posted August 12, 2015 03:20 AM            

I'm tired of always running into obstacles and being denied things, which has been a prevalent theme as Cap ASC arguably my whole life. I'm a pretty positive person, but god I just wish I could get a break for once. Everything I have done the last few years has not helped me advance one bit, which is aggravating at times.

I have extremely high standards for myself, and the fact I cannot reach them is so disappointing (not from a lack of trying). I'm not asking for sunshine and daisies where life is perfect, I just want my efforts to pay off for once.

So my question is: when will my life get better?

posted August 12, 2015 03:16 PM            

I'm sorry to hear about your frustration--believe me, I understand it perfectly. For what is worth before I do any reading, take every setback as a lesson and try to incorporate in your life whatever you learn. Don't think about the lack of success in terms of failure, but in terms of challenges that have to be overcome. That's what I do, at least.

I asked "What should you do to accomplish your goals?"

QUEEN OF CUPS--3 OF CUPS--6 WANDS. I think you are almost there. Tune into your intuition and emotions, never act against them, and rally your friends at your side. Maybe one of them (possibly a woman) can help you with whatever issues you are having. Most important believe in yourself: you have the power/knowledge/drive to succeed in whatever you are trying. These are very good cards for success, so don't lose hope!

posted August 12, 2015 06:09 PM            

When will your life improve?

Card pulled: Gentleman

Given that this card's astrological attribution is Mars - linked to Aries; and Aries influenced people are known to be implusive and quick... Your life has the potential to improve now - instantly!

Advice to help you move along?

Cards pulled: Tower + Key + Clover

These are suggest to me that the key to moving the obstacles which stand in your way (tower) is to change/release/unlock your mindset (key) and to think about everything you have achieved so far (clover).

Looking at the cards further, they are telling me that you need to stop comparing yourself to other people and think about yourself objectively - distance yourself from the noise (tower). Be real, be honest and ask yourself:

What makes you standout?
How have you made yourself and/or your family proud?
What do you own? What are you good at? How can you exploit these further for more gain?

The answers to these questions are the key to a happy outcome. Don't be afraid to blow your own trumpet!

Your temporary situation is likely have a good conclusion (clover), provided that you see your bump in the road as surmountable!!!! You are in control here, but you must isolate your thoughts. Stand alone. Take charge!

posted August 12, 2015 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
3 of swords- Queen of Wands- 9 of Cups

At the moment you are very disappointed with your life, you feel very low but it will get better. You come across as a very confident and optimistic person and you should'nt give up. Everything you wish for, you will receive.

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posted August 12, 2015 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by SoaringLeaves:
Hi BellaFenice,

I'm sorry to hear about your frustration--believe me, I understand it perfectly. For what is worth before I do any reading, take every setback as a lesson and try to incorporate in your life whatever you learn. Don't think about the lack of success in terms of failure, but in terms of challenges that have to be overcome. That's what I do, at least.

I asked "What should you do to accomplish your goals?"

QUEEN OF CUPS--3 OF CUPS--6 WANDS. I think you are almost there. Tune into your intuition and emotions, never act against them, and rally your friends at your side. Maybe one of them (possibly a woman) can help you with whatever issues you are having. Most important believe in yourself: you have the power/knowledge/drive to succeed in whatever you are trying. These are very good cards for success, so don't lose hope!

Good luck!
SL

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Thank you! I 100% agree with your advice, and definitely there are always lessons to be learned. Those cards sound promising though.

posted August 12, 2015 09:39 PM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Let me know if you want a reading!

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posted August 13, 2015 02:30 AM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Thank you! Let me know if you want a reading!

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posted August 13, 2015 08:00 PM            

I think I'm abit overwhelmed at present. My question, when you have time is... Which area of my life should I focus on fixing? I feel like there's a lot going on and I want to do everything, but I know I can't. Where should I focus my energy?

posted August 14, 2015 02:08 AM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Hi Bella,

I think I'm abit overwhelmed at present. My question, when you have time is... Which area of my life should I focus on fixing? I feel like there's a lot going on and I want to do everything, but I know I can't. Where should I focus my energy?

Thank you x

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You got it- as soon as I can tomorrow!

Page of Wands
The Star
9 of Pentacles

posted August 15, 2015 09:03 PM            

I actually didn't see it.
Yesterday was abit of a crazy.
Definitely - finances and relationships!

I even said to one of my friends last night that i want to get to a point in my life where I have accepted the things that have gone wrong outside of my control. I've made so much progress, but I know it's not done yet. So, I'm working on that.

I've got choices to make and it makes sense when you say 'take time for you' - recharging my batteries is a must these days!

posted August 16, 2015 06:39 AM            

Sorry I took a little bit longer than I thought. I know how you're feeling, I don't have a cap asc but I have saturn on my asc, so I get how you might be feeling now. The below spread shows that you really are going to do well with work related things very soon,

5S 2C QC AD 2D

Well I can see you have been feeling quite dissatisified and impatient with things, I think you are the QC here, in my deck the QC is looking to the . For the coming future - AD and 2D together can show an invitation and and also prosperity workwise. I pulled two clarifiers and got 9D 8D, it shows that things might have been a little tough however the 8D is a very prosperous card when it comes to work/money related things. So I think things may feel tough now, but there are very good things on the way for you

Let me know what you think and how it goes. The outcome looks good here

pls dont quote my post might edit later