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Topic: Am I gettinf fired? Please help.
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Saille Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Boston Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 30, 2015 10:58 PM
My manager emailed a few employees that i do not get along with to ask them if they had any issues or concerns regarding me. I saw their responses. My boss emailed me to ask to meet for an hour to discuss things. The emails were extremely hurtful and now I am worried I will be fired. Thanks in advance.IP: Logged |
gypsywander Knowflake Posts: 642 From: USA Registered: Jul 2015
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posted September 30, 2015 11:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Saille: My manager emailed a few employees that i do not get along with to ask them if they had any issues or concerns regarding me. I saw their responses. My boss emailed me to ask to meet for an hour to discuss things. The emails were extremely hurtful and now I am worried I will be fired. Thanks in advance.
Hi, first, why did your manager target those employees specifically? Maybe he saw that you don't get along with them and wanted to confront them. If they were thinking of firing you, I think he would've asked everyone you work with. This has been my experience... that when a boss is ready to give you the boot, that they ask everyone not just those who you don't get along with (that's a very unfair assessment!) Second, have you done anything that would assume being fired? If not, you have nothing to fear (though I get your fears). To calm your fears I pulled the 5.swords - your fears are just that fears! I don't see you being fired, but I think this manager wanted to see if he can make your working relationship with these employees better. It's not what you think even though what you read might be hurtful. I would bring it up with your manager that you saw these emails and that it hurt you, and would prefer to talk to you directly about your relationship to your employees.. doing it behind your back is very unprofessional. IP: Logged |
Saille Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Boston Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 30, 2015 11:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by gypsywander: Hi, first, why did your manager target those employees specifically? Maybe he saw that you don't get along with them and wanted to confront them. If they were thinking of firing you, I think he would've asked everyone you work with. This has been my experience... that when a boss is ready to give you the boot, that they ask everyone not just those who you don't get along with (that's a very unfair assessment!)Second, have you done anything that would assume being fired? If not, you have nothing to fear (though I get your fears). To calm your fears I pulled the 5.swords - your fears are just that fears! I don't see you being fired, but I think this manager wanted to see if he can make your working relationship with these employees better. It's not what you think even though what you read might be hurtful. I would bring it up with your manager that you saw these emails and that it hurt you, and would prefer to talk to you directly about your relationship to your employees.. doing it behind your back is very unprofessional.
Thank you G. I pulled the 10 of swords and the 6 of swords...and I realized these were my fears manifesting. But people always say don't pull for yourself when emotional. My boss did email to let me know she want to discuss how we can have a better working environment. THANK YOU for your reading. I owe you a reading, I would it now, but my emotional state is not healthy to do a clear reading. IP: Logged |
gypsywander Knowflake Posts: 642 From: USA Registered: Jul 2015
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posted September 30, 2015 11:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Saille: Thank you G. I pulled the 10 of swords and the 6 of swords...and I realized these were my fears manifesting. But people always say don't pull for yourself when emotional. My boss did email to let me know she want to discuss how we can have a better working environment. THANK YOU for your reading. I owe you a reading, I would it now, but my emotional state is not healthy to do a clear reading.
You don't have to do a return if you don't want to... and I totally get your position, I was in that position for 6 months in which they ended up firing me for something else... lol.. anyway yes I do think the 10.swords are trying to tell you that it isn't over and I actually like the 6.swords here afterwards as it's a relax and recuperating time. Take it easy! IP: Logged |
Saille Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Boston Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 30, 2015 11:19 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by gypsywander: [B] You don't have to do a return if you don't want to... and I totally get your position, I was in that position for 6 months in which they ended up firing me for something else... lol.. anyway yes I do think the 10.swords are trying to tell you that it isn't over and I actually like the 6.swords here afterwards as it's a relax and recuperating time. I'm sorry to hear that. It really sucks when that happens. What is your question, I'll do a few readings with it and see what comes up. IP: Logged |
gypsywander Knowflake Posts: 642 From: USA Registered: Jul 2015
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posted September 30, 2015 11:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Saille: [QUOTE]Originally posted by gypsywander: [B] You don't have to do a return if you don't want to... and I totally get your position, I was in that position for 6 months in which they ended up firing me for something else... lol.. anyway yes I do think the 10.swords are trying to tell you that it isn't over and I actually like the 6.swords here afterwards as it's a relax and recuperating time. I'm sorry to hear that. It really sucks when that happens. What is your question, I'll do a few readings with it and see what comes up.
Thanks. I've come to terms with it now and it actually launched part of my career because it gave me the experience that I needed. One question I do have that everyone seems to be picking up on... is that I'm actually supposed to get an offer to get my job back... when that happens, what will it be like working for them again?
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Saille Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Boston Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 01, 2015 12:57 AM
I got the 2 of Wands reversed. Are you applying to other jobs? Something good is going to come out of the situation as long as you haven't burned any bridges. Its really rare for a company to rehire someone they if they didn't leave on their on. Let me know what happens.IP: Logged |
gypsywander Knowflake Posts: 642 From: USA Registered: Jul 2015
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posted October 01, 2015 12:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by Saille: I got the 2 of Wands reversed. Are you applying to other jobs? Something good is going to come out of the situation as long as you haven't burned any bridges. Its really rare for a company to rehire someone they if they didn't leave on their on. Let me know what happens.
I technically haven't burned any bridges with them. And in job readings I keep getting an offer from them and it's because they're expanding. So I'll let you know.
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