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ILovePoems
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posted December 23, 2015 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want two people to practice on. This will give me the problem to what happened or what is the cause of the problem and the solution..and then lastly.. the Outcome.

So if you have a problem with someone and don't mind me practicing on that please post below.

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posted December 23, 2015 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can practice on me(v) and L

Ty

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posted December 23, 2015 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay Vivi, do you want me to askthe cards "How to fix the relationship between Me and L?" or you have a question in mind.. either way it the cards will find the problem and solution

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posted December 23, 2015 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes that is fine ty ILP!

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posted December 23, 2015 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me please x

My question is: How will the situation between Me (JI) and KF resolve itself?

Thank you x

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posted December 23, 2015 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Vivi327:
Yes that is fine ty ILP!

Okay..

For the problem side I pulled 3 cards.

For the first one.. I'm not even sure on who this is for.. but it could be that this person feels sexually attracted to the other person. It could also mean that there is fear in this as well. I just get the feeling that this person mostly like looking on the outside instead of the inside.. would that make sense? The next card I pulled.. makes me wonder what's so bad about it because it seems this person is happy when they are satisfied and only they seem to be satisfied. This person might like being alone too. I could say that this person could be spoiled because they like getting what they want. Don't know if they made sense either. The last card for the problems is that maybe you two had a down fall? I think one of you wanted a stable relationship but it ended up just falling apart? I would say that maybe there were a few conflicts and just problems in the way.. feeling a bit blocked.

The devil - 9 of pentacles - the tower
Now here are the solutions.

The first card I pulled.. can talk about a mother type lady. But it doesn't have to talk about anyone. But what I do see is that there has to be trust in eachother, have to be support, and has to have love. I could say this could come from one person or from both sides. This could mean that there has to be something stable in the relationship. The next card talks about opening up their emotions. It seems that the solution is by trying to open up to the other person. It could be a message as well since this is a card talking about messages but this card is mostly about romance and emotions. It could also mean having new paths in front of you once this carried out. (now this could talk about him too). The last card talks about someone being closed off. This person maybe doesn't want to tell someone else something.. its like they are holding on to it because they're afraid they might end up getting hurt or losing it. It could also mean they are just closed off and don't want to share at all. I think the card is saying is that this person.. (who ever this is) needs to open up and be honest with their self. They should not be afraid for what ever consequence will be up ahead.

Queen of pentacles - knight of cups - 4 of pentacles

the outcome

I was shocked with this because it doesn't really give me and outcome..
The card I got talks about taking a break. It seems to me that 4 of pentacles has something to do with it. This person does not want to open up with how they feel or maybe it's something else. But it seems that you two will still be on a break.

4 of swords

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posted December 23, 2015 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ikja:
Me please x

My question is: How will the situation between Me (JI) and KF resolve itself?

Thank you x


I will do your reading later on today.. I never knew this would be so hard to figure out lol

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posted December 23, 2015 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
I will do your reading later on today.. I never knew this would be so hard to figure out lol

Don't worry babes.
I'm expecting a mixed answer 😂

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posted December 23, 2015 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ty poems. The reading makes a lot of sense. You are doing great

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posted December 23, 2015 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ikja:
Don't worry babes.
I'm expecting a mixed answer 😂

Nevermind gonna do it now lol

For the problems..

The first card I pulled talks about a change. This change could end up being a transformation. Like something had died and it ends up making a new beginning. So.. maybe someones feelings had changed for the other person? The next card I got talks about sadness. It seems that maybe this person had lost someone.. they could feel guilty for what had happened. But this sadness had really brought them down. Sadness sadness sadness is what I get. The last card is.. I could say that this person could be juggling with their emotions. It's like going back and forth. I think this person was trying to find balance. But this card can also mean making decisions.

Death - 5 of cups - 2 of pentacles

For the solution

There is something that you may not know right now but will end up knowing a little later. So if you want to know this "secret".. if it is one, you may have to just keep going with the flow of things. The next card is getting your wish.. but don't let this card fool you. You may both get what you two want, but it could also mean that only one of you will be satisfied. So I'm still warning about that card. Now again just like Vivi's reading.. you two will still take a break.. or need a break to think about what you two really want from the relationship in order for it to work. I don't know how long the the break will be but I think it will benefit you both.

the high priestess - 9 of cups - 4 of swords

the outcome

this card says that you two will try.. or maybe one of you will try to work on making this work. So it could mean that you two will build on the relationship to make it stronger and stable. But be sure on if this is what you really want cause once you build it on and find out that its not what you want.. somebody will get mad lol.

8 of pentacles

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posted December 23, 2015 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Nevermind gonna do it now lol

For the problems..

The first card I pulled talks about a change. This change could end up being a transformation. Like something had died and it ends up making a new beginning. So.. maybe someones feelings had changed for the other person? The next card I got talks about sadness. It seems that maybe this person had lost someone.. they could feel guilty for what had happened. But this sadness had really brought them down. Sadness sadness sadness is what I get. The last card is.. I could say that this person could be juggling with their emotions. It's like going back and forth. I think this person was trying to find balance. But this card can also mean making decisions.

