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Topic: A Yes/No Answer please - Will He Call This Weekend?
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ihaveaquestion
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posted November 21, 2015 01:54 AM
  
Met A on the 14th. We been messaging. Suddenly nothing. Will be call/get in touch this weekend?Thanks in advance! Have a great weekend  IP: Logged |
Julz87
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From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 21, 2015 02:09 AM
For this weekend I'm getting a no. But he wants too- he has retreated. 5 of Cups- someone is disappointed- feels rejected. Maybe its him or you, guys can take anything out of context or interpret it wrong just as much as woman can so make sure that you have been clear with him. Knight of Swords- if he does message it will be a curt message. Maybe a bit direct and to the point. Hermit- signifies someone has disengaged and has retreated. I pulled a clarified just in case and got 7 of Pents- he is contemplating on it though! EDIT: I would appreciate your feedback if he does get in touch. IP: Logged |
ihaveaquestion
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posted November 21, 2015 02:26 AM
Thanks for the reading Julz! Without making it sound like TMI, he kept asking me to come meet him and I kept saying you come to my side of town. But to be fair I went to meet him the first time even though, he offered to come to this side. But I was also very exhausted. Having said that he wasn't keeping too well so may be I should have given in. My friends said don't give him everything on a platter. He was very upfront about his liking for me. I really like him too but I am shy about these things. Should I text him then? quote:
Originally posted by Julz87:
For this weekend I'm getting a no. But he wants too- he has retreated. 5 of Cups- someone is disappointed- feels rejected. Maybe its him or you, guys can take anything out of context or interpret it wrong just as much as woman can so make sure that you have been clear with him. Knight of Swords- if he does message it will be a curt message. Maybe a bit direct and to the point. Hermit- signifies someone has disengaged and has retreated. I pulled a clarified just in case and got 7 of Pents- he is contemplating on it though! EDIT: I would appreciate your feedback if he does get in touch.
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ihaveaquestion
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posted November 21, 2015 10:56 AM
Bump 😊 If you see this thread, please guide me if I should message him or not? OR if you see future for A and me?IP: Logged |
dustib
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From: USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 21, 2015 11:43 AM
let him contact you. I have always been told that if a man is interested, he will contact you and you won't have to wonder. A man will pursue someone he's interested in. This has been repeated to me by many of my guy friends. IP: Logged |
Julz87
Knowflake Posts: 1248
From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 21, 2015 02:27 PM
I agree with DustibB if a man wants to talk to you trust me he will make the time to talk to you no matter what. Just let him come to you  IP: Logged |
ihaveaquestion
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posted November 22, 2015 01:44 AM
Dustib and Julz thank you so much Agreed, I'm not going to do anything. If it has to happen, he'll have to talk to me. #powerpuffgirlsIP: Logged |
ihaveaquestion
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posted November 22, 2015 01:45 PM
Julz! Feedback: he messaged, with a very simple 'hey' we chatted a bit. General, wassup stuff, still hasn't asked me out again yet. :P Thank you and Dustib for the pep talk. quote:
Originally posted by Julz87:
I agree with DustibB if a man wants to talk to you trust me he will make the time to talk to you no matter what. Just let him come to you
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dustib
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 22, 2015 01:55 PM
no problem! I'm dealing with the same thing right now and all of my guys friends have told me the same thing...let him contact you and let him ask you out. If you let on that it bothers you then he knows he doesn't have to do much....and don't do anything intentionally to hurt him. Yes men play games just as much as women do! It's crazy!!IP: Logged |
Julz87
Knowflake Posts: 1248
From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 22, 2015 02:39 PM
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Originally posted by ihaveaquestion:
Julz! Feedback: he messaged, with a very simple 'hey' we chatted a bit. General, wassup stuff, still hasn't asked me out again yet. :P Thank you and Dustib for the pep talk.
YAY!! just keep it cool
And I agree with DustiB if anything I think men are worse except they are so subtle about it IP: Logged |
ihaveaquestion
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posted November 24, 2015 04:42 AM
Update: Sadly, this is not going to happen. I gave in and went to meet him. He wasn't very nice so I got a bit upset and left. I don't think I want to be with him. This is not going to happen.
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Originally posted by dustib:
no problem! I'm dealing with the same thing right now and all of my guys friends have told me the same thing...let him contact you and let him ask you out. If you let on that it bothers you then he knows he doesn't have to do much....and don't do anything intentionally to hurt him. Yes men play games just as much as women do! It's crazy!!
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ihaveaquestion
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posted November 25, 2015 11:17 PM
In a way I am happy. At least I got my answer. Not pinning my hopes on this anymore. I think it was stupid of me. IP: Logged |
Julz87
Knowflake Posts: 1248
From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 26, 2015 03:29 AM
Tower
Knight of Wands
Queen of PentsI think this guy just wanted a quick hit it and quit it and don't babysit it..Meanwhile you are o grounded wants stability and a solid relationship while you do take your time with someone once your'e in you're all in so solid. *hugs* I feel like that guy was a bored douche. I get you will encounter a solid stable BF within the next 3 weeks to 5 months. And that one will be a long term one. IP: Logged |
ihaveaquestion
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posted November 27, 2015 02:56 PM
Oh my god Julz, thank you for the hug! And for the reading )
Will keep you posted. Love and luck to you! xx quote:
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Tower
Knight of Wands
Queen of PentsI think this guy just wanted a quick hit it and quit it and don't babysit it..Meanwhile you are o grounded wants stability and a solid relationship while you do take your time with someone once your'e in you're all in so solid. *hugs* I feel like that guy was a bored douche. I get you will encounter a solid stable BF within the next 3 weeks to 5 months. And that one will be a long term one.
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