posted February 14, 2016 04:15 PM            

Possible natal aspects that are causing me to struggle in romantic relationships:

-Venus square Neptune making me too idealistic to the point where when reality sets in I realize that I was just living in a fantasy.

-Uranus opposite Ascendant creating a difficult paradox for me where I want freedom in a relationship but also simultaneously desire a commitment and dislike anything casual.

-Neptune opposition to my Ascendant might be what makes me want such an idealistic love that I end up choosing people who seem to be perfect, but end up being anything but.

Possible long-term transits that might be messing with my love life:

-Transit Uranus has been square my natal 7th house Uranus for two years

-Transit Chiron has been sextiling my natal 7th house Neptune also for two years.

-I believe that a big reason romantic relationships have been a source of contention for me since 2014 is because transiting Uranus has been squaring my natal 7th house Uranus making me restless in relationships and forcing me to need to change how I go about them and also because transiting Chiron has been sextiling my natal 7th house Neptune has been making me too naïve and idealistic when I actually do enter romantic relationships.

-Thankfully transit Uranus stops squaring my natal Uranus on April 1st, but transit Chiron will still be sextiling my natal Neptune until Christmas Day .

posted February 14, 2016 04:47 PM            

Your Venus also has a sextile to Saturn, and this tells you that if you put your mind to, you can easily build up solid and stable relationships.

Keep in mind that with Uranus in 7th, Venus square Uranus and Venus in Aries you will always need a relationship that challenges you, a person which you have to conquer again and again, and a person with whom you don't have a routine relationship (this doesn't mean you won't have stable relationships, but maybe relationships filled with freedom, where you don't get to be bored easily).

Plus, with Pluto in 5th house, you always look for meaningful connections, and Saturn being your 7th house ruler also makes it somehow easier for you to stability

posted February 14, 2016 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
I'd look at the squares from your Venus to Neptune and Uranus, making you even more idealistic and restless in love. But Neptune and Uranus are both in Capricorn, so this sign makes these aspects a little bit more grounded than if they were in a water sign, for example.

Your Venus also has a sextile to Saturn, and this tells you that if you put your mind to, you can easily build up solid and stable relationships.

Keep in mind that with Uranus in 7th, Venus square Uranus and Venus in Aries you will always need a relationship that challenges you, a person which you have to conquer again and again, and a person with whom you don't have a routine relationship (this doesn't mean you won't have stable relationships, but maybe relationships filled with freedom, where you don't get to be bored easily).

Plus, with Pluto in 5th house, you always look for meaningful connections, and Saturn being your 7th house ruler also makes it somehow easier for you to stability

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posted February 14, 2016 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
I'd look at the squares from your Venus to Neptune and Uranus, making you even more idealistic and restless in love. But Neptune and Uranus are both in Capricorn, so this sign makes these aspects a little bit more grounded than if they were in a water sign, for example.

Your Venus also has a sextile to Saturn, and this tells you that if you put your mind to, you can easily build up solid and stable relationships.

Keep in mind that with Uranus in 7th, Venus square Uranus and Venus in Aries you will always need a relationship that challenges you, a person which you have to conquer again and again, and a person with whom you don't have a routine relationship (this doesn't mean you won't have stable relationships, but maybe relationships filled with freedom, where you don't get to be bored easily).

Plus, with Pluto in 5th house, you always look for meaningful connections, and Saturn being your 7th house ruler also makes it somehow easier for you to stability

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posted February 15, 2016 12:06 AM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
hahahahahah I get ya, the natal charts usually have a lot of contradictions! We as human are really complicated

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