posted May 05, 2016 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Hi Blyss,

Some feedback for you :

You had said I should take things for my comfort when travelling to Greece, and I did. Your advice was exactly right as everything I took along made a huge difference. Without a shawl I would have been very cold, for example.

Also you said that I would get lots and strong info for my research - yes, that is happening right now. So, I'm thrilled. You were wunderbar .

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posted May 05, 2016 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Would you like to exchange? Just 1 or 2 questions though

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posted May 05, 2016 05:10 PM            

1- how did I do in the t exam (was yesterday)?

posted May 05, 2016 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Post your qs.

1- how did I do in the t exam (was yesterday)?

2- how did I do in the cp exam (was 6 hours back)?

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I see that you have done well on both. For the first one, it seems that you went in feeling quite confident, but when the test came you were like hmm this is pushing my confidence a bit! But overall, it seems you did perform strongly even if it was not the feeling of it being totally easy. I think you will do slightly worse than you thought going in on the first one, but still a good score that you'll be satisfied with.. and I think you'll do better than expected on the second

please update when you get the results! I sure hope that i am right.

posted May 05, 2016 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
If you want to 'stick it' to your ex, then yes. The star, 9 of coins and the 10 of swords. Anything you do will hurt your ex, but it will be the best for you and your daughter. You will need to make that decision on your own and try to answer if your daughter and your collective interests outweighs the ex's interests and the consequences..

Yes, the first one was a bit.. iffy. It was hard! Both were hard tbh. More exams next week!

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It isn't even that I want to stick it to him.. I really don't. I just don't think he deserves to have legal rights to her because he doesn't even call her more than 3x per month.. He doesn't even know her!! I am thinking about doing it because I think it may be the right thing to do, and that I need to do what is right without living in fear! I think I will consult my lawyer and see what he thinks...

posted May 05, 2016 05:32 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Thanks missy- honestly, it's a lot less pressure than the exams in the past, so that's always great

Coming from a person with divorced parents, do what is best for your daughter in the long term. Meaning, if you have 100% control, you will be able to make quick and efficient decisions regarding school, meds, injury and other emergencies.

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It is hard for me to say what is best, because even though he has legal rights he doesn't use them... He never calls to get involved with any of those things. He hasn't called me to talk about her since January.

posted May 06, 2016 01:25 AM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
I would focus on the long term. Getting her a passport et al. I know he uses it as a threat, which makes his rights moot. Allow visitation, but not shared custody. Courts tend to go with the female and competent parent.

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