet or rekindle a good past relationship but time will only tell.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 12, 2015 11:13 AM
Hi Libra! I got some good news. You're going to do fine being alone for while. I think in the future is what I'm seeing.. I see you with someone. You had a child by him? You are happy, you got yourself together. I see you're on your phone maybe iPad? Lol you're both lying on this big couch an your kid is laying on your lap an you an this mystery guy is kissing. I thought you guys were watching a movie.  IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: IL
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 12, 2015 12:15 PM
Oh wow lol I am just wondering is there a chance you could possibly describe this mystery man. Your is absoulety adorable :-) IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted June 12, 2015 01:01 PM
I wish I can, but I'm not good with that at all. I sometimes get scenery's an what I saw made me smile. What you're going through right now will be getting better. IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: IL
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 12, 2015 01:33 PM
ah no worries. i won't lie it is going to feel very weird of not having someone there who was for almost five years but i feel this is what needs to be because i need to focus on me get back on track. there is one man that i am really interested in my ex J who broke up with me six years ago and i was deeply in love with that boy but with how things ended between us which was bad because i cheated and to this day i still regret it because i felt to me that J was the "one" that got away. i don't know if he would want to try again because i haven't gotten in contact with him lately and the last time we had contact it ended bad and with not being in contact i don't know if he is with someone else and i don't want to get between that if he is i don't want to be like how i use to be anymore. and if he doesn't want to give us another go then i am okay with that also. IP: Logged |
blindpainter
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Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 12, 2015 03:29 PM
Hi libragirl! Im sorry you had to break up but if you feel that is the right thing then good for you i pulled some cards for you i asked how contacting j would go for you and got Lily, sun, tower, boquet and mice So the tower is the focus card thi could simply be showing that you are single but can also indicate seperation between two people and feelings of isolation and loneliness. The lily and sun show a happy loving and mature relationship but later in life the boquet also shows happiness but this wont be without problems the mice show disagreements and arguments and you may be left feeling a little used. I think youre right about focusing on yourself for right now. Once some time hasp passed you should try contacting him if it feels right the cards indicate that it would be awhile before a relationship between you two could work either as friends or lovers.  IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: IL
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 12, 2015 03:35 PM
thank you. i was thinking about messaging him on his birthday in august to wish him a happy birthday and see if possibly that would open a door for us to communicate because i don't know if you believe in soulmates but i feel that J is my soulmate.IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: IL
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 13, 2015 07:20 AM
so the ex that i just seperated from C contacted me wanting to get back together and now i am really confused debating on whether it is a good idea to take him back or keep on the road to being alone i seriously hate being confused :-/IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 13, 2015 09:17 AM
You need some space. Just give yourself some space from him, a bit.IP: Logged |
blindpainter
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posted June 13, 2015 12:09 PM
I agree with ilovepoems, you broke it off for a reason and you still have feelings for J. Just give yourself some time to let the dust settle and relax, then think things over. He needs to respect your choices.IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: IL
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 13, 2015 12:22 PM
He pretty much said that if I decide not to take him back that he is moving back to phoenix and will not comeback because his son is there. Maybe it will be for the best because yesyerday I talked with my aunt yesterday and she said from her point of view that all C does is use me for my money and she feels that he doesn't love me and that if I continue to be with him that I will never get where I need to be and just keep getting brought down and down. I am just wondering if someone could pull cards I usually I like lenormand I have been learning fast with those to know what outcome I would have if I continued the rekationship with C? My mind is just all over the place with this and I just want to put it at ease :-/ Please and thank you.IP: Logged |
SereneDaze
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Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 13, 2015 12:37 PM
Hi libra, I remember you asking me if you would get pregnant with him when I was giving spirit guide readings. At that time I withheld some things from you because I thought it was best that way and I didn't want to affect your decision. But since you've broken with him I can tell you that you are much better off without him. Even if you had a child with him, he would never make you happy in the long run. I didn't get that there was any true love between the two of you. I hope this gives you some clarity as to why you shouldn't have any regrets about leaving him.IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: IL
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 13, 2015 03:57 PM
Oh wow you know my aunt told me she was like the reason you aren't getting pregnant by him is because your not destined to have kids with him watch you are going to be with someone else and bam your gonna get pregnant. She didn't say who I was going to be with but that's what she told me. I am just curious am I really better off with being with J if he decides to go back with me because that is on him if he decides to be with me because of all the hell sorry for my language I put him through? IP: Logged |
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