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Topic: I am in need of some help and guidance please!
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TV520
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: Florida
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted January 19, 2016 03:06 PM
  
I have been seeing this girl Nicole. She broke things off with me and will not talk to me and I don't know if I will ever get her back. I love her soo much, I feel I am the right man for her. Can anyone give me some guidance or help me please?IP: Logged |
powerglove
Newflake Posts: 22
From: Canada
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted January 19, 2016 09:10 PM
I'll be straight up. Dating is like a game, it's based on psychological aspects. I already am aware yourself or others might not like the concept of this, but if you're open to my advice, then read below.
1.) Show her that you're more than capable of being happy without her, even if it's not true. It will certainly be difficult but you needa just DO IT. With time and baby steps, it will become less difficult. Happiness is the best revenge along with personal success. People are attracted to this.2.) Create enough distance. This will make her question your presence. You'll be upon her thoughts. You'll be thinking of her but don't show this. You'll be tempted to talk to her, but restrain yourself from doing so. If she happens to talk to you, don't give full attention, but still maintaining that mystery. Be ambiguous. Give subtle hints you might be interested in her and pull away. It will challenge her. You need to have the power in your control without letting her know that you have it in your hands. 3.) Excel in whatever you do. Hit your goals. Achieve and DO YOU. I commend you to take this heartbreaking situation and use it as fuel to become a better version of yourself. Eat good, look good, speak good, dress good. Find your self-worth and the right amount of pride. You might even be over this person without you knowing it. Well, maybe not entirely, but by that time, you will find it easier to be open to meeting new people. Note that this isn't a some type of magical method to guarantee her back. It's just advice based on personal experience. Good luck. Yours, Gemini sun 7H/Leo moon 8H/Leo venus 8H/Leo mars 8H IP: Logged |
powerglove
Newflake Posts: 22
From: Canada
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted January 19, 2016 09:12 PM
Good luck man. You got this. IP: Logged |
TV520
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: Florida
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted January 19, 2016 09:15 PM
Thank you for the advice. I was just hoping one of the psychics would step in and tell me if it is going to work.IP: Logged |
powerglove
Newflake Posts: 22
From: Canada
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted January 19, 2016 09:28 PM
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Originally posted by TV520:
Thank you for the advice. I was just hoping one of the psychics would step in and tell me if it is going to work.
I respect that. But if I may ask - are you seriously willing to let some other person indicate if a relationship will work or not? I'm just kindly going to suggest that it would benefit you if you don't entirely depend or wholeheartedly put your life in someone's words.
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TV520
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: Florida
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted January 19, 2016 10:17 PM
If it is a way for me to gain insight then yes. I will listen. IP: Logged |
tinkerbug
Knowflake Posts: 125
From:
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 20, 2016 05:23 AM
^ Big hugs for you friend  IP: Logged |
Julz87
Knowflake Posts: 1693
From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 20, 2016 06:24 AM
Future of Tv and Nicoles connection?World - Star - 4 of Cups
Clarifier 8 of Cups. I'm sorry to say but it doesn't look good, it seems like things have come to a conclusion, even though you still hold out hope yet you feel she is getting farther and farther away from you. The four of cups talks of disinterest coming either from you or her and from your posts I'm going to say its coming from her, as a clarifier we got eight of cups seems like someone is walking away from the situation - I don't get a reunion sorry. :-/ Maybe you can try telling her how you feel how her withdrawal is making you feel - the star can also signify hope/faith to maybe you seem out of reach from her as well. IP: Logged |
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