posted March 31, 2016 10:26 AM            

Do you ever get this feeling? For example, you meet someone and you think everything is going fine, like you're dreams are coming true, that you have finally found the one, but it turns out the other way round... Yes, I know that in life there will be always up and downs. But it is not that. It seems to me that, especially in love, I have never reached that true happiness. That feeling you get when your wish finally came true. If I go back and see all the person's I have been in love all didn't turn out good. All the happiness I ever felt were only illusional. Always hoping for something in vain and seeing love where there isn't.

posted March 31, 2016 10:51 AM            

Maybe you need to take a little more time and know someone before you decide they are the "one". But I know the feeling, I have Venus sq Neptune and I always see a fairytale from the beginning. Don't give up your dream of love though, with time it will manifest, and it usually happens when you are ready for it yourself.

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted March 31, 2016 11:09 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I am very sorry is he your bf or just a crush?

Maybe you need to take a little more time and know someone before you decide they are the "one". But I know the feeling, I have Venus sq Neptune and I always see a fairytale from the beginning. Don't give up your dream of love though, with time it will manifest, and it usually happens when you are ready for it yourself.

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posted March 31, 2016 11:12 AM            

I see this struggles as a form to grow.Imagine if you find "the one" and you not ready for that kind of relationship?You could lose them right?I had to cry a lot before I realized that.Work on yourself and let God (if you believe in God) do his work.

posted March 31, 2016 11:31 AM            

If you accept that life is about learning lessons that help us grow (at least that's what my life has taught me) you would be more comfortable with the challenges and hurdles that appear.
Happiness comes from within and it's a bad idea to rely on others for your general well-being. I have fallen in this trap before... the lesson is learn to be happy with oneself first, only then can you attract really valuable people in your life.

That picture you saw may not mean much... but whatever it may mean it should not affect your mood or your entire life in a negative way.
You probably feel like you finally want to settle with "the one", maybe it is a little fixated in your subconscious. Perhaps you think this must happen in order for you to be able to express your full potential in life.
If you keep seeing that love life is not quite working for you right now, then step back a little, get yourself together, do your own stuff. Try to become happy and content with your own self first. If a certain picture or relationship is really bringing you down then you are not as confident as you can be.
Start taking care of yourself and new and better opportunities will come up! You don't have to settle for second best, so look for a guy who you are happy with and compliments your own self, instead of someone who you expect to make you happy.

You are probably in your early twenties or even younger... life is ahead of you!
When you meet a nicer guy do not be quick to have any sort of expectations, e.g. "i hope this is the one"; "i hope we can do this and that together".
No, drop all of that. Instead, just enjoy it for what it is at first, don't be quick to assume anything. If it goes really well, then you can probably take it a step further, if it's not at all what you'd like it to be then don't be disappointed!
Just move on without letting it bring you down, because that's not what it is even about.

You may post your chart if you like, there may be something relevant in regards to your love life that we can comment on.

posted March 31, 2016 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by outofideas:
Hey, i'm sorry you're feeling down.
I have noticed in my life that whenever i am more relaxed about something and generally feel/hope it's going to be good and bring positives i am almost instantaneously proven otherwise...

If you accept that life is about learning lessons that help us grow (at least that's what my life has taught me) you would be more comfortable with the challenges and hurdles that appear.
Happiness comes from within and it's a bad idea to rely on others for your general well-being. I have fallen in this trap before... the lesson is learn to be happy with oneself first, only then can you attract really valuable people in your life.

That picture you saw may not mean much... but whatever it may mean it should not affect your mood or your entire life in a negative way.
You probably feel like you finally want to settle with "the one", maybe it is a little fixated in your subconscious. Perhaps you think this must happen in order for you to be able to express your full potential in life.
If you keep seeing that love life is not quite working for you right now, then step back a little, get yourself together, do your own stuff. Try to become happy and content with your own self first. If a certain picture or relationship is really bringing you down then you are not as confident as you can be.
Start taking care of yourself and new and better opportunities will come up! You don't have to settle for second best, so look for a guy who you are happy with and compliments your own self, instead of someone who you expect to make you happy.

You are probably in your early twenties or even younger... life is ahead of you!
When you meet a nicer guy do not be quick to have any sort of expectations, e.g. "i hope this is the one"; "i hope we can do this and that together".
No, drop all of that. Instead, just enjoy it for what it is at first, don't be quick to assume anything. If it goes really well, then you can probably take it a step further, if it's not at all what you'd like it to be then don't be disappointed!
Just move on without letting it bring you down, because that's not what it is even about.

You may post your chart if you like, there may be something relevant in regards to your love life that we can comment on.

I just wanted to give you my sincere support!
And your english is not at all bad, so don't worry about that!
Cheer up and feel better soon!

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posted March 31, 2016 12:04 PM            

It was a simple guess that you are in your early twenties, i suppose it's just that during this age it's very likely to go through some of these issues.

posted March 31, 2016 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by outofideas:
I'm glad you are already feeling better!

It was a simple guess that you are in your early twenties, i suppose it's just that during this age it's very likely to go through some of these issues.

You can include asteroids if you want to, hopefully someone will be able to comment on them. I, personally, can see only the general stuff in a chart for right now...

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posted April 01, 2016 04:40 PM            

First of all you are a Virgo Sun and Mercury, loosely conjunct - Virgos are popular for trying to be helpful and of service to others.
Sun in 12th house - your identity and ego may be a bit lost or are not really seen by others.

