posted April 16, 2016 09:28 PM            

I wasn't aware that you owe me a reading. Thanks for doing this for me This is the only thing that is plaguing my mind at the moment. I have developed some deep feelings for J after knowing him platonically for three years and then marrying someone else. He is supporting me through my divorce. Some have said this a rebound relationship. It's not. We have recently experienced the physical side of our relationship and even though it was a rocky start we can both see the passion is there. I think he just started to see N so I would still like to know if they are gong to wind up living together. I need to prepare myself for this.

posted April 17, 2016 03:32 PM            

sorry for replying so late but i had very little time left.

Ok, i pulled for the 2 of them: 9 of wands queen of wands 5 of wands rx hierophant and 9 of swords

It doesn't look promising at all for them. Maybe it will take some time but i see her waiting for an improvement, really trying to do so but i see nothing but misunderstandings or struggles. The relationship will cool down leaving her devastated

I hope it worked since i don't know if it works if i read for people who are not asking and who are not present

posted April 24, 2016 03:15 AM            

I am seeing J on Thursday and want to tell him that I feel our physical relationship should be put on hold or we just have a friendship without benefits and that he should just concentrate on N. He seems very unemotional. *The feedback is I just found out that their relationship is coming to a close and that he plans to break it off with her. You were right!

posted April 25, 2016 04:49 AM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Bumping up so not to get lost in the crowd

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i will get back to you resp pull for you later today (evening CET time)

posted April 25, 2016 11:08 AM            

child, birds, bear, stork, anchor, ship
clarifiers - mountain, cross, sun

The bear is your focus card, it would be S.
It looks like things are a bit slow in that you are both "feeling each other out." This is showing with the child, an air of wonderment, newness. Birds next to the bear is showing listen to your intuition, gather information about him (bear). The stork normally shows news but I feel with the anchor and then ship it is showing a secure progression. O.K. your clarifiers. The mountain next to the cross is showing a bit of a struggle happening in your relationship, just a bit trying to make this relationship happen but you've got the sun as your future. Very positive card!

* More updates haha I saw J on Sunday. Thursday wouldn't work for us. I told him that I feel we should put our relationship on hold because I feel he is very conflicted in what he wants. I don't know how he really felt about it. But he did give me a hug and kiss after so that was good.

posted April 25, 2016 12:39 PM            

So, i asked if J, will open more physically:

3 of swords 3 of pents king of pents 3 of wands and 5 of wands
-> No, he won't. For me this looks like that he rather wants to spend constructive time with you, becoming more serious with you. Finding opportunities and struggling to do so. I see the King of pents as the boyfriend card also.

If i remember correctly, my previous spread did indicate that your relationship will become more emotional, probably ending in exclusive dating.

posted April 25, 2016 02:34 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Thanks Enneline

He told me that one of the reasons that he had two failed marriages is because he is so close to his brother. They are identical twins and VERY close. He mentioned this is just the way he is. I was beginning to think he might have homosexual leanings haha. Well we'll see how things play out. Let me know how your relationship progress as I like feedback too

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oh, wow. Gay?! can't believe this!

posted April 25, 2016 02:51 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
I was joking honey

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Don't do this ever again to me Hahaha

posted May 01, 2016 04:00 AM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Still willing Enneline? Would love to hear from you Poochy XX

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posted May 01, 2016 04:00 PM            

General (for the next 3 months):

justice (clarifier: 5 of swords) 6 of pents 10 of pents 5 of wands(clarifier: 7 of swords) and 8 of swords (clarifier: ace of cups):

Okay, i see the justice card + 5 of swords as indicators for your upcoming divorce. 6 of pents is all about forgiving- or paying back or receiving a credit. But i think facing a divorce and J's unpleasant behaviour, it's also about emotional forgiveness.
The 10 of pents is one of my favorite cards; it's a huge yes card for any questions, it indicates happiness both materially and emotionally, so a great sign that in general all work out well resp. not too bad for you. You will be financially settled + you will be receiving support from your dear ones or/and people around you. The last 2 cards 5 of wands and 8 of swords speak for the situation with J i think. It will continue to be a bit harsh with him but nonetheless your desire to be with him will remain.

Specifcially i pulled for you and J:

judgement knight of pents 2 of wands the hanged man and 7 of wands
-> sorry, this doesn't look too promising i see that the 2 of you or at least one of you will "bring the topic on the table" (as you would put it in Germany) and all will take place with a sensible and down to earth vibration, no big drama. Unfortunately i don't see a happy come together. The relationship will be stucked somehow, one not willing to go any further. (the first spread indicated that as well)

Well, these are spreads for the next 3 months. Who knows what life will bring after that period of time Wishing you all the best

posted May 01, 2016 09:25 PM            

Thanks for my readings. The divorce already went through and M will be living in Hawaii for six months so I won't hear or see him. My family has not been that supportive, it is more so from J and my friends. You were right in that there is a bit of distance happening but that is my own doing as I told him that I want to put the physical side of our relationship on hold. Several readings that I have had say that it will continue in about five weeks. Three timing readings have said the same thing. I know the feelings from him are pure but don't know why he is holding back. He recently broke off with a lady (N). You might have mentioned that he would.