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VacantGazer Knowflake Posts: 3226 From: Pluto Registered: Dec 2014
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posted May 08, 2016 12:46 PM
Hi All,I have a question on questions to ask in readings. What questions do you feel should/shouldnt be asked and if you are a reader what questions would you feel uncomfortable asking. Sometimes im wondering for my self what questions im allowed to ask and i would like to know on other peoples opinions on this topic. There are questions i wont ask and i wonder if its hindering my own development because im perhaps being too cautious where there is maybe no need. On the same token im interested in knowing in how much information you would want to be told in a reading? For me i dont like knowing definite outcomes(if i dont ask for it) as i like the window of opportunity to remain open. What are your thoughts and opinions? Thanks Pla dnt quote might edit later IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 25710 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 08, 2016 12:56 PM
I donīt believe there ARE definite outcomes. Even if we ask for them, it`s only a likely outcome based on the Now, but it is not written in the stars so to speak. Questions not to ask, well I donīt think there are questions not to ask, however you should be sure you want to hear the answer.
What I personally do not like are questions about health and death (in fact maybe the question about when someone is going to die is the Numero one question not to ask for me, besides it cannot be answered anyway)
I do not shy away from 3rd people questions, as long as they are of importance to the one asking. But of course I know thre are people who would say those are a big No-no-no. Usually I can sense when I have crossed a line. My cards, especially my tarot cards, are very clear and distinct when that happens. They start feeling rigid and cold and sometimes sticky in my hands and like rocks. I mean they start feeling so heavy, and if I am still stubborn enough, I will usually get all swords card, preferably the 7 of swords, 5 of swords 10 of swords and Knight/King/Queen of swords in a row And then if this still does not help, my cards will suddenly jump out of my hand and I can collect them all from the floor, and then I know I really ****** them off today. End of line. Take a break. LOL
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missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1399 From: neverneverland Registered: Oct 2015
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posted May 08, 2016 02:30 PM
I think asking about the inner-workings of other people's relationships is intrusive.. I think the BEST questions involve seeing the higher perspective of your situation, what is your lesson? how can you grow? what can YOU do to get the outcome you desire?IP: Logged |
VacantGazer Knowflake Posts: 3226 From: Pluto Registered: Dec 2014
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posted May 08, 2016 02:54 PM
Thanks Ceri! Sometimes when im reading the cards will end up on the floor, i take it as my energy is scattered and time to take a break lol, but what you say makes sense there. For me i'm uncomfortable answering legal questions or health ones, but with health ones i will be honest i have tried reading on myself before. Death is a nono, i think its wrong to attempt to predict it. Questions about other people, it depends. If the question relates directly to the querent(eg wanting to know on how someone feels for the querent or what they want from them - as it would involve reading the combined energy of both hence also reading the querants energy) it is fine i think, or in some cases if the question is out of genuine concern for the 3rd person then it is perhaps ok too. But I personally find questions such as person B asking how person C feels about D a no-no or what C is getting up to today a no-no, but that is my own feeling, i think it is crossing the line. I would doubt the accuracy of such anyway as I think it does not involve the energy of the person asking. With regards to definite outcomes i think somethings(not everything) are destined but how we get there is up to us, but i know that readers get it wrong too. I dont think its good to be told things like "you will end up with B then split after a few years" I feel like definite outcomes take the power away from the querant, someone might have taken it as absolute truth. Why bother get with B after that. These are just my own thoughts Please dont quote might edit later IP: Logged |
VacantGazer Knowflake Posts: 3226 From: Pluto Registered: Dec 2014
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posted May 08, 2016 02:56 PM
Thanks Miss, I think the cards are great for learning about yourself Pls dnt quote IP: Logged | |