posted September 06, 2015 11:02 AM            

please leave your questions, mine are:

1) DONE

2) DONE

3) DONE

posted September 06, 2015 11:10 AM            

K is stalking you simply because she has nothing better to do. Being rude to you makes her feel better about herself, it boosts her ego when she is feeling low, which she feels quite often. It doesn't look like she is happy in her current situation and wants others to feel the misery she feels. She sees that you have a lot going on in your life and she feels these words will bring you down to her level.. 5 of Pentacles has a man walking ahead of a woman sad and in pain, but the woman behind him has her head up high and seems to not care much about what's going on. Misery loves company and she says rude things just to say it. She's unhappy and wants to bring you down for her own benefit. Sorry you have someone like this in your life

posted September 06, 2015 01:38 PM            

Queen of Wands - The Fool - 4 wands - 6 cups - 8 cups

I feel that he thinks you're too cool, charismatic and independent for him, he's uncomfortable with this. So maybe he hopes things between you will fall apart without him having to take the blame. I think deep down you both want the same thing = a home/a life to share with another, but maybe you're just making him feel uncool. The complicated bit is that there is a sweet soul connection between the two of you, so this could be unresolved karma at work putting you through this emotional threadmill of dissatisfaction. I see 8 cups next to 6 cups, so it's as if this connection no longer matters and whatever karmic debts there are have been paid. Perhaps the mismatch itself and the problems it causes is part of the karma.

The Fool in the past obstacles position perplexes me. Have you recently started something interesting you're really passionate about? I'm finding it difficult to interpret this card, would be grateful if you could let me know

posted September 06, 2015 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
@Wondering

Queen of Wands - The Fool - 4 wands - 6 cups - 8 cups

I feel that he thinks you're too cool, charismatic and independent for him, he's uncomfortable with this. So maybe he hopes things between you will fall apart without him having to take the blame. I think deep down you both want the same thing = a home/a life to share with another, but maybe you're just making him feel uncool. The complicated bit is that there is a sweet soul connection between the two of you, so this could be unresolved karma at work putting you through this emotional threadmill of dissatisfaction. I see 8 cups next to 6 cups, so it's as if this connection no longer matters and whatever karmic debts there are have been paid. Perhaps the mismatch itself and the problems it causes is part of the karma.

The Fool in the past obstacles position perplexes me. Have you recently started something interesting you're really passionate about? I'm finding it difficult to interpret this card, would be grateful if you could let me know

Thanks a lot for looking into mine! Makes a lot of sense. This "jealousy" explanation is usually the last thing I allow myself to embrace, so guess I needed some sort of confirmation it's that and not anything else. Best of luck to you with everything!

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Thank you for such a detailed reading! I am very independent and charismatic. He is charismatic as well but controlling. I am not submissive which I feel he wanted. So maybe he hopes things between you will fall apart without him having to take the blame. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED!! So on point. I started feeling a distance from him and wound up bringing it to his attention and he blamed it on me. We did want a home life together and he even proposed and wanted us to have a family. i can see why you are sensing that he feels uncool.. It's sad that our connection no longer matters as I deeply cared and never met someone like him before. But it does seem as our connection doesn't matter anymore because I will not move in with him, so there is no point to our relationship.

As for The Fool in past obstacles ... No, I have not started anything new. However, I was going to transfer colleges by where he is, but wound up going to a different one instead. This could also indicate my age. I am 19 and realistically am not fit to move in and become a stay at home wife so early on. This card could be indicating how young I am and how there are still things I want to do before settling down? Thank you for the reading. It really resonates.

I'm glad yours makes sense! Yes, it seems this person is jealous and unhappy. I do hope things switch around and get better for you. That kind of energy sucks, I know

I decided to answer another one of your questions.

1. Death - Wheel of Fortune - The Hanged Man - 9 of Pentacles

The end of your friendship with S was meant to happen. Nothing else was to be gained between the two of you and things would have gotten stale eventually. It was part of your life path to cut this person out. I don't believe this split caused any karma, in fact, it seems this was karma and needed to happen. The Universe did not think you deserved any payback over this incident and you were forgiven. I feel that the Universe gave you a sort of pass... like shrugging it off and feeling you did what had to be done. You learn from it and keep going. 9 of Pentacles shows you did not get any karma or payback thrown back at you because of this. The Universe let you go on with your life and did not make any interferences on purpose because of the end of your friendship with S! I hope this makes sense It looks like you were better off and happier without this person in the end.

My next q if you'll still have me...

posted September 06, 2015 04:17 PM            

Wow !! 19 and so cool with cards? Please accept my sincere compliments !

Thanks for feedback. Perhaps I didn't quite mean the soul connection "doesn't matter ", it rather feels like you are leaving it behind. In case that sounded blunt (which it did, and I apologise)

Yes, I'll totally do your question, but it will have to be tomorrow, as I'm in Europe and its late over here unfortunately. Please check back soon

Thanks also for the other reading, I do hope you're right. Quite a bit of rubbish happened to me since, so at least it's good to know none of that was in exchange for what I said / did to S. yeah, my life is heaps better without this person

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