posted November 08, 2015 05:53 PM            

A loss of confidence, not believing in yourself. Feeling inferior to other women. Are you still hung up on your ex? Or if not, are you talking about your ex often (to anyone, really). Are you comparing those guys to the ones you date? Are you also having some financial issues too? Are financial issues seeping into the friendship between you two? I hope this resonates.

posted November 08, 2015 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Vi of swords/rx - v of cups- ix of pents/rx

A loss of confidence, not believing in yourself. Feeling inferior to other women. Are you still hung up on your ex? Or if not, are you talking about your ex often (to anyone, really). Are you comparing those guys to the ones you date? Are you also having some financial issues too? Are financial issues seeping into the friendship between you two? I hope this resonates.

Essentially- be positive and confident. Surely someone will come your way. I'm sure of that.

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i guess right now yes loss of confidence and not believing in myself because of this issue. i'm definately not hung up on my ex or talk about him at all. no financial issues

thank you for your reading you're sweet

posted November 08, 2015 06:23 PM            

What you do wrong?

Crossroads - Heart - Coffin - Moon - Anchor

so here is how the situation is:

You show a different side of yourself when you go on a date, because you want to be liked. So you dont come out genuine, maybe you try to be too pleasant or likable or trying to please them too much in the beginning. It creates conflict in the way you present yourself and they sense something's off( Crossroads). The best is to stay firm and be yourself and just dont care if they like you or not for what you are.
You are too eager to get/catch someone to love you/love him and it scares them away (Heart).
Not enough confidence, dont believe in the positive outcome ( Coffin).
You want the romance a little too soon after the initial kick off ( Moon).
And you give out a vibe that you want a long term relationship right from the start, like one of those girls that you cant get rid off so the boys try to do it early on ( Anchor).

posted November 08, 2015 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I also pulled some cards for you, hunny bun

What you do wrong?

Crossroads - Heart - Coffin - Moon - Anchor

so here is how the situation is:

You show a different side of yourself when you go on a date, because you want to be liked. So you dont come out genuine, maybe you try to be too pleasant or likable or trying to please them too much in the beginning. It creates conflict in the way you present yourself and they sense something's off( Crossroads). The best is to stay firm and be yourself and just dont care if they like you or not for what you are.
You are too eager to get/catch someone to love you/love him and it scares them away (Heart).
Not enough confidence, dont believe in the positive outcome ( Coffin).
You want the romance a little too soon after the initial kick off ( Moon).
And you give out a vibe that you want a long term relationship right from the start, like one of those girls that you cant get rid off so the boys try to do it early on ( Anchor).

This whole picture reminds me of the main female character , the romantic girl from "He is just not that into you" - have you seen that great movie?

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i absolutely do not show a different side of myself. i'm 100% me, always have been that way and always will be. i do have a cap stellium and a gemini ascendant so maybe that. but i am always me.

but the rest is probably right, the truth is a bitter pill to swallow. i'm not the most optimistic person when it comes to love and relationships unless i'm in love, i like long term relationships. i'm quite plutonian. i hate anything superficial. i do want romance quick because i like people that i know are interested and i hate any form of games or push and pull. its more cause i'm busy and i have things to do so that kinda stuff takes time away from my work because i'm wondering and i don't like it. in terms of can't get rid off.. don't know. but now i know i come off like that i know to stay even more detached

yeah i watched that movie. wasn't a fan of it though

posted November 09, 2015 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
I'm sorry for not resonating in part- I find that I connect with some people more than others.

My query is how will Nov go for me?

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sorry just saw this after you bumped!

november =

the hanged man, 6 pentacles, the star, the lovers, 6 of cups, 10 of cups

great on the career front. everything will go on the way that it should. romance wise there'll be a transformation where you may need to make a choice between a few things but overall it'll be a good month. there'll be time as well to spend hanging out with friends and family and reconnecting and strengthening the relationships.