posted June 19, 2015 08:58 PM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
I'm not a holocaust denier, sorry if your reading comprehension level isn't capable of understanding what I was trying to say... I really didn't read what you wrote further than that. It made me sad that you wanted to kill yourself just because you don't think u are pretty. I guess I was trying to give tough love. There are much more serious things than not being pretty. And ever since this time you have had this need to belittle me and hold a grudge. But you should be a little more mature and take what I said seriously.
Given the fact that you can't understand what I was saying about the holocaust, I know where your consciousness is. Why do you have to bring something up that is completely irrelevant to the purpose of this thread?
Good luck Bella. I pray that God strengthens you.
You may want to clarify your stance then, because in here it says otherwise: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum29/HTML/000275.htm
You also said the same suicide comment to Sunnybunny, which was very inappropriate given the circumstances she was dealing with. I literally don't understand why you think pain is only a circumstantial thing?
I've also never talked to you this entire calendar year, so your claims that I have a grudge against you are not backed up.
As I recall, you have never said anything remotely close to 'feel sorry for you,' but rather said very hurtful and rude things along the lines of 'get over it, your problems don't matter because you aren't X, Y, Z.' That is not tough love, that is straight up being mean.
For the record, I did not make a suicide attempt because I was worried about "being pretty or not." Do you personally know me and what goes on in my life? No, you do not. I can assure you that was the least relevant reason behind my decision-making.
Why the hell do you have to shame someone's suicide attempt for you own benefit? Show some damn compassion for your fellow human beings. I should take the shaming and telling someone who was depressed to shut up as what you said 'seriously'? It is completely wrong to shame people and tell them get over it.
You clearly do not understand how depression works: it is a chemical imbalance that people cannot help. Telling someone with low serotonin to simply 'get over it' is what drives people over the edge. I really hope you have the opportunity to educate yourself on suicide and depression, because people need help and encouragement, not shamed further.
I don't have a grudge against you. However, if you bring up my personal life (which is very irrelevant), that is fair game for me to show people hurtful comments you make to drive further my point you have selective empathy. Notice how I don't have to resort to bringing up your personal life, do I?
Don't tell me God strengthens you because that is an unbelievably condescending thing to say to someone who is not religious. I don't need to be strengthened because I am very strong person, and God has nothing to do with it. In fact, turning my back on God has made me even stronger because I've discovered what beliefs fit who I am.
Final point: whenever you push someone down a ring in the ladder, there will always be someone that pushes you off the ladder. Karma is not kind to those who spread hate.
Mods please close this thread. It is not right to mock someone's struggles, especially a suicide attempt. This is sending the wrong message to anyone on LL who has endured such an event.