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posted November 23, 2015 09:50 AM            

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When will F reach out to me again? I almost feel like there is a lack of interest on his part with getting to know each other. Someone on here said he's seeing someone else...do you get this as well?

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posted November 23, 2015 11:01 AM            

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Hi.
I am getting soon, this week possibly wednesday.

If he is messaging, well nothing serious I get flirting here and there but not something that is of concern to be honest.

If he lost interest or lack off, no I would say this. I would rather say he is not prioritisng to what you are hoping. He has many ideas and things on his plate so he is now a little scattered.

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posted November 23, 2015 01:15 PM            

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Thank you! you have been a great help to me every time. Always feel free to ask me any questions you may have as well.

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posted November 23, 2015 02:18 PM            

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Thank you tight now i have nothing

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posted November 23, 2015 07:28 PM            

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He did contact me tonight.... very basic text though so still not feeling like he's truly interested. Hasn't asked to see me either: (

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posted November 24, 2015 02:06 AM            

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I think he will fearly soon ask you.

-what are As thoughts about me at this point

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posted November 24, 2015 07:39 AM            

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I got tree, anchor, snake, fish and sun.

I really feel A thinks you are someone who goes after what they want. I do want to say, this is a soulmate connection between the 2 of you and A feels the same way....we have the tree and fish which are both about soulmates. Looks like all good thoughts, he feels you're stable, positive, loving, generous. All great things. I just feel right now he's a bit stuck in his own head.

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posted November 24, 2015 07:51 AM            

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Thank you. This makes a lot of sense.
Im here if you have questions

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posted November 24, 2015 04:16 PM            

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So glad that makes sense to you!

I would love to ask more about F but really no need to as he's still distant and I'm just going to wait and see when it all happens. Just frustrating. LOL

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posted November 24, 2015 06:19 PM            

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OK I do have a question....what would happen if I asked him if his interest level has changed. And should I?

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posted November 25, 2015 08:19 AM            

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NOt really getting you should act him that as he would not acknowlidge the question and avoid it all together. I feel it would make him pull away and not want to be open with you. I dont think you would get the reaction you hope for if you were to bring that up.

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posted November 25, 2015 10:39 AM            

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I'll let it alone then and see what happens. Not like I'm putting my life on hold for him to figure things out. Do you see when the contact may change and not be so....distant? Last text conversation was like 4 texts between us

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posted November 25, 2015 11:08 AM            

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I wouldnt really call that distant but possibly around 10-14 days

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posted November 27, 2015 10:04 AM            

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How are you doing? How is everything going?

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posted November 27, 2015 02:38 PM            

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I'm good....just waiting to see things unfold with F but not putting my life on hold. I did send him a happy thanksgiving text yesterday which he replied to right away and then back to silence. Frustrating to say the least. Lol

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posted November 28, 2015 11:06 AM            

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I hear ya
Ugh having my own strugles

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posted November 28, 2015 12:27 PM            

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got any questions that maybe I can help you with?

I'm trying to remind myself that if F wanted to see me or talk to me then he would. I have my guy friends telling me that a man will pursue someone he wants but then someone else said he may be testing me. I don't believe that.....I think he's just not interested but wants to keep me on the line in cause something better doesn't come along. Ugh men are frustrating creatures! LOL

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posted November 28, 2015 02:14 PM            

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ugh. I dont even know my self anymore. I dont think there is ever 1 rule to things. yes a man will persue you but not everyone is the same.. go with your gut is what I say.

Sure ok, in my love situation with A, what is coming up next?

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posted November 28, 2015 05:47 PM            

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I got key, garden, clouds, stork and whip. I do see where you need some clarity now regarding this situation and I think there is going to be something coming to light. Unfortunately, I feel it might cause more confusion for you BUT I also feel like it's going to open the door to some conversations between the 2 of you. I also think you will get some assistance from a friend regarding what you find out. My biggest thing I feel I need to caution you on, is watching where you are at when this happens....I feel it's going to be in public when you find this news out and it could cause a scene because of your reaction. I will also tell you, the cards are showing me that A is changing but I think it's going to be for the better as the stork means a new beginning and since the reading is about you and A, I feel this new start is between the 2 of you. I do feel until this change happens with him, he's going to annoy you and the 2 of you will argue. Hope this makes sense!

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posted November 28, 2015 05:48 PM            

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Ok so I just want to say, you said go with my gut....right now it says to walk away because when F and I first met, he made it known that he was busy but he wanted to see me so he made the time. Now I get silence and him not asking to see me. As much as I want to believe he will come back and things will change, my gut says walk away and just let it all go and it's his loss.

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posted November 29, 2015 02:43 AM            

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Thank you!

The stork also means coming from somewhere right? He is abroad curently.
So it doesnt have to be a new begining at all,right?

I say listen to your gut and do as you think. Your gut 1st reaction is always good to follow. Not the fear reaction but what came 1st without thinking about it.

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posted November 29, 2015 12:11 PM            

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Yes the stork can be about relocation or arrival as well.

LOL who knows the difference between my gut and my fear. haha trying not to think about it anymore and trying to find my motivation to get in the gym and lose weight again. Will that happen?

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posted November 29, 2015 12:22 PM            

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Could you please check if then there will be any new begining with him ?

If you will find motivation, well I dont feel so right niw. There is too much temptation and having fun to focus on going to the gym. But I get a better period around mid January and you will find the motivation.

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posted November 30, 2015 07:28 AM            

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I got house, scythe and key. Yes but first I see things that need to be cut out before you guys find what works best for you. Hope this helps!

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posted November 30, 2015 07:57 AM            

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Thanks dudtib! It helps yed

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