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Topic: ILP some thoughts/ feedback
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intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 4629
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 15, 2016 01:06 PM
  
You mentioned hiding/lies.. and someone not being honest.
After calming down..
Remembering our old fights anf jealousy and what not..
He has a certain way of expressing himself and he isnt always open or he says things with double meaning..I kinda think he maybe wants to avoid misunderstandings or having to explain himself and what he posts.
I guess maybe he still wants to be "free"
I know his past gf was very judgy and even asked for his fb password so maybe he tries to avoid all this now? I still think its stupid and mean but could this be what your reading was pointing to? IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 4093
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 15, 2016 01:34 PM
Him being not open is true.With the snake it had something to do with him having problems/complications. Hes not being open about that.. I'm trying to under stand it. I asked was he being honest to you about this facebook thing. I see that someone is may be hurt by something.. I dont know if hes been doing this for a long time or that does he ever argue with you or has there been a time where he sometimes be closed off and it keeps happening its a bit hard to explain. I see a repeat here or something regarding a situation between you two and seems a s though someone is not always open to another person. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 4629
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 15, 2016 01:37 PM
Yes he does this. Shuts down and pulls away. Then returns like nothing happened.
We havent argued in a long time.
This wasnt an argument but it was hurtful to me.I do think he is having bad experiences with someone else. Which may reflect on this. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 4629
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 15, 2016 01:53 PM
If you dont mind..Does he want to hurt me thats what I dont understand?
Or does he not realize his actions hurt me? Thank you IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 4093
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 15, 2016 02:07 PM
This what I get...I see that hes being closed off because it has something to do with the past, may be its because of how he is but if not then its has something to do with, may be you're connected to it but I think that the last card is saying that because you two aren't together which I dont think so? But it talks about a separation that had happened in the past.. Woman - book (tree) - tower I dont think he wants to hurt you but I keep getting someone not being open. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 4629
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 15, 2016 02:13 PM
It makes sense.
Thesre is a lot to the story of us and a lot happened.
We both hurt eachother in the past.
I thought we were building something new but I guess not.Its like he doesnt want to start fresh and sabotages the process. Right now no we are not together and we are seperated with distance also. Thsnk you ILP IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 4093
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Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 15, 2016 02:24 PM
If you want me to pull more let me know because I feel a bit bad. I dont really know how he feels. :/IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 4629
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 15, 2016 02:29 PM
Its ok.. i think cards are reflecting my emotions now as I am totally drained.Yesterday I told him about a death that happened to someone I know.. in all this that also hit me.. Now he texted back a "😳" smiley. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
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posted April 15, 2016 02:33 PM
Thats kinda weird to text back a smiley.. Especially if its something sad. :/IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 4629
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 15, 2016 02:48 PM
Like you said he is closed off.
Its like he doesnt want to talk really but it would be really unkind to say nothing.I wont reply. IP: Logged |
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