posted August 03, 2015 06:03 PM            

So, I met this guy on a well known internet dating website a while ago (The first day od Venus Rx, by the way). I didn't seek him out, it just happened. We talked the entire first day that we met and have not skipped a beat. He is a teacher, single with no children. He lives in a different city than me. He's a sweet southern man with a great sense of humor, handsome, and very driven.

Since we began communicating, each day has been better than the last. We talk about babies, marriage, success, our families, and basically everything under the sun. Its refreshing and nice to communicate with him. We often chat about meeting in person and even the possibility if things got serious if one of us would relocate. Odds are, it will be me because I have the least amount of obligations on my plate right now, and I have been thinking about relocating for a while now.

Here's where my only dilemma comes in. Venus is Rx right now. Not to mention in my transit chart I have about 4 planets nesting in the 7th house right now (including Jupiter). So, I have relationship energy all around me, its crazy. And by me meeting this great guy at a time like this, I feel almost duped because I have been waiting to meet someone like him for 8 years(I've been single for that long). I am trying my hardest not to get my hopes up and not to fall in love with him, but its hard. I fear he will deceive me, have cold feet, or just leave me in the cold like the rest of the jokers I've dated before. So I am keeping my heart and my feelings in check.

This all comes at a time where I am wanting to make a major change in my life. Like relocating, wanting a family, and changing jobs/careers. My youngest sister has always told me that she has believed I would meet and fall in love with someone from a different city, but I never believed her. I dislike that Venus is Rx...it's really preventing me from revealing my true feelings and intentions about this man because of the repercussions of meeting someone during Venus Rx. I am trying my hardest not to fall.....I'm trying hard. But why do I feel like he is the one??? Why do I feel like risking it all to be with him??? Why do I feel so scared that I will get hurt???

I pray he is the one, but I am so damn scared. Can someone please grant me a reading? I will be most grateful.

Thank you.

Heres my info,

4/21/1980
2:26am
Mpls, MN

His:

6/14/1969
Birth town and time unknown.

posted August 03, 2015 08:45 PM            

You and him have a Moon/Pluto DW (sextile and trine). So as you speak to him, you both feel emotionally nourished. If the subjects have not become personal yet, they will. Things may get heavy fast with the Pluto contacts. This is a plus for emotional empathy and nurturing.

Your Saturn squares his Moon, so you have to be mindful not to be critical of his feelings, especially when he unravels his feelings to you. You have the ability to injure him and make him feel unappreciated or odd for having certain feelings you may not agree with. Your Saturn also squares his Sun. You two have a Sun/Saturn DW (his saturn conjunct, your squared). You may make each other feel inadequate in some ways, pointing out mistakes and criticizing one another. Saturn aspects are binding, especially the square between Sun and Saturn. You both have strong communication synastry that can aid in times of mutual disagreements. Saturn is the principal of tough love and lessons. If you both can manage the flareups by communicating to each other compassionately and truthfully (without hurtful language or actions), you'll have a tight bond and possible learn from each other, or at least have tolerance for each others' differences.

Your Venus also conjuncts his Sun and Moon. His Venus and conjuncts your sun. There is a mutual interest in one another, even if the orbs are a bit wide. In the context that this is a romantic pairing, there is a mutual appreciation for one anothers' expression of the ego.

Are you physically attracted to him? I see no Venus/Mars, Venus/Pluto (except for a WIDE square), or Venus/Neptune contacts.

Be mindful that your Mars and Jupiter square his Neptune. The Mars/Neptune can create a physical attraction for you, but the ability for deception is there with the square. Your Jupiter expands his Neptune. You may get caught up in a fantasy world of how you both ideally see the relationship, especially before you uproot your life and move to be with him, if that happens. There may be disappointments in the type of person he portrays himself to be, instead of who he is in reality. I would proceed with caution, but keep an open mind. Use your Mercury in Aries to speak with him frankly about your expectations before making such a move.

posted August 04, 2015 10:56 AM            

When Venus went retrograde, I started talking to a man who seemed to be a perfect gentleman. I am sure he is a great guy. He seems so genuinely sweet. You can tell he's not a smooth talker trying to get you into bed.

I was really into him at first. For whatever reason, my interest in him suddenly decreased for no apparent reason. I will continue talking to him because I hate flaking on people, but I have to admit that I lost interest all of the sudden.

He seems like such a great guy. The key is to avoid rushing into the unknown during such retrograde, because you might have a change of heart, like I just did.