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posted January 04, 2016 07:58 PM            

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I have this urge to contact this person...I want this person badly but our last interaction ended badly...With mercury turning retrograde I thought about contact but part of me is afraid of being rejected, hurt or ignored. This person is constantly on my mind so part of me is like maybe if I contact him, he'll hurt me so badly that I'll stop wanting him.

Should I contact S or not? If I do how will he react?

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posted January 04, 2016 08:44 PM            

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I can do a reading for you but I have a quick question.

I was thinking about sending someone a message because I keep holding it off. Will it make a difference if I send a message to this person today or will it still go into affect? I dont know anything about retrograde :/

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posted January 04, 2016 08:58 PM            

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I would say for serious business, I hold off important decisions with merc. retrograde however when it comes to contacting someone from the past, I think merc retrograde is good...From my personal experience, I have had people from the past contact me which have been very pleasant.

These are personal experiences that I have seen with merc retrograde:
-Things that I have signed up for during merc retrograde ALWAYS get cancelled at a later date. Example: uni orientation
- Things usually don't get completed when you START them on merc retrograde. I have had friends who applied for uni during merc retro and later on couldn't go due to certain circumstances or took theory driving lessons during merc retro to later on drop out of it again due to life circumstances.
-People pop up from the past and I hear truths that they have been hiding...coming clean.

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posted January 04, 2016 09:06 PM            

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I was thinking about contacting someone from my past. I keep holding it off because everyone keeps seeing disagreements but then it gets better.. But I'm still scared.. But now I'm scared even more because of you guys saying mercury is bad to communicate.. :/ now I don't know what to do. I might just send it today..

Oh and from the cards, I think you will end up contacting him and you two might actually start talking and you will feel better afterwards. I could be wrong but thats what I'm seeing.

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posted January 04, 2016 09:10 PM            

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Thanks! What cards did you pull?

Honestly, I think mercury retro is not good to START plans but to communicate I would think that it's ok. With my first boyfriend, I lost contact from him one year and during mercury retrograde we finally found each other and he told me everything he was hiding which is NOT BAD at all. We got to know each other better, and it definitely helped us reconnect.

But I do understand your fear part...That's how I'm feeling right now.

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posted January 04, 2016 09:19 PM            

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2 of wands - the moon - 3 of pentacles - 9 of pentacles

I could say about the moon maybe to be careful but the 3 of pentacles talks about either working together with someone or planning something with someone.

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posted January 04, 2016 10:56 PM            

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Hi Milly-

I asked if you should contact this person...
I feel that you should, simply because if you do not, it will eat at you for quite some time...I just would not be overly sappy with your message. Short & sweet is best, and he will respond.

As far as how he will react to it- I see confusion at first , followed by "doing the right thing" which in my mind, would be responding to your message. I don't see a whole lot of romance from his end though. SO if that is what you are hoping to achieve you may be disappointed. But if you are strictly going for some interaction & contact, he will respond. Make sense?

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posted January 04, 2016 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Hi Milly-

I asked if you should contact this person...
I feel that you should, simply because if you do not, it will eat at you for quite some time...I just would not be overly sappy with your message. Short & sweet is best, and he will respond.

As far as how he will react to it- I see confusion at first , followed by "doing the right thing" which in my mind, would be responding to your message. I don't see a whole lot of romance from his end though. SO if that is what you are hoping to achieve you may be disappointed. But if you are strictly going for some interaction & contact, he will respond. Make sense?

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Thank you DreamCatcher! Yes it does make sense! I like him alot but I understand that for now, we can't be with each other it's like the timing is wrong.

I was simply going to write "Miss the days when you would chase me, now I'm the one chasing after you but I'm too late now".

And knowing him, he always has his guard up, he is always cold towards me so yeah I don't expect much from him. He'll probably be mean to me and that will probably hurt me and push me to move on.

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posted January 05, 2016 12:26 AM            

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Feedback. Glad I texted him, now I know he really doesn't want me. That's all I needed to hear now I can move on for good. He told me to never contact him again. That's what I needed.

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posted January 05, 2016 02:31 AM            

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Sorry Milly.. Now I see the 9 of pentacles make sense but the 3 of pentacles doesnt. :/

I hope you're okay

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posted January 05, 2016 03:01 AM            

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Oh no it's alright. This has happened too many times and I am a stubborn person, I have a tendency to go back & give second chances to people and the only time I stop is when they hurt me. This time I know I will never give him a second (or god knows how many I gave him in the past) chance, all we do is argue anyways, nothing new.

We always hurt each other, look for revenge and it's like a love/hate cycle/circle that is not healthy & maybe it's time one of us grows up and breaks this toxic circle.

I will wait for the right guy to come along, this time. I want to be patient and stop wasting time with guys like him.

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posted January 05, 2016 01:33 PM            

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If he was disrespectful and rude to you Milly, don't worry. Time is a real ***** . I personally don't think the universe takes too kindly to people who intentionally hurt other people, when they could just be firm and polite.

It's not your cross anymore. So, don't waste time on it. Although it is easier said than done. Concentrate on you and all of the things you want to achieve. I bet you, he comes back around.

The difference is, next time, you'll be stronger and will handle it differently.

Lessons in life (after 25 years, I get it), if a guy wants you... He won't easily or simply disrespect you. That's a fact. When you like something or even love it; you treat it well and you protect it. Think of your favourite bag, favourite make up brush. You do everything in your power to make it LAST. You may even go out and buy another because it's that good!

If he is not treating you like his prized possession... Forget him.

You're better than his **** !

Wishing you luck X

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