posted September 28, 2015 10:03 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
Yes please!

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Ok so what you should do about MP and harassment
What I am seeing here is that you need to grow a thicker skin and you must stop being so accommodating. This seems to be the crux of the issue. You are a very nice & giving person, and this is being perceived aS a weakness...this reading suggests that you need to just act super happy around this person when it comes to your own life, BUT do not be accommodating to them!!

posted September 28, 2015 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
Hmm, somewhat. Although I'm not particularly giving any attention to this person and I'm just straight up ignoring this person for the things they've done. They keep trying to force themselves into my life and it's seems very selfish.

Oh and can you clarify about my last reading you did?
Also, what did you think of my reading?

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posted September 28, 2015 10:31 PM            

Anyhow! I'm glad I could help with D... he seems like an alright guy just kinda cautious but interested in you for sure.

Want another reading?

posted September 28, 2015 10:36 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
auyy.. it's my mother i speak of and yes.. all that resonates. She would love to act like a open wound just to get attention and i dont give into the martyr syndrome with anyone. I was thinking if i initiate contact that i would have to be as cool as Fall weather and not argue or throw a fit because that's what she wants for sure, DRAMA.

Anyhow! I'm glad I could help with D... he seems like an alright guy just kinda cautious but interested in you for sure.

Want another reading?

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Sure, if you do

My Q is about a close friend of mine....she's been very abrupt and rude towards me. Im trying not to take it personal as her life is chaotic right now, but I am taking it personal...could you read on it and basically see why she's acting this way towards me?

OH also- so you feel D is looking only at me for lustful reasons right?

Yours?

posted September 28, 2015 11:01 PM            

As for your friend, I see a man or men and a home being disrupted and legal matters going awry and it's making her very defensive with anyone.
Presently, she's either unemployed or in competition with others jobwise and it's making her feel like retreating and very vulnerable and susceptible to depression almost.

I see there is something she will not let go of and is taking this burden as a resposinbility, this will go on as she is starting to drown in her emotions and sees no end in sight. Her joyful attitude can be regained back when she reaches out to her friends but other than that.. she is very overwhelmed and wants to be alone.

I would say she is not treating anyone nicely right now, so yes don't take it personal. When she feels like reaching out, be there for her because right now she will want to reflect and figure things out on her own.

My question is..
is CP still in love with his last ex?

posted September 28, 2015 11:13 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
Ok... well off the bat I will say D is lusty for you and it's mutual but I see he wants to take his time.

As for your friend, I see a man or men and a home being disrupted and legal matters going awry and it's making her very defensive with anyone.
Presently, she's either unemployed or in competition with others jobwise and it's making her feel like retreating and very vulnerable and susceptible to depression almost.

I see there is something she will not let go of and is taking this burden as a resposinbility, this will go on as she is starting to drown in her emotions and sees no end in sight. Her joyful attitude can be regained back when she reaches out to her friends but other than that.. she is very overwhelmed and wants to be alone.

I would say she is not treating anyone nicely right now, so yes don't take it personal. When she feels like reaching out, be there for her because right now she will want to reflect and figure things out on her own.

My question is..
is CP still in love with his last ex?

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Ok , your read first, then I will post feedback

So, CP is not still in "love " with his ex. There is definite distance between the two of them, and I do not see any reconciliation. What I do see, however, is that CP tends to be a bit immature in relationships, and tends to repeat the same mistakes over & over again. This last relationship had the potential to heal him but he blew it. He never wants to see where he has been wrong, or where he needs to work on himself. This is something to be aware of...this person is highly sensitive to any sort of criticism.

Make sense?

posted September 28, 2015 11:16 PM            

SO, yes my friend is definitely having some marital issues and she is also feeling competitive with her work. I also see her feeling responsible for keeping her family together and she feels helpless. So your read makes a ton of sense. I will try not to take it personal.

posted September 28, 2015 11:42 PM            

So for as this J person.
You are becoming too anxious and I see want to jump into a relationship. (Lovers+ 9 Swords+ Queen Cup + 3 Cups)
This J, sounds like someone who doesn't give without asserting dominance or a kind of flared ego.
Also, I see he may be involved with someone else and it could be a very serious relationship and it is making him seek out something else.
You fear about indecision and making the right choice for a new partner due to a past relationship that went sour...
I suggest not getting involved with this person...as they will confuse you and demand your emotions in return...which can be a karmic thing but you I see it being for your benefit to learn from this.

All in all, I don't see this person being that much interested for the sake of romance but for escapism.

My question is, is CP falling in love with me?

posted September 29, 2015 02:56 PM            

About CP:Yes, CP sees you as a very beautiful & bright light in his life. VERY Positive. However, there are issues that this person has gone through and is still going through which cause him to be on his guard, so it might not always be apparent. I

posted September 29, 2015 09:47 PM            

so what did you think of my last reading?

posted September 29, 2015 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
oh thank you!

so what did you think of my last reading?

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Sorry- you are right.I am a bit anxious and I don't quite know why. There are several options for dating but I always have this feeling I'm being used...more like a paranoia. But a part of me wants REAL love. Not jus trust. What you are saying makes sense although I don't really know J.

posted September 29, 2015 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
Yes, i love exchanging with you! My cards are showing me you are a nice person who wants love like right now! I can totally relate.

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HAHA! Thank you. That pretty much sums it up...I am getting older, and have had a few failed romances, so I've become selective.

My Q is of course, about another man I come into contact with about once a week through work. First initial "T",,,,, just wondering if you see anything surrounding us or if it will be strictly work. How he views m, etc...

posted September 30, 2015 12:18 AM            

He is a very dominant person and is very much focused on work...he seems like he does his work differently than the people he works with. I think he just got out of a relationship or something that ended in the recent past.
I also see he is single, unlike the one I read for before, but is still hooked onto the past and is not in a search for a relationship right now. There may be other co workers interested in pursuing him as well, so be weary of competition.

In conclusion, there maybe potential for a relationship but neither one of you can control which way it will go..as in 'go with the flow' Also, he seems more interested in casual sex right now, since he is single and liking it, so aware not to get disillusioned to expect anything more at first.

My question is when will I move out of this apartment I just moved into?