posted January 22, 2016 10:58 PM            

I don't love him romantically anymore but I still care about him. I really wanted to stay friends with him but it was not possible after our breakup which is understandable.

We never had the chance to get one last talk with each other.

I'd like to know, will I ever get the chance to have a conversation with him one last time?

And also will I ever get the chance in the future to be friends with him?

My feelings for him are not that strong anymore but I wonder about what he has become, I have not heard from him since. His name is Carl.

posted January 23, 2016 09:43 AM            

Still exchanging ? ( not you but im getting tired of people not following through on exchanges here!)

posted January 23, 2016 12:52 PM            

I feel that this relationship still carries some heaviness, but mostly on his side. It seems to me that you have done a lot of work on yourself & your spirit, but he has not, and he is still dealing with a lot .

I also feel at times you were a scapegoat for him not dealing with his emotions & wounds and that's unfair. So while you do still care , and he still cares, I only see a conversation happening if you were to initiate it right now. And if that happens, be prepared for a drawn out situation...does this resonate?

Also , as far as being just friends, I don't really see that happening either , I'm sorry to say

posted January 23, 2016 01:10 PM            

I did do alot of work and the intensity is not as strong as it used to be on my side. I used to be very jealous, possessive and downright crazy when I was with him but I worked alot on myself and I also did some cord cutting and reiki and that really helped me stop dreaming of him so much and feeling his energy.

I sometimes check up on him through Facebook, and when I see his pictures he looks really miserable. It makes me sad to see him like this.

I did reach out to him through Facebook but he never replied.

I always wanted to be friends with this person because, he was an important person in my life and I felt like despite his troubles and character he 'got' me and understood who I was, which is rare for me to experience.

I check up on him alot to see if he has quit the drugs and quit selling. Like I always hoped that someday he would wake up and advance in life and get better.

posted January 23, 2016 01:18 PM            

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Originally posted by MillyX:
I asked if your relationship with your sister will ever get better and I am getting a yes. I pulled 8 of diamonds and 9 of hearts

I feel like there will be a change coming your way between the both of you and this will come unexpectedly. It may take time but I see that in the end both of you will get to a place of peace, you are sisters after all. I don't feel like this is a lost cause. Give it time.

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posted January 23, 2016 01:18 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Would you like me to read on him more in depth? Like what he is up to?

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Yes please if you don't mind. I would like to know if he is making any improvements into his life, if he is getting better. And also towards me, when he thinks about me what does he wonder about me and our relationship.

posted January 23, 2016 01:24 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Well, I guess the real question is why she treats me this way...

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Ok so I asked why she was treating you that way.I pulled 8 of diamonds, 7 of spades and 4 of hearts.

posted January 23, 2016 02:22 PM            

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Originally posted by MillyX:
Yes please if you don't mind. I would like to know if he is making any improvements into his life, if he is getting better. And also towards me, when he thinks about me what does he wonder about me and our relationship.

On my side, I have forgiven him after everything that happened and have tried to set him free. I don't carry bad feelings towards him, I feel more...pity towards him. Like he needs help and I wish that things will get better for him.

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Well, he's not really getting better because he is unwilling to see his main issues, he's not really willing to explore what his true problems are and he tends to blame other people.

As far as what he thinks for you, I keep seeing him trying to escape those thoughts, possibly even through drinking.

He does not really wonder about the relationship as much as he wonders about you and what you are up to. He has thought about you, but it makes him sad, so he tunes it right out

posted January 23, 2016 02:38 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Well, he's not really getting better because he is unwilling to see his main issues, he's not really willing to explore what his true problems are and he tends to blame other people.

As far as what he thinks for you, I keep seeing him trying to escape those thoughts, possibly even through drinking.

He does not really wonder about the relationship as much as he wonders about you and what you are up to. He has thought about you, but it makes him sad, so he tunes it right out

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It's sad to hear and the drinking part makes sense. On his Facebook, I see that he parties alot and I see that he drinks alot of lean: a combination of codeine (cough syrup which is illegal) and sprite.

posted January 23, 2016 03:09 PM            

That will be it for today, I don't want to drown too much into his problems, it's all about distance and detachment.