Death - 5 of cups - 2 of pentacles

For the solution

There is something that you may not know right now but will end up knowing a little later. So if you want to know this "secret".. if it is one, you may have to just keep going with the flow of things. The next card is getting your wish.. but don't let this card fool you. You may both get what you two want, but it could also mean that only one of you will be satisfied. So I'm still warning about that card. Now again just like Vivi's reading.. you two will still take a break.. or need a break to think about what you two really want from the relationship in order for it to work. I don't know how long the the break will be but I think it will benefit you both.

the high priestess - 9 of cups - 4 of swords

the outcome

this card says that you two will try.. or maybe one of you will try to work on making this work. So it could mean that you two will build on the relationship to make it stronger and stable. But be sure on if this is what you really want cause once you build it on and find out that its not what you want.. somebody will get mad lol.

8 of pentacles



LOL - I am going to come back and comment on this ILP, but let me just tell you that you hit a few nails on the head with this reading. Quite accurate indeed.

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posted December 23, 2015 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dustib     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
please let me know if you ever decide to take more sitters as I would be very interested. Thanks!

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posted December 23, 2015 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by dustib:
please let me know if you ever decide to take more sitters as I would be very interested. Thanks!

Sure. one more wont hurt :3

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posted December 23, 2015 07:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dustib     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, you're the best! I am wondering F will ever re-enter my life for anything long term.

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posted December 23, 2015 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm.. i don't think I should ask that.. mind me changing the question to "what is the problem between me and F?"

or "how to solve the problem between me and F?"

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posted December 23, 2015 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dustib     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Hmm.. i don't think I should ask that.. mind me changing the question to "what is the problem between me and F?"

or "how to solve the problem between me and F?"


either work fine.

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posted December 24, 2015 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by dustib:
either work fine.

Sorry for the late reply.

The problems

The first card I got l may mean that someone is being protective of their self. They seem to be thinking that they are expecting the worst between you two. They may think the other person will hurt them or they just think they need to defend their self for other reasons. The next card.. Is many or some cases they think this is the card about stealing/ being a theft. I think in this case maybe F is trying to avoid you? Or maybe just in communications. It seems that this person just doesn't want to go there or think that it will lead up into getting into bad situations. The last card seems to say that there has to be decisions to make. They might think if they stay this person will change or they think that if they leave they may find someone else. This card can also say that they person is not very happy with where they are at.

9 of wands - 7 of swords - 2 of wands

The solution

With this card.. Most of the time it can talk about making some choices. But I can also say that It can mean you two are attracted to each other. The next card I got seems to say that there will be communications but they will have to be soft.. As in sweet soft.. Love.. Compassion soft. This could also mean that this relationship between you and F is kinda immature.. As in just barely even developed much. Even if you two are together, this isn't really full blown love just yet.. So there will have to be developments. The last card talks about happiness. In this case.. I think the both of you will have to want this. This talks about settling down and just being happy together and emotions being out and not kept in. Nobody cant be afraid to show how they really feel.

The lovers - page of cups - 10 of cups

The outcome

This really doesnt help much because this card shows that someone is still being stingy.. Well like they keeping something in. They are afraid to let go or be open to the other person. This person needs to be open in order for this to work out. I pulled another card to help a little. And it seems to say that maybe this person will open up and show how they really care. The both of you will be more caring and open.

4 of pentacles - the empress

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posted December 25, 2015 09:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dustib     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wanted to give you a little bit of feedback. F has been the one who has been distant and would text me here and there but not ask to see me. I did this week let him know that I didn't want just friends but someone to spend time with and get to know to see if anything developed....silence since then. Your reading made perfect sense....I know he's afraid of getting involved with someone and then having to leave and he won't ask someone to leave with him....he's military so he's had to do it a few times. Thank you so much! You were spot on

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posted December 25, 2015 11:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for the feedback.. Hopefully I be right and that you two do open up.

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posted December 25, 2015 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Nevermind gonna do it now lol

For the problems..

The first card I pulled talks about a change. This change could end up being a transformation. Like something had died and it ends up making a new beginning. So.. maybe someones feelings had changed for the other person? The next card I got talks about sadness. It seems that maybe this person had lost someone.. they could feel guilty for what had happened. But this sadness had really brought them down. Sadness sadness sadness is what I get. The last card is.. I could say that this person could be juggling with their emotions. It's like going back and forth. I think this person was trying to find balance. But this card can also mean making decisions.

Death - 5 of cups - 2 of pentacles

For the solution

There is something that you may not know right now but will end up knowing a little later. So if you want to know this "secret".. if it is one, you may have to just keep going with the flow of things. The next card is getting your wish.. but don't let this card fool you. You may both get what you two want, but it could also mean that only one of you will be satisfied. So I'm still warning about that card. Now again just like Vivi's reading.. you two will still take a break.. or need a break to think about what you two really want from the relationship in order for it to work. I don't know how long the the break will be but I think it will benefit you both.

the high priestess - 9 of cups - 4 of swords

the outcome

this card says that you two will try.. or maybe one of you will try to work on making this work. So it could mean that you two will build on the relationship to make it stronger and stable. But be sure on if this is what you really want cause once you build it on and find out that its not what you want.. somebody will get mad lol.

8 of pentacles


I think the person you are talking about in the first spread is me. A lot of the enthusiasm I had for the relationship was transformed/died as a result of what I saw. However, I'm still interested, it just feels less intense (somehow).

I hate secrets! I wouldn't be surprised if there is one, but I hate them. I'm thinking about what I want from the relationship and I get the feeling he is too. However, I do not know this for certain.

Thanks for the heads up lol I've got no strength for arguments!

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