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posted June 15, 2015 06:35 PM            

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okay so my spending has been reallly really bad. furnishing the apt etc

long story short. should i ask my dad to send me money today/ tomorrow? i dont want to call him out of the blue for cash lolols.
he would think thats so typical of me since i havent spoken to him in few months. but im just desperate.

thanks readers in advance

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posted June 15, 2015 06:56 PM            

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Honestly, if you are really struggling you just need to call him, and in the future try to see how you can budget more wisely so you don't put yourself in this bind.

I seriously doubt he wouldn't help you, unless things aren't going well between you.

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posted June 15, 2015 07:00 PM            

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hey bella! so im not close to my dad. he has his own family to take care of but i do see him once a year. so i feel like asking for money is disruptive and makes me loook bad infront of his wife who i really do not like lols.

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posted June 15, 2015 07:13 PM            

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I do agree with Bella on this.

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posted June 15, 2015 07:19 PM            

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You sure he won't be **** or upset?

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posted June 15, 2015 07:23 PM            

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Well I mean neither one of us are 100% sure of it, but family is family. I'm sure your dad will understand if you explain the situation tactfully and make it clear you will be more prudent in the future. I think everyone has made a financial mistake in their life, so he won't disown you over this.

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posted June 15, 2015 07:25 PM            

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First of all, he's your dad. I'm pretty sure if I needed money, I would ask one my parents with no shame at all. Now if you ask them every week then that maybe will be a problem, but if you barely ask for money... Why not ask him? It's not going to hurt anyone.

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posted June 16, 2015 02:55 PM            

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okay it went well

thanks bella and poems! :3 was really debating it bc didnt know how it would go

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