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KayEvans
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posted September 05, 2015 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, I hope that someone is willing to exchange with me..

I've been seeing a guy since late July and thought things were going well, but he invitied me over for dinner tonight to tell me that he just wants to be friends. I'm hurt and genuinely confused about what happened and why he did it. Can anyone offer some insight? I'd also like to know if this is done for good between us..

Thanks.

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MinceyMouse
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posted September 05, 2015 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure Kay-

Can you see if I'll lose a significant amount of weight by January?

I'm shuffling now.

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MinceyMouse
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posted September 05, 2015 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why does he just want to be friends?

intuitively- I don't think he felt the sexual spark.

Cards= iii of cups, the hanged man, rx , ii of wands, rx

He truly just sees you as a good friend, but without that 'spark' which he usually seeks out in relationships. The hanged man also states that there was no spark which made things a bit stagnant in his mind. ii of wands/rx says that there are sexual blockages- he places a lot of emphasis on sex in general, and it's ludicrously important to him.

Is it done between the two of you?
Ace of swords, rx- ii of wands - x of cups

You need to reassess things in terms of what you want and what he wants. The cards say some sexual energy from you could help things between you and him, but the x of cups says that the two of you are better as friends/companions rather than lovers.

Hope this resonates, KayEvans .

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KayEvans
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posted September 05, 2015 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks mincey,

It does resonate somewhat and I think he did feel a lack of spark, but not sexually.. (according to him). Your last three cards sounded like a 'maybe' to me.. was that what you think?

I had to leave for work after posting, so I will pull some cards in regards to your question when I get home. Thanks again.

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MinceyMouse
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posted September 05, 2015 08:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's a maybe depending on if you want to overcome the issue- yet the cards suggest that it is not worth it.

All right

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KayEvans
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posted September 06, 2015 08:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Mincey,

For you, I drew 5 of Cups, 8 of Swords, and Page of Swords. It looks like you won't lose a significant amount of weight.. but I do feel that you will lose some weight, it will just be a bit of a challenge and will take a lot of effort on your part. You'll see some results if you stick with it. I feel that it will take more than four months, but you will see some results in the meantime!

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MinceyMouse
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posted September 06, 2015 08:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Kay

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KayEvans
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posted September 06, 2015 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome! Good luck

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