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posted September 28, 2015 09:42 PM            

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Anyone up for some?

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posted September 28, 2015 09:58 PM            

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I am

Whats your Q?

Mine is about a close friend of mine....she's been very abrupt and rude towards me. Im trying not to take it personal as her life is chaotic right now, but I am taking it personal...could you read on it and basically see why she's acting this way towards me?

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posted September 28, 2015 10:00 PM            

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Sure.

Can you tell me why V didn't accept my friend request? This happened less than a year ago.

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posted September 28, 2015 10:03 PM            

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8 of swords
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your friend is dealing with heartbreak atm. she may not have the energy to be nice to anyone right now.. its just a side effect of whatever she is dealing with. luckily I see a new beginning for you both where you will move past this and have a bright new start in your friendship. its a time of just being patient with her an giving her space she needs.

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posted September 28, 2015 10:07 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Sure.

Can you tell me why V didn't accept my friend request? This happened less than a year ago.

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To be honest, it was intentional. I see V literally trying to decide if he should accept it, and he chose not to. Reason being is that there is/was a woman around him that gave him a lot of grief about being "friends" with people.
BTW- I do see that this person was very attracted to you and felt a connection.

Does this resonate?

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posted September 28, 2015 10:09 PM            

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Not at all.

V is a woman.

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posted September 28, 2015 10:11 PM            

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Hi, I'm up for an exchange. My uni has started charging me for an external program fee which could have me paying up to a whopping 10k...this was not stated in the agreement letter that I signed but they insist on it..

Will the final decision be in my favor?

Let me know your q.

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posted September 28, 2015 10:14 PM            

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Sure Serene.

Mine is did Victoria hear gossip about me and that's why she didn't accept my friend request?

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posted September 28, 2015 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Not at all.

V is a woman.

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Hmm..interesting. I'm trying to figure out this read. Does V have a boyfriend that she may have sensed attraction towards you from?

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posted September 28, 2015 10:19 PM            

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I don't think it will turn out so well . I think you would have to take drastic measures such as talking to a lawyer about it if you really don't want to pay it.

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posted September 28, 2015 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Hmm..interesting. I'm trying to figure out this read. Does V have a boyfriend that she may have sensed attraction towards you from?

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Well there are two men involved most likely. They are C and E She may have a crush on E or C. The reason she didn't accept me may have to do with gossip she heard about me regarding C.. or because she noticed E and I might have liked each other. I don't know. But I emailed C some things and she may have heard about it and everyone started gossiping about me. It's a spiritual academy btw.

Anyway you can see?

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posted September 28, 2015 10:22 PM            

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I'm hearing from Spirit that they wanted to distance themselves away from you, it was not fully influenced by what others have to say. It did colour their perception of you but they also felt uneasy about you, they did not put a lot of thought into it but just felt it was better not to include you in their friend list.

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posted September 28, 2015 10:23 PM            

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So she did hear gossip?

Does she think I'm a bad person or something? Why would she think she doesnt' want to be friends?

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posted September 28, 2015 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:

Well there are two men involved most likely. They are C and E She may have a crush on E or C. The reason she didn't accept me may have to do with gossip she heard about me regarding C.. or because she noticed E and I might have liked each other. I don't know. But I emailed C some things and she may have heard about it and everyone started gossiping about me. It's a spiritual academy btw.

Anyway you can see?

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Yes, she definitely noticed a mutual attraction between you and I'm feeling E....As you say she is spiritual, this makes sense..She is open to the vibes and yes, she would like you to kind of just "fade away" mainly , due to her own insecurities. People really stink sometimes..There was no real gossip, just kind of ignoring you,

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posted September 28, 2015 10:27 PM            

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Yes she did, she felt that you had some sort of bad vibes around you. I'm not saying that it is true.

I think you may be right about my situation, I really do not want to go the extent of getting a lawyer but I'll know their decision soon.

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posted September 28, 2015 10:43 PM            

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Whoa my uni got back in touch with me really quickly, it went in my favour, they acknowledged that they definitely made a mistake.

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posted September 28, 2015 10:50 PM            

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Sry I was off.

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