Ascendant and North Node in Libra (the sign which is more about others than the self) ruled by Venus - the planet of pleasure and love which falls in to Leo, whose ruler is the Sun, and for you that is in Virgo... So lol you are bound to be a person who will seek love and will often put others first.
You are beautiful and you take care of yourself and how you look, and you love it when people are positive about it, giving you the attention and appreciation. And with the NN in Libra you will really want a relationship and harmony, which you might find in secluded and far away places (12th house) or just deeply in your subconscious. You may also readily sacrifice for others.
Ruler of the 12th house in the 11th (Mercury) - this could simply mean lots of communication with foreign friends. Your Mercury is at home in Virgo and is well aspected so in general you can be successful when doing business with foreign sources and or through your social network.

With Venus in Leo you really seek for specific things in a person and you want that passion and romance in your love life to be exciting and a bit like out of a movie. Love for you also would need to be fun and playful, you enjoy receiving attention. As this is in the 10th house your public image is very important to you, you dress nicely and this is how others see you in this house - as a kind, loving, good-looking and affectionate person.
It's important for you to achieve things on your own and this will make you feel very valuable and others will see that too. This will make you happy and by working for your self-worth your relationships will benefit.
It's very likely that you will be looking for similar qualities in your partner - you would like someone with a good standing in the public, who looks nice and is liked by other people, someone who is very noticeable among the crowd. A respectable man who has earned his good image and has authority will be attractive to you.

7th house cusp ruler is Mars, also in the 10th house, barely conjunct Venus.
You may really meet your husband in a business setting or a corporate environment, he may be your co-worker or your boss, someone who is in a really good position within the company, authoritative, energetic, strong, determined.
With Mars trining Pluto you have great vitality, persistence and ability to recover your energy and stamina, physically transform your body and fight off diseases well. Even though there may be ups and downs in life with this position, Mars is exalted in this house. With Uranus opposing it you may like to use your energy on unconventional and original things. You are action-oriented and assertive but you may not always achieve everything.

Moon and Jupiter conjunct in Capricorn in the 3rd.
With this conjunction you should be highly intuitive and a very happy person, although these squares it receives may be actually making you feel down more often and like you're not worthy enough, needing to work harder.
Jupiter in a female's chart represents the husband and when it is conjunct your Moon in the 3rd house there may be lots of communication and short-distance travel in your relationship. He should be very talkative, caring and responsive to your emotional needs. This position also confirms that you may be working together and have the same ideas.

posted April 01, 2016 05:40 PM            

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Originally posted by outofideas:
Hey once again!
I am looking at your chart right now and i'm going to touch on what i see.

First of all you are a Virgo Sun and Mercury, loosely conjunct - Virgos are popular for trying to be helpful and of service to others.
Sun in 12th house - your identity and ego may be a bit lost or are not really seen by others.

Ascendant and North Node in Libra (the sign which is more about others than the self) ruled by Venus - the planet of pleasure and love which falls in to Leo, whose ruler is the Sun, and for you that is in Virgo... So lol you are bound to be a person who will seek love and will often put others first.
You are beautiful and you take care of yourself and how you look, and you love it when people are positive about it, giving you the attention and appreciation. And with the NN in Libra you will really want a relationship and harmony, which you might find in secluded and far away places (12th house) or just deeply in your subconscious. You may also readily sacrifice for others.
Ruler of the 12th house in the 11th (Mercury) - this could simply mean lots of communication with foreign friends. Your Mercury is at home in Virgo and is well aspected so in general you can be successful when doing business with foreign sources and or through your social network.

With Venus in Leo you really seek for specific things in a person and you want that passion and romance in your love life to be exciting and a bit like out of a movie. Love for you also would need to be fun and playful, you enjoy receiving attention. As this is in the 10th house your public image is very important to you, you dress nicely and this is how others see you in this house - as a kind, loving, good-looking and affectionate person.
It's important for you to achieve things on your own and this will make you feel very valuable and others will see that too. This will make you happy and by working for your self-worth your relationships will benefit.
It's very likely that you will be looking for similar qualities in your partner - you would like someone with a good standing in the public, who looks nice and is liked by other people, someone who is very noticeable among the crowd. A respectable man who has earned his good image and has authority will be attractive to you.

7th house cusp ruler is Mars, also in the 10th house, barely conjunct Venus.
You may really meet your husband in a business setting or a corporate environment, he may be your co-worker or your boss, someone who is in a really good position within the company, authoritative, energetic, strong, determined.
With Mars trining Pluto you have great vitality, persistence and ability to recover your energy and stamina, physically transform your body and fight off diseases well. Even though there may be ups and downs in life with this position, Mars is exalted in this house. With Uranus opposing it you may like to use your energy on unconventional and original things. You are action-oriented and assertive but you may not always achieve everything.

Moon and Jupiter conjunct in Capricorn in the 3rd.
With this conjunction you should be highly intuitive and a very happy person, although these squares it receives may be actually making you feel down more often and like you're not worthy enough, needing to work harder.
Jupiter in a female's chart represents the husband and when it is conjunct your Moon in the 3rd house there may be lots of communication and short-distance travel in your relationship. He should be very talkative, caring and responsive to your emotional needs. This position also confirms that you may be working together and have the same ideas.

With emphasis on your love life potential i hope this analysis resonates, especially the positives of it.
Let me know

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