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Topic: 9 of wands and judgement reversed
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SunAscendant
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posted May 14, 2016 09:16 PM
  
What do these two together mean when asking what someone thinks of me? Could it mean that after working hard (9 of wands) to go through a period of self-judgement and evaluation (Judgement rx), he found himself regretting past actions and feeling immensely guilty for what he did to me (he basically insulted me for simply breaking up and wanting to get back with him... like he really cut me down) . Maybe now he feels that it's time to ask for forgiveness from me. Perhaps he's feeling paranoid and on high alert because he knows he f*cked up so hard with me and was SO unjustly mean.I don't know, that's just one thought... IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted May 14, 2016 09:47 PM
I can give you intuitive feedback if you're interested (some are not).IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
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posted May 14, 2016 10:01 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
I can give you intuitive feedback if you're interested (some are not).
Sure go ahead. If you happen to have any insight to the cards then that works too.
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
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posted May 14, 2016 10:02 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
I can give you intuitive feedback if you're interested (some are not).
I'm a Taurus as well, so maybe we'll understand each other.
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LostTaurus
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posted May 14, 2016 10:06 PM
The cards indicate that he has done a bit of self-analysis relative to your fallout, and that he's less-than-proud of his behavior. However, I don't get the sense that he'll be coming to you with an open mea culpa anytime soon at all. He's embarrassed and ashamed for his extreme reaction, but it feels like he's managed to justify it to some degree in his head and that he just really wants to put it all in the past.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
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posted May 14, 2016 10:17 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
The cards indicate that he has done a bit of self-analysis relative to your fallout, and that he's less-than-proud of his behavior. However, I don't get the sense that he'll be coming to you with an open mea culpa anytime soon at all. He's embarrassed and ashamed for his extreme reaction, but it feels like he's managed to justify it to some degree in his head and that he just really wants to put it all in the past.
I feel sorry for him for not being able to swallow his pride. Poor thing. I mean he KNOWS that I would never laugh at him for apologizing to me. Oh well. I'm glad he realizes that what he said to me was wrong and hurtful.
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LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1700
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posted May 14, 2016 10:53 PM
That's a good and healthy way to look at it, Sun.  IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
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posted May 14, 2016 11:18 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
That's a good and healthy way to look at it, Sun.
Thank you. He is the one who should feel immature and sad if he can't even apologize. I refuse to feel bad myself. Thank you  IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1700
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posted May 14, 2016 11:19 PM
Of course! IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
From: California
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posted May 14, 2016 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Of course!
It sucks because I still have feelings for him and would respect him so much if he apologized, but I guess if it's meant to be it'll be... and if not then oh well :\. I was born on Earth Day, so at least I'm down to earth unlike him lol. That was a bad joke... IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 786
From: Hungary
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posted May 15, 2016 06:03 AM
My first thought was that maybe he's afraid of being judged. / And maybe he victimises himself. Ego problem definitely there.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
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posted May 15, 2016 06:25 AM
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Originally posted by Emsie:
My first thought was that maybe he's afraid of being judged. / And maybe he victimises himself. Ego problem definitely there.
I kind of got that too. I don't know what he's afraid of being judged for... He's the one who judged me haha. I kind of made myself look pathetic by telling him how "good" he was  . He mentioned her had self-esteem issues despite the fact that he's quite outgoing and popular with people. I could tell he was hiding how he really felt. IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 786
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posted May 15, 2016 06:37 AM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I kind of got that too. I don't know what he's afraid of being judged for... He's the one who judged me haha. I kind of made myself look pathetic by telling him how "good" he was . He mentioned her had self-esteem issues despite the fact that he's quite outgoing and popular with people. I could tell he was hiding how he really felt.
Believe it or not, but that's an ongoing theme in my life as well these days. And I don't know what exactly is going on, but this month I hear more and more stories about 'being judged'. A lot of people seem to have jealousy and self-esteem issues, and they judge others out of envy. There's one person who recently projected her issues at me, and thou there weren't any direct attacks from her, but I feel that certain amount of negative energy trying to pull me in. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
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posted May 15, 2016 06:52 AM
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Originally posted by Emsie:
Believe it or not, but that's an ongoing theme in my life as well these days. And I don't know what exactly is going on, but this month I hear more and more stories about 'being judged'. A lot of people seem to have jealousy and self-esteem issues, and they judge others out of envy. There's one person who recently projected her issues at me, and thou there weren't any direct attacks from her, but I feel that certain amount of negative energy trying to pull me in.
Yikes that's terrible. I don't think he's jealous of me or anything (I feel like he thinks he's better than me), but I do think he judges himself or judges other people when they said and did nothing wrong. Like I can see if maybe they made a snide comment, but it's weird when you don't say or do anything mean and people still come for you guns blazing. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1700
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 15, 2016 11:21 AM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
It sucks because I still have feelings for him and would respect him so much if he apologized, but I guess if it's meant to be it'll be... and if not then oh well :\. I was born on Earth Day, so at least I'm down to earth unlike him lol. That was a bad joke...
Haha! Yes, but I sometimes love bad jokes  Is he an Aries? Air sign? I feel a lot of that energy in him. I think there may be a time where he musters the wherewithal to say what should be said, but that there's a lot of growing left to do before that happens. Shame can be a powerful master. It takes many people a lot of time to realize that we can only be released from its grip when we acknowledge our role in it wholly. IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 786
From: Hungary
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posted May 15, 2016 12:29 PM
Sounds like he has inferiority complex/issues as well. :/IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
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posted May 15, 2016 04:35 PM
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Originally posted by Emsie:
Sounds like he has inferiority complex/issues as well. :/
Yeah basically :/ IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
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posted May 15, 2016 04:37 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Haha! Yes, but I sometimes love bad jokes Is he an Aries? Air sign? I feel a lot of that energy in him. I think there may be a time where he musters the wherewithal to say what should be said, but that there's a lot of growing left to do before that happens. Shame can be a powerful master. It takes many people a lot of time to realize that we can only be released from its grip when we acknowledge our role in it wholly.
He's a Virgo surprisingly. His chart is actually super compatible with mine, but obviously he doesn't want to b IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1700
From: Conway, AR, USA
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posted May 15, 2016 05:08 PM
Ahhhh...his being a Virgo definitely explains this: quote:
Originally posted by LostTaurus:
The cards indicate that he has done a bit of self-analysis relative to your fallout, and that he's less-than-proud of his behavior. However, I don't get the sense that he'll be coming to you with an open mea culpa anytime soon at all. He's embarrassed and ashamed for his extreme reaction, but it feels like he's managed to justify it to some degree in his head and that he just really wants to put it all in the past.
...but I wonder where I'm getting such a strong (because it is strong) sense of air sign out of him. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
From: California
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posted May 15, 2016 05:22 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Ahhhh...his being a Virgo definitely explains this: ...but I wonder where I'm getting such a strong (because it is [b]strong) sense of air sign out of him.[/B]
He has his Venus, Mars, Vertex, Psyche, Saturn (as do I since it's generational), South Node, Juno and MC in Air lol!
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LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1700
From: Conway, AR, USA
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posted May 15, 2016 05:28 PM
Ha! Well. This would explain it. 0.0  IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 1013
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 15, 2016 05:46 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Ha! Well. This would explain it. 0.0
True. Air signs aren't as thoughtful aa earth or water. I mean sure they THINK, but they're not thoughtful. IP: Logged |
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