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Topic: A few exchanges
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MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1838
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 12, 2016 09:36 PM
  
I'm a bit bored tonight and don't mind reading. My Q: Does S look at my Facebook Profile? Post your Qs! IP: Logged |
SpiritualSadie
Knowflake Posts: 166
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted January 12, 2016 09:50 PM
Yes, and with a sense of regret. Does that make sense? I got Woman, Dog, Cross and Whip. Was there an argument or perhaps a perceived missed opportunity here?My Q is what is M's game plan by ignoring me? Moving on or hoping to spur me to return? IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1838
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 12, 2016 10:05 PM
Ah the ignoring game! My ex did this to me and I sure as hell disappeared from his life for good that's for sure. Some people do it to effectively heal and move on (nothing wrong with that) while others do it as a form of power, control & manipulation. In your case, I asked what were M's motives for ignoring you and got 2 of clubs, King of Spades and 7 of hearts First card represents conversation and I feel like this person thinks that if he ignores you that will make you 'want' more. Second card is like the King of Swords in tarot, this is a mental card. I feel like this person is also ignoring you because they are taking time to think themselves, on their own. Last card is the card of doubt...This person is probably confused and is filled with doubts regarding you. In the end, I do feel like if someone is ignoring you, you should give them space. I feel like it's more about him and not so much about you. This person is unsure if they want you to return, they are currently thinking about it themselves. And your reading does make sense. Earlier this month, I messaged him through Facebook telling him that if he wants to we can try again. He got mad and told me to leave him alone, we did argue and that's what I did, I am leaving him alone. So I guess, he does feel regret because I was open to try again and he just really pushed me away this time. IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 708
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 12, 2016 10:12 PM
Hi milly!May I ?
My q is about my love life. I want to see if he is as interested in me as I am in him. ( I'm guessing no, lol, but who knoWs Brb with yours
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MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1838
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 12, 2016 10:13 PM
Sure Dream Catcher! What's his initials? Is it J?IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1838
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 12, 2016 10:34 PM
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Hi milly!May I ?
My q is about my love life. I want to see if he is as interested in me as I am in him. ( I'm guessing no, lol, but who knoWs Brb with yours
Since you offered me no initials, I went along and asked "Is he interested in DreamCatcher" I pulled 3 of hearts, ace of hearts and 6 of hearts I am getting a definite yes. These are all positive cards! Stop doubting yourself! First card is the card of affection, second card of love, third of harmony. You are a wonderful person, build up your confidence and self esteem stop doubting yourself. IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 708
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 12, 2016 10:38 PM
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Originally posted by MillyX:
I'm a bit bored tonight and don't mind reading. My Q: Does S look at my Facebook Profile? Post your Qs!
YES he does. He particularly likes pictures where your hair is pulled back or off of your face. Does this make sense to you? I feel like he follows you around a bit on FB. So yes, he does. Make sense? IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1838
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 12, 2016 10:41 PM
Thanks. Well my FB is private, we aren't friends on there but on my profile pic my hair is a bit pulled back from my face. Can I ask another Q? If he likes me so much, what is stopping him from contacting me or opening up to me? I told him I was open but he just pushes me away. IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 708
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 12, 2016 10:46 PM
Sure...may I ask another as well?
If I change my behavior and open up a little, what sort of response do you see from J? BRB with yours. IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 708
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 12, 2016 10:49 PM
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Originally posted by MillyX:
Thanks. Well my FB is private, we aren't friends on there but on my profile pic my hair is a bit pulled back from my face. Can I ask another Q? If he likes me so much, what is stopping him from contacting me or opening up to me? I told him I was open but he just pushes me away.
Well what I see here is that there is a mutual female friend that shows up as a block to you & him truly connecting. Like a jealousy, and she purposely tries to keep a wedge between the two of you. He is strongly influenced by her, but that will start to get less & less as time goes on. But he is very attracted to you, for sure...I would say to leave it be for now, I feel he will come around in about two months time, or sometime in february. IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1838
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 12, 2016 10:57 PM
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Well what I see here is that there is a mutual female friend that shows up as a block to you & him truly connecting. Like a jealousy, and she purposely tries to keep a wedge between the two of you. He is strongly influenced by her, but that will start to get less & less as time goes on. But he is very attracted to you, for sure...I would say to leave it be for now, I feel he will come around in about two months time, or sometime in february.
We don't have any mutual female friends, the only mutual friends we have are males. But I do think that he is seeing another girl currently so that might be the reason why he is pushing me away. I am attracted to him too, but it's like a love/hate type of thing I like him but he frustrates me to the point where I want to slap him (I always said that if I did bump into him I would, that's why he's in hiding and refused to see me when I came to visit last month). I just find him so slow, it's like 1 step forward 2 steps back with him, reappearing disappearing in the end I'm getting tired the only reason why I am still into him is because I don't have anyone new...YET BRB with yours IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 1838
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 12, 2016 11:03 PM
I asked how will J respond if you become more open towards him and got 9 of clubs, 8 of hearts and 10 of spades. I feel like he will be happy that you will be more open towards him. I feel like this will encourage him more to be more open towards you, to socialize more with you. However, he might also be filled with anxiety in the back of his head...I don't know why, but I feel like it's a block within himself. IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 708
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 12, 2016 11:32 PM
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Originally posted by MillyX:
We don't have any mutual female friends, the only mutual friends we have are males. But I do think that he is seeing another girl currently so that might be the reason why he is pushing me away. I am attracted to him too, but it's like a love/hate type of thing I like him but he frustrates me to the point where I want to slap him (I always said that if I did bump into him I would, that's why he's in hiding and refused to see me when I came to visit last month). I just find him so slow, it's like 1 step forward 2 steps back with him, reappearing disappearing in the end I'm getting tired the only reason why I am still into him is because I don't have anyone new...YET BRB with yours
interesting...perhaps its a male friend interested in you, and I have it backwards? Let me know if you want me to read again..what do you feel he is anxious about? Nerves & insecurity? Or not knowing what to do? IP: Logged |
SpiritualSadie
Knowflake Posts: 166
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted January 12, 2016 11:40 PM
Thanks, Milly. Makes sense. I broke it off and I'm hopeful he's accepting it and just taking some time to heal, but also think he may partially be playing a game here.IP: Logged |
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